Life Coaching with Angela

life catch up from the past few months 🫶🏼🥳

feeling right in the middle of where i’ve been and where i’m going. moved from san diego to spend a few months with family in sac before moving to solano county in a few weeks once i get married

i’m wanting to cherish every last bit of “the in between”—
• soaking up all the time living closer to fam & longtime friends
• while still feeling connected to socal
• while stepping into a new church & community
• while wedding planning
• & learning a lot :)
• & preparing to be a wife
• & going for prayer drives, releasing my expectations, listening for what God’s saying, & being humbled and encouraged everytime He speaks

thankful for these “in between” seasons. they’re the best for pausing and preparing for where you’re going 🪩

it’s valentine’s day weekend! ✨

one thing i’m super passionate about is empowering, encouraging, & coaching people through their single season. it was through being single that i discovered my voice, my passion for encouraging others, and most importantly, the unconditional, pure, and perfect love of God.

out of this, i wrote an ebook, The Singles’ Guide and today is the 2 year anniversary of it! super humbled by some of the stories of how it’s helped people.

if you’re reading this, you’re so loved and worth celebrating! 🤍✨

it’s messages like these that are the reason i do what i do 😭😍🙌🏼 i want people to feel comforted, to know they’re supported & never alone, to be emboldened to move forward and live the incredible life they were made for. ⁣

if you want that for your life too, get your copy of The Singles’ Guide @ the link in my bio 🧡

30 secs of insane courage || I saw this concept in a movie once, and it’s changed my life! ⁣
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maybe you have feelings for someone and you’re afraid to tell them, maybe there’s a text you’re afraid to send, or a promotion you’re afraid to ask for, or you’re about to try zip-lining for the first time and you’re afraid to jump off the ledge...⁣
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whatever it is that you’re afraid to do...for 30 seconds, just shut off your logic, stop feeling, and just DO IT! 🎉 ⁣
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hit send! let the words come out of your mouth! take that leap of faith! ⁣
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what’s something you’ve been putting off?

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I get it—dating can be confusing. How are you supposed know if that person’s right for you, when you’re under the influence of 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴, 𝘧𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴, other people’s 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴 and 𝘪𝘯𝘱𝘶𝘵, 𝘩𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘴, and a ton of other factors?⁣
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𝐔𝐬𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝟒 𝐂’𝐬 𝐚𝐬 𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩! ⁣
How compatible are you in character, life callings, & chemistry? If those are good, then ask God & people you trust for confirmation 🙌🏼 ⁣
I’ve got a whole chapter on this in my Singles’ Guide! link’s in bio to get it 🤍

i’m a firm believer that you were made for more than settling for status quo.⁣⁣
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when i was 20, i had my future plans all mapped out—finish school, marry the guy i was dating at the time, get a good job, buy a nice house, have some kids, pay taxes, & die. it wasn’t until God asked me, ⁣⁣
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“𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘧𝘦𝘢𝘳? 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘪𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘭𝘺 𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐’𝘮 𝘢 𝘎𝘰𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘦?”⁣⁣
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That changed everything for me. I had never thought to aim for anything 𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐲𝐩𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐚𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐦 until then. ⁣⁣
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SO, I laid down all my plans & traded them in for God’s. It’s been a crazy, challenging, refining, and beyond-fulfilling 𝐚𝐝𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐞 living life God’s way.⁣⁣
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And I’m on a mission to help 𝐲𝐨𝐮 experience life to the fullest too! So, what would your life look like 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘧𝘦𝘢𝘳?

today I went bike riding with my brother, laid in the sun, listened to some podcasts, actually looked at a flower lol. slowing down doesn’t have to be so bad 🌻 ⁣
let’s keep taking advantage of this time to rest, reset, & get re-inspired ☀️ ⁣
how’re y’all doing?

honestly driving to pick up to-go food is so good for the soul these days 😆⁣
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i’m a pretty optimistic person, and even still, i got hit with some anxiety this week. lots of stuff felt out of my control, and my little extrovert heart misses people & normal life. ⁣
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but, 1. God is always there in those moments to bring me back to peace ⁣
2. thankful for pressure because it reveals areas of my life i need to let go of & trust God with⁣
3. james 1:3, read it, friends 💛⁣
4. zoom & FT 🙌🏼
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what’s your week been like? ☀️