19/10/2026
For 12 years I waited.
Waited for him to say the right thing.
Do the right thing.
Make me feel safe.
Then the 3am wake ups started. š
Heart racing. Certain someone was standing in the dark corner of my room.
Too scared to look. Unable to look away.
My husband asleep right beside meā¦
and Iād never felt more alone.
Night after night, for months, it came back.
Like something was desperate for my attention. šÆļø
And one day it finally hit me.
That presence in the corner wasnāt a stranger.
It was me.
My fear of being left, so loud it followed me into my sleep.
The part of me Iād been too busy, too in control, too āfineā to hear.
It didnāt start with my husband.
It started when I was 7, the day my dad died suddenly.
That little girl learned the ones you love can leave without warning.
Sheād been sitting in that dark corner ever since, waiting for me to turn around. š„ŗ
We stay stuck in love when we wait for whatās outside of us to change.
We move when we tend to whatās inside of us.
So I stopped watching him⦠and turned to face her.
Thatās where my healing began.
The anxiety softened. I found my voice.
I could finally say what I truly need. š¤
My partner didnāt fix me.
He woke me up. š±
š¦ What did your partner do last that hit you hardest?
š¦ What did you make it mean about you?
And underneath that š¦ What are you really afraid of? š
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