09/01/2026
Before we tell people to “be kind”… maybe there’s an interim step to help us understand our intrinsic motivation.
Why does kindness matter to you?
We hear “be kind” all the time. Do something nice. Pay it forward. Make someone smile. All good things.
If we jump too quickly to the doing without understanding what kindness actually means to us we risk not doing anything at all.
Think about a moment when someone’s kindness really stayed with you.
What was it about that moment?
Were you seen when you felt invisible?
Were you listened to when you needed to be heard?
Did someone give you grace when you messed up?
Stand beside you when you felt alone?
Believe in you when you weren’t quite able to believe in yourself?
These moments tell us something.
Because kindness isn’t necessarily the same for each of us. And perhaps the more we understand why it matters to us and what it feels like when we experience it, the more naturally we’ll want to create it for someone else.
Because we understand its value.
This is just one of the many ideas that will be explored in the book Our Future Is Kind® this November. Michael G Neece, Author & Speaker
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