Nikki Cassebohm

Good girls don’t lead, they hide.
Good girls don’t lead, they conform.
Good girls don’t lead, they self-abandon.

You keep saying you wanna change people’s lives,
You can’t do that by making your message be liked by everyone.

It’s time to stop saying it nicely,
And actually just tell people how you truly feel.

Ps. This is one of the most biggest regrets of people on their deathbed - they didn’t say how they truly felt!

👏🏼 Your
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They teach you to transcend “low vibes,” labeling them as “bad,” but in doing so, they create a distorted view of yourself.

Now, you think you’re bad when you’re in lower states.

Sound familiar?

They use shame-based tactics to manipulate you take action from fear, while promising to help you transcend it.

This hypocrisy is rooted in the very system that has twisted spirituality.

No wonder you feel lost.

Ascension codes and promises of riches are sold to you with the expectation that you’ll bypass your shadows, but that’s not how true healing works.

True leaders face their shadows and embrace both light and dark. Spirituality isn’t just about love and light - it’s about the yin and yang of darkness too. You can’t have one without the other.

Stop bypassing. Face the truth.

If you want to learn true ascension,
inside of my space we walk with fear instead of bypassing it.
And channel the work of female spiritual leaders that were the true stewards of ascension.

✨☥ dm me if it feels aligned.

Love and light,
haha kidding.
Nikki 𓆃

Wake up - truth is being censored while distortion is being promoted.

Update: they just brought it back up! Let’s see how long it actually stays up this time 🫣

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I meditated for 100 hours in complete silence for 10 days 🤭🤯

Join me on the biggest MENTAL challenge of my life! 😧

I head to West Java in Indonesia to take on a 10-day Vipassana meditation course. You aren't allowed to talk, make eye-contact with others, no phone, and no contact with outside world!

Make sure to subscribe to my Youtube Channel to keep up with all my adventures + spiritual journeys ✅

ℹ️ Learn more about Vipassana S.N. Goenka here: www.dhamma.org

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Vipassana - Meditating for 100 hours over 10 days (silent meditation retreat) my HONEST Join me on the biggest MENTAL challenge of my life! I head to West Java in Indonesia to take on a 10-day Vipassana meditation course. You aren't allowed to t...

Attention High-Value Women…

I’m absolutely owning this stage of my life as I step into my power, intuition and wealth.⚡️👸🏼💸

I know my inherent value.

I’m leading with value in my relationships.💗

And showing high-value vulnerability with my clients.

Are you wanting to be more of a high-value woman in your life?👀

A high-value woman knows herself, she knows what she wants, and she isn’t afraid to pursue it.

She understands her worth and operates in high-frequencies.💫

Her energy attracts people and opportunities that serve her highest self.

She can hold her own, regardless of the people around her.

She embraces her femininity and possesses a self-confidence that is unmatched! ❤️‍🔥

🤍 She loves herself
🤍 She is committed to learning and growth
🤍 She invests in herself
🤍 She is grounded in maturity
🤍 She is not afraid to speak her mind
🤍 She embraces her vulnerability

A high-value woman is many things, but above and beyond, she is a woman who knows her worth.

When you recognise the high-value woman YOU are, you will attract everything you’re looking for into your life.✨

Don’t settle for anything less girl!

When I stopped settling for a life that I wasn't happy with, and started attracting from a high-level, my world changed💸💫⁠
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I used to wake up every day and fkin dread going to work. I hated working for someone else in a work place I didn't believe in.⁠
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I just felt stuck.😓⁠
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I realised that I felt that way because I settled for a comfortable, secure and mediocre job, so I could make a mediocre income, to live my mediocre life, with my mediocre friends.👀⁠
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Side note: working for someone else is not secure when they could fire you in a heartbeat.⁠
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I became very unemployable. ⁠
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Because I no longer wanted to be confined to a box. I didn't want to fit the mould any longer.🙅🏼‍♀️⁠
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I wanted to be free.⁠
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So I started learning how to become unstuck.⁠
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And how to live an abundant af life.⁠
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💸 Where I make $100k months.⁠
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👯‍♀️Where I have the most inspiring, supportive, compassionate, intelligent friends.⁠
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💻Where I have a job that I lead on MY terms, to architect the lifestyle of fulfilment, passion, purpose and freedom I can imagine.⁠
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📍Where I can live anywhere I want and travel whenever I want.⁠
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👩🏼‍❤️‍👨🏼And I can attract the most sexy, intelligent and loving partner.⁠
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I have too many ambitions to settle for a 'safe life'.⁠
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This is your calling to take a CHANCE on that decision you've been putting off. The one that you KNOW is going to lead to an abundant life.⁠
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I won't lie.. It'll challenge you at times. And push you outta your comfort zone,⁠
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But girl, that's why not everyone can live this kinda life.⁠
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It's only reserved for those who are willing to do the hard work.⁠
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You got this.⁠
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I believe in YOU!⁠
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Are you tired of living a safe and average life?⁠
Intakes for The Conscious Woman are open for 2023! ⁠
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Send me the word 📲 "GROW" 💌 and let's explore what YOUR expansive life for 2023 looks like 😍⁠
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Fulfillment in life comes from following our calling. But discovering what it is and living life aligned with your purpose can be challenging.

