Cindy Snyder - Life and Business Coaching

Assumptions

Lately, there have been quite a few people messaging me who have made assumptions based solely on my physical appearance (mainly my weight).

I had one such message over the weekend. I responded back politely and informed this person that my weight is the result of a number of medical issues and not something I can control.

They responded back and said "But it's your body. You're in control of it." Oh, how I wish this was true!

I hope this person never has to experience what it feels like when your body betrays you and you truly lose control of it because it's a horrible experience.

What's even worse is that this person claimed they had medical training. Clearly a flat out lie. One of the major reasons that my ideal clients are disabled and/or neurodivergent women is because I feel we get so many assumptions made about us and get unfairly judged frequently.

What assumptions or unfounded judgments have people made about you? How did it make you feel? What would you like those people to know?

Society tries to fit everyone into the same mold or box and that's not okay and quite honestly, it's not healthy for anyone.

𝘞𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘲𝘶𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘦 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘷𝘪𝘦𝘸𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘴 𝘸𝘦𝘢𝘬𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘳 𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘳𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘻𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘴𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘨𝘵𝘩𝘴. 💪

Our differences are what make the world a rich tapestry of experiences and abilities. 🌈

𝐈𝐧 𝐚 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐨𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐢𝐭 𝐮𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐬, 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐝𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐞𝐱𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐨𝐫𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐚𝐫𝐲!

"𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐝𝐨 𝐈 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐈 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐝𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬? 𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐦 𝐈 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞 𝐈 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐝𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬?"

Do you ever ask yourself these questions? I do; frequently, in fact.

♥ But you know what? It's okay! Those moments of self-doubt don't define us; they're just part of our journey. ♥

I want you to know that you're not alone. Even the most successful people have suffered from imposter syndrome and self doubt. I think you’d be hard pressed to find someone who has never had these feelings.

I want to remind you that I see you. 👁️‍🗨️I see your potential, your dreams, and your strength, even when you might not see it in yourself.

So, why do I think I can do this? Because I've faced adversity and come out stronger. 💪

Who am I to believe I can do this? I'm someone who believes in the power of growth, in the human capacity to overcome, and in the beauty of your unique journey.

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO DO THIS ALONE! I’m here to hold your hand, to guide you, to cheer you on, to celebrate ALL your wins, and to provide a safe and judgment free zone for you to spread your wings and fly. 💸🦋

In what ways do self doubt and imposter syndrome show up for you? Share in the comments and let’s support each other. 🤗

Out of literally billions of people, there is not one single other person that is 100% like you. We are all so unique and special. I think we need to remind ourselves of that more often

Self-approval is the catalyst for transformation. When you believe in yourself, amazing things happen. You radiate confidence, attract positivity, and manifest your dreams.

So, right now, make a promise to yourself: "I am worthy. I am enough. I approve of myself, flaws and all." Every time you start to doubt yourself or talk negatively to yourself, repeat these phrases.

Tag someone who needs this reminder and let's spread some positivity and love.

Wishing everyone a Happy Labor Day today!

Today, we celebrate the incredible dedication and hard work of the backbone of our nation - the workforce!

Whether you're on the front lines or behind the scenes, your contributions make our world go 'round.

So let's take a moment to honor all of the workers who give their all, day in and day out, to help build a brighter future.

I hope today is filled with R&R for all of you

Do you know you have great things to offer the world but aren't totally clear on what they are?

Are you ready for a change?

How would you like to live life and work completely on YOUR terms?

Everyone has something that they do better than anyone else in the world. That's your superpower. Once you discover what your superpower is, the possibilities are endless for you.

I'm looking for beta testers for my Discover and Activate your Superpowers course. This is a comprehensive program that offers self-paced coursework (including homework), as well as individual and group coaching.

The normal price will be $2997 but from now until September 30, I'm offering it at the beta price of $997! This can be split into 2 or 3 payments if needed.

Are you ready to unlock a world of possibilities? Sign up now and let's start thriving together

I'm thrilled to share my podcast appearance on The Sparking Entrepreneur show! I'd love to know what you think. https://shorturl.at/ejC14

Always remember that it's okay to not be okay! Your feelings are valid. Much love to you all

I'm so honored and excited to be speaking this Saturday at the Super Saturday Wellness Summit! What an amazing lineup! So please join us for whatever sessions appeal to you. For sure, all of them will be amazing. Hope to see you there 😁

My win is that I attended the Selling On The Spot Marketplace event this morning, which is for sure way out of my comfort zone. It's scary to step outside of your comfort zone but once you do it, it's a major feeling of accomplishment and a good confidence boost!

What are you celebrating? What wins did you have this week? Large or small, they all count and should be recognized and celebrated