04/10/2026
Have you ever wanted a quick burst of clarity and coaching support instead of ongoing coaching?
I offer a Threshold Mapping Day for exactly this purpose.
When you find yourself in the midst of a transition of some kind (a relationship ending, a decision needing to be made, a career change, a business pivot, Matrescence, faith deconstruction, etc) and you want to get clear on what’s ending, what’s asking to emerge, and reconnect with your body so your next steps can naturally unfold, this is for you.
$150 for a full day of focused support with 100% money back guarantee if you don’t walk away with clarity.
We spend an entire asynchronous day on Signal 1:1, and you walk away with clarity, next steps that are rooted in your own embodied wisdom, and a deeper understanding of what this threshold is asking of you.
“I received a breakthrough on a years-long pattern in 15 minutes of working with Kim.” — R.T.
I only offer 4 threshold mapping days a month (1/week) to make sure I’m able to give each person my full attention.
You can read more about it and sign up for yours at the 🔗
Allow yourself to be held in the midst of your transition, be seen, and get some momentum flowing.
Feel free to DM me with any questions.
XX,
Kim
04/04/2026
This year is the first Easter post faith deconstruction that I feel at peace in my faith. I’ve grappled for years until my faith finally feels like my own, not something that was handed down to me.
Easter points to the universal pattern of death and rebirth for me.
Not of “conquering” death, but of surrendering to it, and finding it’s not the end, just another new beginning.
There is no certainty, only mystery. An invitation into experience. Into fullness of life. Into death and the void.
Ironically my old version of faith made me fearful of the void and terrified of death.
I don’t fear it anymore because I’ve allowed myself to descend instead of requiring constant ascension.
This new faith is so expansive that it allows me to open my heart ever wider to include it all.
If you’re post-deconstruction too, what does faith feel like for you now?
03/24/2026
I’m 43 today.
I feel as ancient as the old, wise oak and as young as the sapling.
This past year was the year that I dove straight to the bottom of the ocean of my grief.
I allowed myself to be split in two for all the many ways that my life hasn’t gone as planned.
Instead of busying myself, I felt it.
Embracing my grief has brought more joy. More aliveness. More range to my life.
Opening myself to my grief has cracked my heart open and expanded my capacity.
I’m more tender. More patient. More loving. And my heart is opened wider.
I’m no longer afraid of the pain and suffering of life, because I know the real suffering is brought on by trying to avoid it.
If you’ve been in a similar season, I’d love to hear what this year has asked of you.
03/23/2026
I am an insatiable woman.
My soul refuses to be content with life as it is if my life as it is doesn’t have what my soul needs to thrive.
Depth. Novelty. Fire. Intensity.
I’m not ungrateful. I just can’t willpower contentment when my soul is starving.
I can’t be satisfied with a small life because I contain multitudes. I am intense. I am “too much,” and I always will be.
Thank God I’ve finally stopped making myself wrong for this and started feeding the ache instead of starving it.
And now I’m a well-nourished woman. A satisfied woman. A woman unto myself. A woman who is at home in her complexity. A woman who owns her bigness.
If you’ve always felt like you were too much, maybe there’s a part of you that needs more intensity than you’ve been allowed to want.
If you want a place to explore that, Threshold Mapping Day is a full day of private, asynchronous coaching with me inside Signal.
We’ll map what you actually need to feel deeply fulfilled, in real time.
You’ll leave with clarity around your real needs, where you’ve been overriding them, and what it would look like to start getting them met instead of trying to shrink yourself into contentment.
$150, applied in full to Crossing the Threshold if you continue.
And if you don’t leave with more clarity than you came in with, you don’t pay.
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03/17/2026
There’s a point where the life you built still looks fine from the outside, but in your body, something isn’t right anymore.
That’s where this conversation begins.
Episode 43 of Sensitive. is with Kate Swaboda . She’s my mentor, the person who taught me how to coach, and someone I trust deeply.
This episode isn’t a highlight reel. It’s a story of how things slowly drifted over time with small, reasonable choices that pulled her out of alignment with herself-in a way that’s easy to justify to yourself while it’s happening.
We talk about what it was like to keep going anyway, to override what her body was signaling, to try to stay functional in a life that no longer felt like hers.
And then what happened when that stopped working.
We get into:
• what it’s like when rest doesn’t actually restore you
• losing access to work you once loved
• how environment and isolation shaped what was happening in her nervous system
• the gap between being “fine on paper” and actually being okay
We also talk about what it took to tell the truth, to let someone see how bad it had gotten, to make decisions that changed her relationships and her life.
There’s grief in this conversation, and there’s relief.
If something in your life has been feeling off, even if you can’t fully name it yet, this episode will likely land.
🎙️ Episode 43 When the Life You Built Stops Working is live. I hope you’ll tune in and let me know what it brings up for you.
03/15/2026
I’m 3 years postpartum.
It was simultaneously the quickest and slowest years of my life.
The first year you took every nap on my body, my breast constantly in your mouth. I rocked, sang, shushed and soothed, but there was 8-10 hours of crying a day.
The second year your sensory needs came into sharper focus. I advocated for you tirelessly. Food became a battle. There was a constant push and pull between over and under stimulation-and it felt like there was a big price to pay either way.
It’s been three years but when I leave the house without you I still think I hear you calling, “Mama!” as I’m walking down the street.
The feeling of you falling asleep with your hand on my chest as I listen to your breath rise and fall is still my greatest purpose.
