20/09/2026
A few months ago, I started exploring perfectionism after a string of clients presented with it.
At the time, I would have said I wasn’t a perfectionist. I’m okay with the house being messy (sometimes 😉), and I don’t mind making the occasional mistake.
But then I learned that perfectionism is more complex than simply having unrelenting standards. It isn’t just about wanting to be perfect.
It usually involves a vigilant inner critic, a persistent sense that you’re not good enough, and shame when you make a mistake. It’s also often linked to your sense of self-worth.
Perfectionism occurs when you tie your self-worth to achieving very high standards, and it can involve a fear of other people’s judgement or criticism.
So yes, I think I’m a perfectionist. And it turns out lots of other people are, too.
The article I wrote about perfectionism is one of the most-read articles on my website, and it includes some practical tips for dialling it down.
Perhaps this week, you can start to notice what happens when you make a mistake or feel you haven't done something well enough. See if you can catch your inner critic in action, and respond to yourself with a little more kindness.
I’ve included a link to the article below if you’d like to read it. ✨️
https://katejames.com.au/let-go-of-perfectionism/