So these are the prompts that can help you reflect on your purpose and inspire you to take action.💫

💗What were my struggles in the past that I was able to overcome?
💗How can I help others do the same?
💗What do I enjoy doing?
💗What am I good at?
💗What do I believe the world needs more of?
💗What is one thing you can do today to live in alignment with your calling?

Our purpose keeps changing throughout our life. So it’s important to be curious and keep exploring to stay connected to our purpose.🫶🏼🌷

Do you love yourself enough to show up as your authentic self regardless of what other people think of you?

When you refuse to see yourself as you are and are too hard on the person you see in the mirror, you become vulnerable to what other people say about you. When you have a negative outlook on yourself, other people’s judgment will affirm your beliefs and you will take them to be true. 😔

This is why a lack of self-love keeps you trapped in this vicious cycle of opinions and judgment of people. You completely rely on other people’s validation to feel worthy.

And when we’re in the space of self-love, we would know ourselves better than anyone. Even if an authoritarian figure in our life shares their opinion or advice, we can ask ourselves, “does this apply to me or do I need it?”.⁣⁣🤔
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But, we often forget this. That’s why when someone passes judgment, we take it as a reflection of our identity.

We now believe we are what we think that they think we are (read that again).

And if this thought is deflating, damaging, and disempowering our self-esteem crumbles.💔

Sometimes, we adjust to these situations by accepting their fictional opinion as a fact about ourselves, especially if we want to feel accepted or avoid conflict.⁣⁣
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It encourages us to deprioritize our needs, suppress our feelings, hide aspects of our existence, play a false character and overextend ourselves to keep others happy by denying what’s true to us.⁣⁣
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And we start getting this feeling of uneasiness, confusion, and resentment for putting up this façade. After all, we can't keep pouring from an empty cup.🫠
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Self-love is accepting every aspect of our existence while acknowledging those parts that need nurturing and extra light with compassion – healing traumas and self-perceived limitations.❤️‍🩹🦋

And when we do that, we stop letting others move the strings of our life.

How can someone’s opinion of who you are, take your sanity away when you know who you are?😇

You find it easier to let go when you know something isn’t truly aligned with you.⁣⁣🫶🏼

If you need help finding love for yourself, DM me ‘love’ and let’s see how I can help.

Tips for the over-achievers who want to get more sh*t done. Keep swiping and read the caption.👇🏽

What comes to mind when you think of an “over-achiever”?

Many over-achievers think they are disciplined and have a strong work ethic, intelligence, and grit… the epitome of determination. Although this can result in producing incredible work and achieving fantastic results, this doesn’t come without a cost. 🙁

Sacrificing a balanced lifestyle to achieve success isn’t necessarily a good thing, and your health may be at risk. 🫠

So here are 4 major signs that may indicate you have an over-achieving tendency:

👉🏼You feel personally attacked by constructive feedback
👉🏼You are focusing only on the outcome rather than enjoying the process
👉🏼You’re a workaholic
👉🏼You want everything to go perfectly and be in control

The first step to recovering from an over-achieving tendency is to give your mind what it needs - a break.

This is a gentle reminder that you can still achieve great success without being an over-achiever and hustling until you burn out.🫶🏼

The key here is to be conscious about your time and optimize your productivity.💫

Let me know in the comments what you need to work more on.💗🌸