10/19/2026
If you have a specific academic concern, absolutely bring it up. But save time for these:
1. Who do they spend time with at lunch or recess?
- Who do they connect with, and do they seem included?
2. What do they do when the work feels too hard?
- Knowing the pattern gives you something specific to practice at home.
3. Who do they turn to when they’re upset?
- If they aren’t reaching out, ask how you can work together to help them feel comfortable doing so.
4. When during the day are they most settled and engaged?
- Look for patterns around transitions, energy, and activities. Those observations may help you rethink their routine.
5. How do they respond when they get something wrong?
- Can they try again? Do they hide their work or get frustrated? Ask what helps them recover so you can reinforce it at home.
6. Have you seen them help someone?
- You may discover a quiet act of kindness your child never thought to mention.
7. What’s one thing we could do at home to support them?
- Make it specific and manageable. Write it down, and agree on how you’ll follow up.
Give the teacher room to answer. Then choose one thing you learned and make one change at home.
The value of the meeting is in what you do afterward.