09/26/2026
If you already have it in your mind that there’s something wrong about a person, situation, or whatever is in front of you..you’ll find the “something wrong.” Sadly, the truth is that we use it as a reason to not like it, them, or again whatever the case may be.
No. Not because there’s something “wrong” with everybody. And we all need to extend a little more grace. Sure; that’s very true and helpful, no doubt.
I’m talking about perception. I’m talking about motive.
Fault-finding exposes “flaws” in others and it eats up all your time, everybody else’s energy, and is never helpful.
Do you feel satisfied after you spend hours trying to “figure out” why you hate everybody around you?
Listen, I’ve lived on both sides of the fence. I’ve been through, seen things, experienced situations I wouldn’t even share with my worst enemy if I had one because I don’t want to out any living soul through the hell Ive walked through. Ive been pulled straight outta darkness and I don’t want anybody to go to that place ive been rescued from. Even years later, discovering the truth.. that these horrifying situations that I “got myself into” well, some of them (not all, some) turned out to be purposefully staged and designed by others who didn’t like me so that I’d slip and fall. Because they thought I had all these problems that I didn’t actually have. The calculated downfall, demise, that they’ll never have to take responsibility for or even be held accountable for (this side of heaven that is) and I share that to emphasize the matter at hand..
This is the fruit we get when Jesus ain’t at the center.
What do you do. I didn’t know until I found one thing that mattered above all that nasty entanglement I could never seem to get away from or defeat on my own… forgive them and move on, don’t carry that stuff around with you.
At all costs.
Raise the bar. Focus on something else. Lest the bullied become the bully.
Yall. Not tolerating bullies doesn’t mean lashing out, doesn’t even mean calling them out, and it certainly doesn’t mean avenging yourself publicly by slandering the slanderer.
I’m attempting to create an environment for education with an open heaven. But an open heaven starts with an individual and the decisions that one makes each day in their heart, to think better, to focus on life not death, to let hope overtake the little annoyances we have, the issues that we take in because everybody around us is frustrated about it but it really ain’t that serious..
This is no easy gig we have here. To drown out all that noise and think “positively” if you want to call it that. What about when you sit back and just think for yourself. Think your own thoughts for a minute.
What are your thoughts telling you today. What is your goal for the day, how do you want to see your friends, your teammates, your family, your neighborhood?
I bet they’re different than what you heard last night at wherever you were, doing whatever you were doing.
I’m not saying you have to follow the same road I took but I highly recommend it. There’s a tree of life that produces fruit all year long in this road. And it’s not for everyone but it was made for everyone. When I put myself in this tree and walk this path, my head clears, my eyes shift, and I see differently. I hear and I think differently. And it produces more life-giving fruit.
And it really changes things. Not just in me but around me.
The chatter and the complaining, the backbiting, fades into a muted distant place and I laugh at things I once held onto so tightly that just aren’t that big of a deal. I collaborate better, I smile more. And man if I didn’t work harder from this place… there lights a fire in me that is unstoppable and it doesn’t come from white knuckling, trying to prove myself something, self-motivated grit and grind.
It’s other worldly. Because this doesn’t exist in the world.
The world doesn’t naturally love other people. Doesn’t want to work for the common good, doesn’t have compassion for anything, the world calls it empathy, and to have empathy you have to have gone through that thing to relate to a person and again I aim for you to avoid that dark and dreadful path at all costs. I don’t want to empathize with you. I have to be in a position to pull you up out of your situation so you can breathe that fresh air and look. And look again. At what’s around you.
I guess I just wanted to say if you feel that everything around you is kind of chaotic all the time and confusion is the main player rather than hope and clarity..
Again I’m not suggesting that I live some life now without problems or obstacles or things to overcome.. the opposite is way more true.
Because I choose everyday to go the narrow way I actually get hit with more difficulties and there’s a reason for that, but what I do have are the tools I need to be victorious in any situation.
Failures become W’s because of where my heart is at.
Thoughts that are good about what everybody is complaining about arise and it’s not denial. It’s truth. I’m not even focused on what others are burning a hole through.
I’m over here disciplining my thoughts and we passed that thing a long time ago and now I’m joyfully making myself a better team player because I found a better way to live everyday not being the center of my own universe.
Jesus at the center. I am living proof of this (and I’m preaching to the choir today..)
“Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness. THEN all these things will be added to you” all the stuff, all the things we desire, that stuff starts to change when we seek the kingdom first. And then.. he still adds it to us. And usually when we forgot we even wanted it. And it’s fruit that gives life. To us, to others, everybody benefits from it.
If you want to try something different. Let me know. Maybe we’ve got something for you. A
We’re all in this together.
Aviators of Fastpitch