Sensual Elevation

I’ve been noticing the last few years more and more of separation between people and public humiliation.

Vaccines VS Unvaccinated— (do I, don’t I?) first time ever 4 years ago that people got so involved in knowing other’s personal information on whether they did or didn’t get it.

Political VS Worldly views— there is PURE hatred for someone being curious minded about one politician, questioning whether they are as bad as people say, and the majority who follow a particular party, no matter what they say or do. everyone is in the wrong if they don’t follow this left-wing agenda. Everyone is in the wrong if they don’t have this right -wing agenda.

Coaches VS Other coaches/online businesses— I notice a lot of the coaches doing well on my Facebook are using “othering” strategies to make their coaching business look better and why all these other coaches are so bad. Criticising the niche people use and how they market or brand themselves

(There’s a reason my coaching business went quiet). —I’m tired of this bu****it.

Country Vs War — People choosing sides on countries, swinging flags around thinking it’s the way to solve wars.. people getting purely aggressive. (It’s totally understandable to feel furious at what’s going on in the world) I personally don’t understand that outward aggression will resolve these situations, and I don’t know about them enough to comment with precision.

Carnivores VS Vegans…. Cult against cult(?)🥴 carnivores saying that this is the only way to be healthy by living in “ancestral” roots, while triggering vegans because killing sentient beings is what we are against, so killing animals is a sensitive subject for us. - sometimes we just don’t want to have more of these conversations, do what you need to do, Michael.

Conspiracy Theorist VS Science …
C’mon, can we not just laugh about it if we don’t believe it?

Nutrient “Experts” (because they saw something on TikTok) VS people who get their research from books and science 🥴

Quite frankly, it’s all depressing. It’s painful to see, and I can’t be bothered.

It’s healthy to debate, but debates now seem to regularly be hate speeches.

Everything is “Them, OR me”…

Like— you’re either part of this group, or not mine….

There’s no room for discussion,

There’s no room for healthy conversation

There seems to be no room in people’s life to have other people with different opinions or curiosities towards another subject in there. One opinion makes a full rejection of a human; who is, just like you, trying to work it out.

It feels people are losing the control of their own voice.

🐑 We are a sheep. 🐑
🤖 Soon, the sheep will turn into a robot 🤖

We try to mask our wider thoughts to our “best friends” because we are scared of a conversation that may turn into separation.

Because of this, we stay quiet. We turn off to most that they say because of our own thoughts.

Or, we push our own thoughts away and agree with everyone else because they seem so adamant, and we don’t want to lose our friends and feel shamed.

There’s nothing worse than the feeling of shame..

So, why can’t we have these conversations without trying to make a deeper understanding?

Can we agree to disagree sometimes?

Because you aren’t learning if you choose to leave someone because of their difference in opinion.

You also are disempowering someone to use their voice with more aggressive reactions to one an other.

You know how long it takes to feel confident to speak up?

Next time you don’t agree, stop, ask questions, and hear them.

If you’re really disappointed, please calmly explain, but don’t expect them ever to agree. Especially straight away! Things take time…

🌎 If we want peace in this world, it’s time to observe, listen and try to understand their intentions.

A message to men

Women are finding it really difficult to fully experience pleasure, because their bodies have closed off to you from all those times they have not felt ready for intimacy.

Have you not realised yet that girls are like a flower?

It's time to be more sensitive to them.

So, slow down. Take your time!

You are moving way too fast!

Curious child;

Embrace your body, embrace yourself. From childhood curiosity to societal norms, our journey of self-exploration is often slapped away by shame and judgment. But it's time to reclaim it as an act of radical self-love. Approach self-exploration with intention, ritual, and safety. Listen to your desires, take gentle steps, and reconnect with the pleasure within. Let's break free from the chains of societal constructs and rediscover the joy of being whole.

**ra

Green Flags in relationship

Save this so you can reflect on your date and relationships.

It's time for you to have high quality people.

If you don't get some of these green flags, you may be looking at some possible amber 🚩 or red flags which may make you question where you want the relationship to go.

No one is ever perfect and cannot fit one box, but these traits are the foundation of a good relationship.

Thank me later ;)

Also, this is edited from yesterday when I blindly didn't check my typing mistakes 🫡🥑🫠

Repost from my Facebook..

Do you sometimes talk the talk, and not walk the walk? (Be honest)

👋 INTRO TO ONE OF MY MORE UNSEEN PARTS 😈

My "F**k YES, or F**K off" era 🥊 ❗️

It's here..

