The Confident Black Girl

The Confident Black Girl


The biggest shopping day is finally here and we want to make sure your dollars count! Meet us at the 2nd Annual Black on Black Friday this Black Friday. We have over 20 Black-owned vendors and y’all know it’s a party when we come together to celebrate black excellence. Get your tickets today! All presale tickets include one free preroll 💨.

This year I have learned that I walk very different when I have money. That bag hits different y'all. I smile brighter when I can pay for things. Lack and brokenness, sh*tty jobs, fatigue, just ain't it for black women. It has been normalized for centuries and we have to reprogram our minds to abundance, alignment, ease and art.

This resume + confidence coaching truly is worth every dime. Do you have a professional summary that introduces you as the best they ever met? What about your quantifiables? Does your resume say how many people you managed? How much revenue you generated or costs you saved? What physiological support are you getting at work? Are they paying your worth?
You need to book an appointment with us for a review ladies. We have created something beautiful from years of experience and you got to try this.

Details coming soon on a live regarding career drive and evolution with the #bigbagbundle

As always lots of love y'all.

You deserve to work and live in bliss.
Daily reminder. ❤️

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The Confident Black Girl
Heyyyy EstiBesties!!
It’s time to set your clocks!!
Your EstiBestie is going live with the one and only The Confident Black Girl


It has been shown that having a quality and effective skin care regimen can have a significant impact on one’s quality of life by the way it affects their feelings of empowerment, self-esteem, and happiness (Zhang et al, 2020). So this is why I always advocate that a critical component of building, sustaining, and growing self-confidence is self-care which includes caring for all aspects of you body, mind, and soul!

During this highly anticipated live, Yolanda and I will be talking about her confidence journey, how her skin care work is helping other women become confident, and how she’s helping me get my skin together. When I tell you that Yolanda is amazing and her hands are BLESSED I am telling no lies, cuz bayyyybeeee I’m living proof!

I hope to see all of you on the live on Jan 13th so make sure you have your favorite drink(s) of choice and join in on the discussion. We will also be announcing a giveaway during the live so make sure you tune in for all the details which will include an amazing array of prizes from myself, Estiblack, and @isamahaleacentuals!!

Cited: “Impact of Routine Skin Care on the Quality of Life” by Zhang et al, published 24 Jul 2020 in Cosmetics 2020; 7(3):59.
Heyyy EstiBesties!
At this point we all have some regrets! However, what we not gonna do is continue to keep “wishing” about what we “could have” or “should have” done! Instead we just are gonna do it!!! And that’s on 2020!

We get so wrapped up in what others may think, what they aren’t gonna buy, aren’t gonna support when we haven’t even done the work yet!

I had to tap in and reach out to The Confident Black Girl to give me this insight! She said “stop worrying about that when you haven’t even done the work yet sis”!! Whewww a word!!!

No regrets!!! Absolutely none!

This year I fixed my plate, next year, I’m eating it!!

Tap in if. You feel me!!
Your EstiBestie, Yolanda!!

The Confident Black Girl is Me. I am Black Woman Empowerment Coach. I am here to help black women find their power and live life fully. Together we heal trauma by reclaiming our power and walk confidently, proudly and free into the life of our dreams.

Operating as usual


While I’m hereee 👀 sis, we got some heavy hitters! Yal know Tosh will keep ‘em all to herself 🥳🥳🥳


One of my friends think they funny 😒🤬🤣🤣🤣 this is hilarious 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨 I would never but y’all be safe tho!


Thinking about my first love…

He was maybe a year older than I. Light skin, pretty brown eyes, and smiled all the time.😍

He would ride his bike like 20 minutes or so to my house and throw rocks at my window.

He’d hide from my daddy until he had a chat with him 🤣

But everytime he came around I’d just buzz. My entire body. I’d smile from the soul you know? Like we would talk and giggle and just hold hands. 🥹We would race and play. But it was the talks for me. Whenever we spoke it would be for hours and hours. He’d always get in trouble because, back then you had to be home by the street lights coming on and he’d stay a little too long….

We would sneak on the phone at night and talk. This is how I found out clear communication was important to me, I crave it and require open, honest, transparent communication.

I felt comfortable as me and in my skin when we were together. He always told me how much he liked me and how cute I was 🤭🥰

That’s important to note because I’ve always been chubby! Like always. There’s something about learning from a young age that you’re body isn’t safe or held sacred and used for consumption without consent while being disregarded, degraded, ridiculed for your body that creates a level confusion, dysmorphia and complete disconnect from yourself.

Here I am now, 40, fluffy and dating . The dysmorphia, sometimes insecurity and challenge to not internalize imagined beauty standards is still real.

What I do know? I love me. I’m comfortable with me, as me, bald head, naked skin, goofy as hell and giggling freely. I’m connected to my body in ways I never knew possible and that makes the journey so much better.

In what ways has your experiences in love created space for vulnerability and evaluation of you? How have you grown by the healing powers of love? 📸 by @denisenicolephotography_


TCBG might be off the market by the event 👀👀👀 JKJKJK FTN🗣🗣🗣 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾 come mingle, sip and date multiple people in one night! Like what more can you ask for? Date em ALL sis!


2 weeks out! The fellas have been telling me they too are looking for dope ass vibes! Come out and connect, network, and possibly find that love match!


Referrals are everything in my industry. Being a newer realtor or as a new anything building connections, having a mentor, and people supporting you in your new endeavors is huge.
I would love to be your preferred realtor. I can service you in the area of residential, land, commercial leases and more.

Please refer me to your friends, family, coworkers and even strangers. When the conversation arises about anything real estate keep La'Tosha Davis The Confident Realtor as your go to and tell the people about me.

