09/16/2026
π΄ I let my horses have opinions.
That doesn't mean they're allowed to be unsafe.
But I also don't expect them to behave like machines.
Sometimes we ask a horse to do something, and they have a different idea.
And that's information.
Maybe we weren't clear.
Maybe our body is saying something different than we think.
Maybe the horse is uncomfortable, unsure, distracted, or simply communicating a preference.
Instead of immediately seeing that as the horse being βbad,β I think there's value in getting curious about what they're telling us.
What is the horse communicating?
What are we communicating back?
And what might we need to change?
To me, that's part of horsemanship.
It's not just about getting a horse to do what we want. It's learning how to communicate with another living being, listen to their response, and figure things out together.
Sometimes the horse that challenges you a little is the horse that teaches you the most. π
Has a horse ever taught you something by NOT doing exactly what you asked?