25/09/2026
I really want to do well in my exams … but I keep avoiding studying.
I really want to make the team … but I avoid the extra training.
I want to feel more confident speaking in class … but I avoid putting my hand up.
We can really want something and still find ourselves avoiding the things that might help us get there.
Rather than jumping straight to “Why aren't you doing it?” we can get a little curious instead.
What's happening here?
What comes up when you think about doing that thing? What thoughts are there? What do you notice in your body?
Often becoming aware of what is happening is the first step.