I am open to chat anytime, my number is 602-578-8664. You can call, text, or respond to this email and we can go over all your questions.
In return, I would like to learn more about your offerings and businesses and connect you with my network as well. If you would love to have me do a homebuying workshop for your group, connect you with lenders, inspectors, contractors, title company etc., I am your girl for that!

Thank you!


Colossal Tosh 🥳

Photos from The Confident Black Girl's post 04/30/2022

CHILE! I’ve never worn this OUT the house! I did that tutorial for yall on shapewear and it’s been in the closet!! We’re a lot less fluffy! Link to @shapellxofficial in my bio🥳🥳🥳 meet me outside! What y’all doing?


This event is where it’s at! Learn how to build meaningful connections, date multiple people, the art of seduction and so much more! Come meet me and @atrpclothing at Sip and Date and have a great time dating with a twist! 🥳🥳🥳 @sipanddateaz


Heyyyyyy! Your fave is also @theconfidentrealtor ! I’d love to service you in all your real estate needs. Let’s connect! Coffee/Tea/Cocktail on me. Let’s talk about how I can be help get you to the closing table.


Heyyyyyy! Your fave is also @theconfidentrealtor ! I’d love to service you in all your real estate needs. Let’s connect! Coffee/Tea/Cocktail on me. Let’s talk about how I can help get you to the closing table.

Photos from The Confident Black Girl's post 04/26/2022

GIRLS🗣🗣🗣 y’all have to listen to meeeeee on this one! This shapewear by @shapellxofficial is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 it has me flat, snatched and sexy! I would just wear it by itself but you know it’s designed to be worn underneath. It’s seamless and undetectable! Get this! Use my link (copy and paste) you’ll get a discount and I get a little more products too! I’m ordering every color they have 🥰🥰🥰

Photos from The Confident Black Girl's post 04/23/2022

It’s pool season AZ 🥳🥳🥳🥳 and we OUTSIDE 🗣🗣🗣 hot tub feels amazing


I absolutely love me some @estiblack_aesthetics_ ! Yolanda is the sweetest person I’ve met in AZ. She’s genuine and warm. She also knows how to get the girls skin TOGETHER! I be outside living my best beautiful skinned life and I have Yolanda to thank. Thank you for always getting my skin together, being my business bestie and standing in the gap for me! I’m very proud of you and all your success! I’m so happy my friend has a skincare line! Like I’m BRAGGING everywhere I go! 10/10 highly recommend ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️My bae got skincare and my skin is amazing 😍🥰😍🥰 use code TCBG for 10% off your services and skincare! Thank you Esti!!! 😘😘😘😘😘😘

Photos from The Confident Black Girl's post 04/22/2022

Me at the MOMENT! don’t be like me. Come to @sipanddateaz on May 21 and try dating with a twist, The Confident Black Girl wayyy 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣 we finna sip and date and make some connections and have fun! Tag your crush or sh*t tag me a new crush! Baby I wanna love you 😘 🤣🤣


She did it AGAINNN! @theconfidentrealtor 🥳🥳🥳 congratulations to ME

We did it AGAINNN! So happy for my buyers! We had to work around the clock the last few days! Thank you @alexismiller.mlo for helping get this done! I’ve now closed 1.3 million in sales in my first 90 days as a realtor and I’m so grateful and excited! If you want to rock with a winner The Confident Realtor LaTosha Davis is your girl! 🥳😍🙌🏾


That thang be thangin! Happy Easter


5/21 dating with a twist! Who wants to be a featured dater? Have a picture and bio posted to get early access to eligible bachelors and bachelorettes 🥳🥳🥳


@jamanicraft sent this to the group chat like “this mommy” 🤔😒 it be your own flesh! 🤣🤣🤣 I’ve been told I be typing hard and fast AF! 🧐

Photos from The Confident Black Girl's post 04/14/2022

Are yall watching @ultimatumnetflix ??? I’m on episode 7 and Zhay just blew up on Shanique. Now I like Zhay I wholeheartedly believe with the right therapist and consistent sessions he will be ready to marry. He wants to communicate, he’s expressed himself the best he knows how, Rae isn’t very open in her expression of love from an affirming standpoint so it’s a lot of triggering back and forth with them two. What’s your stand? I am known to have “broken bird” syndrome. I always see the best in people so I can see through Zhay’s behavior to the core of what he is. It’s cute when it ain’t my man 🤣😩

Photos from The Confident Black Girl's post 04/14/2022

I’ve been thinking about love and my relationships a lot lately.

What I hold on to as a single black woman is that the love I desire also desires me. The partner I seek is also seeking me. Anything forced, painful, that lowers my vibration AINT for me and it’s me choosing to be the old hurt me instead of operating from the healed, whole, healthy, confident me.

When I think about love and my singleness and how I’ve chosen me, my self love, my peace, my career, my health, my worth over any relationship or piece of relationship in this season I am so proud.

It absolutely gets lonely on the journey however true love, love in its entirety, healthy love, healed love is so worth the wait and sacrifice.

When I think about my relationships with men and all the ways I’ve been hurt I continue to keep my heart open to the love I desire and deserve. I don’t allow the past to dictate my future. I’m not allowing a few hurt people to have power over my love and my life.

This was just a great reminder of how hurt people hurt other people and it’s not us, it’s them. You can’t internalize someone else’s bullsh*t but you can learn to move on quickly when someone is dead set on hurting you. That ain’t love in totality and it ain’t good for you.


We’re looking for eligible bachelors for the Ladies that are ready to date! Tag single black men looking for eligible beautiful black women!

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