24/10/2026
Last Thursday, I had the honour of joining .whitwell and at the Empowered Man Live Event, built around three important areas: capacity, composure and connection🔥
My section was composure, but sitting in on the capacity session challenged me just as much as anything I shared with the room 💯
When you own a business you genuinely love, it’s easy to stay on the hamster wheel. There is always another client to help, another idea to develop and another task that could move the business forward 🙏
I’ve spent nearly eight years building Rise Above Adversity from the ground up. It has given me the opportunity to work with young athletes, professional athletes and some incredible people 🧱
But when you’re constantly future-thinking, you can lose the space required to be present, recover and think creatively. That was a powerful reminder for me 👌
The presentation itself gave me another opportunity to practice what I teach. I gave myself permission to be nervous 😬
Whenever I speak, my nervous system activates. My heart rate rises, everything speeds up and my mind starts thinking about how I’ll be perceived and everything else outside my control 💯💯
Instead of hiding that, I acknowledged it with the room. I deliberately reset, slowed myself down and returned to the present moment.
Eventually, I found flow 💪🧠
I spoke for around an hour and 45 minutes, the longest I’ve ever spoken on one topic, translating the mental-performance systems I teach athletes into everyday life, business and relationships. I absolutely loved it 😍
Thank you, Sam and Stu, for inviting me into your inner circle, and thank you to the incredible group of men who were willing to reflect, contribute and make the experience what it was 🤝
My biggest takeaway?
Capacity isn’t created by squeezing more into the week. Sometimes it’s created by deliberately stopping long enough to recover, reconnect and give your best thinking room to return💥
When was the last time you created genuine space to reset? 🤔