09/08/2026
simple =/ easy
having a boundary doesn’t magically make you *want* to follow through on it every single time.
sometimes you’re still gonna want the other thing.
sometimes doing what you said you were gonna do is inconvenient.
sometimes it would absolutely be easier in the next 5 minutes to say screw it.
but hard & confusing are not the same thing.
and I’d much rather know what I want to do & have to practice following through on it than have to figure out what I want every single time.
