05/01/2024
Looking at the picture on the left disgusts me.
Look at that gut. No veins, no tan. Just a fat ass disguised as a bodybuilder.
I went to the gym every day and was fairly strong too.
So many people praised me as being āthe big guyā, but you wouldnāt have caught me dead with my shirt off.
That version of me lacked confidence and self esteem, because despite the praises from others, I knew I was cheating myself. I knew I had become too comfortable.
My daily habits and disciplines were s**t. My food choices were also s**t. I was 250lbs of fat f**k in that first pic.
Fast forward to the pic on the right. Iām 222lbs, single digit bodyfat, and confident as ever. My energy has improved. My self worth has improved. Everyone around me sees it and feels it. My business and income is growing faster than ever before.
Creating a set of daily habits and non negotiables was all it took. Hiring some mentors and surrounding myself with winners was paramount.
Youāre not stuck. Youāre not done. Youāre just lazy, arrogant, and entitled. I can fix that.
If you want to take control of your body and mind, once and for all, shoot me a DM. Talkers leave me be. Doers only in this club.
04/19/2024
The destination is divine
Take this as your sign
Stay consistent and grateful
Give it a little more time
04/05/2024
Girls, sports, stupid ass netflix shows ā¦ā¦we donāt talk about any of the garbage.
When me and my circle get together, weāre talking about things that actually matter. Money, self improvement, and physical, mental, and spiritual development.
The most important thing that you need to evaluate and take account of, are the people you share your life with. They will make you or break you.
You canāt be in shape if youāre surrounded by fat people. You canāt be optimistic if youāre around negative people. You will never become rich, hanging around brokies.
Most of you will read this, understand what Iām saying, and then do nothing about it. Itās the sad reality for most of you.
But for the ones that are ready to flip the table, turn the page, and make the moveā¦.the reality that awaits you will be sweet.
What are you waiting on?
04/02/2024
For Sale šŖ§
Since I was young, Iāve dreamed of having a car like this. So, when I moved to Miami, I made it happen.
It didnāt take long to realize how low I had set the bar for myself. How touchable my ceiling was and had always been.
See, itās a double edge sword surrounding yourself with winners. Winners force you to grow. Winners force you to expand. Winners force you to think on a higher vibration.
From here, we remove the good things, so we can replace them with the great things. Iām all in this year and I hope you are as well. This year is personal.
Make me an offer.
2022 Range Rover Sport
33k miles
Black on black (as always)
03/29/2024
They say itās not what you know, but who you know that mattersā¦.and in a world full of doubters, unbelievers, and negative, pessimistic bi***es, it pays to have a friend like ā¼ļø
Thereās no dream too big for this guy. No matter what kind of crazy vision I have for my life, he not only believes in and supports it, but will spend hours with me discussing and brainstorming the best ways to make it happen. ā¼ļø
Thereās never doubt in our conversations. Thereās never jealousy or envy in them either. Neither one of us believes we canāt have anything we desire. People like this are rare, but if you can find one, keep them close. Sometimes itās that one external voice from someone else that says āyou canā thatās just enough to see your internal voice through to completionā¼ļø
03/27/2024
Perpetually unperplexed š„±
03/25/2024
I hope ________ happens one day. I wish I could live like that. I wish I could provide that life for my kids and family.
Wishing and hoping are cute. They are feel-good words for people who would rather āhope forā than learn and work for.
If youāre putting in the work at the gym and on your diet, you donāt have to HOPE for a better body. It just happens.
If youāre hiring business coaches/mentors, putting in more hours than anyone else, and working 7 days a week, you wonāt have to HOPE for success. It just happens.
Today is Monday. Enough of the excuses. Youāve been HOPING for a better situation YOUR ENTIRE LIFE AND IT AINT WORKED YET!
Today, commit to the grind. Today, commit to the work. Today, do more. Today, get the job done. Today, choke out your excuses.
Because I promise you, PROMISE you, the people living your dream life are š
03/21/2024
When losers go through hard s**t, they think āpoor meā
When winners go through hard s**t, they think āpoor everyone whoās gonna try and catch meā
03/14/2024
Vulnerability post.
In recent years, Iāve developed the inability to enjoy relaxing or ātaking some time offā. That mindset was curated in myself to cheer on productivity, work ethic, and success. And itās been working. Life is pretty great.
Until I decide to āchillā that is. It eats me alive at times. It makes me feel guilt for not continuing to optimize myself, my business, my legacy. For whatever reason, I donāt equate rest (outside of my nightly sleep) with having any part to do with success. Iām wise enough to know the folly in that statement, yet my actions often back it up.
Last weekend was alot of chill time. Relaxing with friends and watching time fly by with no real movement forward in any one direction. Momentumless action. While the people around me had a blast, I struggled at times.
Itās a double edge sword. I donāt perceive this as a weakness. I want to live a life most never will. And that requires doing things most wonāt ever be willing to do. Iām cool with that. I choose that. But recently, just trying to enjoy the present a bit more, while also striving for the future I know is mine.
This isnāt a pity post. Papi is great. Just wondering if thereās others out there that struggle with similar things. Keep it real.
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