The sound of your laughter is my definition of wealth.
You’ve expanded me, my son, to hold more joy and grief than I knew possible.
You’ve remade me.
Every cell of my body whispers your name, and it always will.
You are my greatest gift.
03/12/2026
I want to gather together in person, sit around a fire, and connect with each other and the earth (I know I’m not the only one).
I want to put my feet in the dirt and feel the change of season on my skin. I want to sense the subtle shift in light and allow the creature of my body to register the hope of spring.
If you are in the Richmond, VA area and you’d like to gather together in person to do some spring equinox rituals with and I on March 21st from 1-4 pm in Meghan’s garden, we’d love to have you.
Space is limited to 10 participants and we only have room for one more.
Last chance to join us if it’s calling you 🤍
You know where to find the tickets. Feel free to DM me with any questions.
03/03/2026
If you live in the Richmond, VA area and feel the hunger for real, in-person connection, this is for you.
On March 21st, Meghan McSweeney and I are co-hosting:
From Within: A Women’s Gathering
An in-person Spring Equinox circle.
So much of life now happens online.
Gathering physically reconnects us to:
• Our bodies
• The rhythms of the earth
• Each other
• Our shared humanity
Seasonal living is resourcing.
It reminds our nervous systems that change happens in cycles.
During our three hours together, we’ll explore:
• Orienting practice
• Gentle + intuitive movement
• Walking meditation
• Journaling
• A threshold ritual
• Herbal tea blending from Meghan’s garden (you’ll take your blend home)
• Sound bath integration
• Optional fire circle
Structured without promising emotional processing or breakthrough.
Everything is invitational. You choose how you participate.
March 21, 1-4 pm
$35
Richmond, VA area
Space is limited to 10 participants, and only 3 spaces remain at the time of this posting.
You know where to look to buy your ticket, and if you have any questions, feel free to send me a DM.
03/02/2026
There is a version of alignment that doesn’t soothe you, it initiates you.
It undresses you from what you learned to be.
It asks for the masks, the protections, the identities you once needed to survive.
And it does this again, and again, and again.
In this conversation with my friend Kirsten Kelly, we speak about life as a continual cycle of death and rebirth-how joy and grief coexist, how there is no single path, and how the most honest moments of becoming often happen in the void.
This is for anyone who knows something isn’t working anymore, but doesn’t yet know what comes next.
🎧 New episode of Sensitive. is live wherever you get your podcasts.
This is the first episode of the new season of the podcast, and it was particularly potent. I hope you’ll tune in, and let me know what it brings up for you.
02/27/2026
Spring arrives quietly. Light shifts, the air softens, green returns in small, almost imperceptible ways, and our bodies feel it.
On March 21st, and I are hosting an in-person women’s gathering in the Richmond, VA area to mark the Spring Equinox.
We’re calling it:
From Within: A Women’s Gathering
In a world that lives mostly online, gathering physically matters.
It reminds us that we are not just minds on screens:
We are bodies. We are seasonal. We are communal.
During our three hours together, we’ll:
• Begin with a simple orienting practice
• Move gently and intuitively
• Walk in meditation
• Journal with short reflection prompts
• Mark a threshold into spring
• Blend our own herbal teas using dried herbs from Meghan’s garden
• Integrate with a sound bath
• Optionally gather around the fire
The tea blending is intentional. You’ll take your blend home.
And when you drink it weeks later, it becomes a small reminder:
You are supported. You are part of something cyclical.You don’t have to move through change alone.
March 21, 1-4 pm
$35
Richmond, VA area
If you’re local and craving embodied, in-person community, this is for you.
🔗 in bio to purchase your ticket. 10 maximum participants, first come first serve.
02/26/2026
I refuse to lose myself in what I love.
02/17/2026
A few months ago, I lost desire to talk about my work.
It evaporated into thin air.
Since it was during an incredibly challenging time personally, I thought it would return.
It didn’t.
A new direction began to emerge, like a tulip seeking the sun after a long winter.
A grandmother in the coaching space, I’ve worn many hats over eight years of coaching:
Boundaries coach. Coach for people-pleasers and perfectionists. Relationship coach. HSP Business coach. Somatic business coach.
None of these were wrong, but I now recognize that each of these were me trying so hard to find the entry point to my work that others could recognize themselves in rather than naming and embodying the potency of the work itself.
It was a sneaky way of holding my work at arms length and not stepping fully inside it.
This caused me to fragment myself instead of being able to bring the wholeness of myself into my work. I felt handcuffed. My natural strengths (depth, nuance, etc.) felt like a liability in the business coaching world.
It took me crossing my own threshold internally to cross my own business threshold because they were always one and the same.
My final refusal to abandon myself in my life and work brought my work to a place of coherence. I’m no longer performing for what I think will sell. I’m offering my lifeblood instead.
My work is depth work. The work of no longer abandoning yourself and stepping into sovereignty, and reclaiming your right to bring all of yourself to the table.
Truthfully it’s been the heartbeat of my work all along, but I wasn’t naming it. I was contorting myself to try to fit what I thought people would understand.
Most often people recognize they’ve been abandoning themselves when a big life transition cracks them open: matrescence, midlife, late diagnosis neurocomplexity, divorce, grief, career shifts.
If this is resonating, maybe it’s for you.
This work is for women who are already doing the work and ready to go all the way in.
I have 7 spots currently open for Crossing the Threshold. Link in bio.