This era is dedicated to everything that I deserve.

With 2 years until being 30 and I am dedicated to only say yes only to what I 100% deserve in relationships.

Getting into my pants is now 100% only for someone I can see a long life with.

Dating me looks like treating me like the f**king royalty 👸 I am.

(Yes that means being decisive on where to go, treating me to the best food and not trying to whip me up under your sheets just because you got me dinner 🤷‍♀️🥱

Being with me means that our values are in alignment.

Being relationally close means to meet my soul through all expressions especially vulnerability.

My life partner is going to know exactly what it is they want, and carry on perusing the life they want to live, and be in a job that truly serves them.

This person can look after me, make me feel safe, inspire me and trigger the parts of me that need to grow.

Loving me is an equal of giving and receiving, a dance between the yin and the yang.

The fact I'm single at this time in my life is because I know what I want, and if someone shows they're unable to meet me there, I am not wasting any more time! 👋

Saying no is an empowered decision.

Being integral is an empowered decision.

Not leaping into bed with my dates is an empowered decision.

Honouring my boundaries is an empowered decision.

Having these photos of myself is an empowered decision.

If you have to change yourself in order to fit someone else's box, that is not an empowered decision.

I'd love to know who else is in their "f**k yes" only or "f**k off" era? 😂 😆

Quote me on this, bring it up if you ever see me not in alignment with this because, this is the time for us all to thrrrriiiiive ✨ 🔥

📸 .studio for the epic images!

👋 INTRO TO ONE OF MY MORE UNSEEN PARTS 😈

My "F**k YES, or F**K off" era 🥊 ❗️

It's here..

This era is dedicated to everything that I deserve.

With 2 years until being 30 and I am dedicated to only say yes only to what I 100% deserve in relationships.

Getting into my pants is now 100% only for someone I can see a long life with.

Dating me looks like treating me like the f**king royalty 👸 I am.

(Yes that means being decisive on where to go, treating me to the best food and not trying to whip me up under your sheets just because you got me dinner 🤷‍♀️🥱

Being with me means that our values are in alignment.

Being relationally close means to meet my soul through all expressions especially vulnerability.

My life partner is going to know exactly what it is they want, and carry on perusing the life they want to live, and be in a job that truly serves them.

This person can look after me, make me feel safe, inspire me and trigger the parts of me that need to grow.

Loving me is an equal of giving and receiving, a dance between the yin and the yang.

The fact I'm single at this time in my life is because I know what I want, and if someone shows they're unable to meet me there, I am not wasting any more time! 👋

Saying no is an empowered decision.

Being integral is an empowered decision.

Not leaping into bed with my dates is an empowered decision.

Honouring my boundaries is an empowered decision.

Having these photos of myself is an empowered decision.

If you have to change yourself in order to fit someone else's box, that is not an empowered decision.

I'd love to know who else is in their "f**k yes" only or "f**k off" era? 😂 😆

Quote me on this, bring it up if you ever see me not in alignment with this because, this is the time for us all to thrrrriiiiive ✨ 🔥

📸 .studio for the epic images!

I just have something to say.

Thanks for listening.

Now please go and learn how to be more inclusive.

Thanks ☮️ ✌️ 🌱

***r

To all the warriors here.

Last week, this was the first day I rose from a slumber.

A slumber so deep that I felt so horrible in my skin. Without a home, and I felt as though I looked sickening and could feel the outside world sick to the death of me, and I was even pondered in the last few weeks whether my life meant anything. Whether I should go home, or fully just give up. I went really fu***ng low.

This time last week however, there was an ecstatic dance event. These events I often find myself getting so much from, and I use them as a source of therapy. I go through depths of my emotions, as I shake through my body.

Last week I channeled my inner warrior. The deity I didn't even realise I had watching over me.

Queen Boudicca 👑

What's fabulous is this female warrior helped fight off Roman's, and help protect her Queendom. She was fierce. She stood at the face of sharp instruments and used hers in so many people's defence. While she didn't make it out, she rose, and fought for her life and other's.

I'm determined to conquer this life. By helping, one by one but also to make rest with myself as much as I can.

The inner world is full of cycles, but what we must know are these cycles are the ones that make us who we are.

Fierce, fluid, loving, emotional, sensual and playful beings.

Thanks for staying around x

Thank you for holding such a powerful and healing space.