04/05/2026
I have always lived my life in a very particular wayโฆ
I will make choices based on what I feel, not what I understand.
And it has never led me astray.
Has it caused tremendous difficulty? Yes.
Has it caused heartbreak? Definitely.
Has it created the most incredible life for me? Absolutely.
Many times I have made a decision that didnโt โmake senseโ,
And every time, what unfolded was better than any plan.
365 days ago I made one of these decisions againโฆ
I left the life I knew on the Gold Coast, to discover something new in Maryborough.
I took a chance on us. I bet on you.
And as has been the case with all my leaps into the unknown,
Itโs come with challenges, heartaches, and so much unexpected reward.
Itโs been beautiful.
Itโs been exactly what life is about.
โค๏ธ
17/02/2026
๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒโ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ถ๐๐ต ๐๐ฝ-๐น๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐น๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ด - ๐จ๐ช๐๐๐๐จ๐จ๐๐ช๐ก๐ก๐ฎโฆ
๐๐โ๐ ๐๐ก๐ก ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฎ๐น๐ถ๐ด๐ป๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐.
It took me 2 ๐๐ค๐ช๐ง๐จ to write down a whole new business structure,
To map out what my new offerings would and wouldnโt be anymore, and to determine the new price points.
๐๐ป๐ฑ,
Itโs taken me 2 ๐ฎ๐๐๐ง๐จ of ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ itโs time to change my business structure before doing so.
๐๐๐ฎ?ย
Itโs easy to know you could be scaling your business,
Itโs easy enough to figure out how to do that,
And itโs certainly enticing to want to rush it, especially when so many others in your industry are doing it.
๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐โ๐ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ฃ๐๐ก๐ก๐ฎ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ต๐ผ๐น๐ฑ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ต๐ผ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ญ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐ฃ๐๐ก ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ถ๐น๐น ๐ฏ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด.
For someone who is inherently impatient I also hold a strong sense of responsibility - which acts as the counter balance to my impatience,
It prevents me from rushing into things before Iโm prepared.
Because when youโre in any position of leadership and influence - growth without internal preparation is damaging to others.
๐๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐น๐ผ๐ผ๐ธ ๐น๐ถ๐ธ๐ฒ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐บ๐ฒ?
Am I able to hold judgement?
Can I hold disappointment?
Can I hold the projections of others?
Am I able to manage my own projections?
Do I know the difference between sharing and convincing; between supporting and saving?
Do I embody what Iโm coaching?
Do I believe the value I offer is worth the investment?
Have I learned to empower by allowing others to support me instead of needing to be the only one who supports?
Have I triple checked the purity of my intentions?
Am I willing to hold more responsibility which greater impact requires?
Many people have told me ๐๐๐๐ to do to scale in my industry.
But what no one can tell me is ๐๐๐๐ to do itโฆ because that answer can only be discerned by my inner wisdom.
Could I scale? Easily.
Many others do it this way, should I? Possibly.ย
Should I do it now? Well... are you ready... can you hold itโฆ what will you do with it.
{๐๐ผ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ป ๐ฐ๐ผ๐บ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐}
07/02/2026
I was a teenager with this quote on my wall, next to Chad Michael Murray. So you could say Iโve lived most of my life by these words...
โDonโt give up what you want most, for what you want nowโ
I couldnโt tell you what about 14yr old Jess resonated so deeply with them, but itโs one of a few imprints I can see shaped my life.
Itโs kept me far-sighted and intentional -
I first need to know what it is I want most.
Itโs kept me discerning and committed -
I wonโt say yes to anything that will contradict or undermine what I ultimately want.
Itโs kept me from settling -
I have an uncommon lack of compromise for accepting less than I want for myself.
I will live the life I dream of, not the life I settled for.
And the key to achieving your dreams; your dream job, your dream relationship, your dream life is thisโฆ
If itโs not fully what you want - itโs not what you want.
If thereโs fragments of what youโre hoping for, but a lot of pieces missing - itโs not what you want. Wait for the real thing. Increase your faith that itโs coming.
Because,
What you truly want canโt come to you if youโve already filled the space with a faux-version of it.
19/01/2026
Alignment is when { what } you do, and { how } you do it, is in harmony with { who } you actually are.
It is alignment that creates the quantum leaps in our life.
You can work tirelessly away at something, slowly improving, incrementally growing. Or, you can rocket launch yourself into exponential growth.
Getting yourself into alignment is that rocket fuel!
No strategy on the planet is as effective as it,
& there is no formula that can compensate for a lack of it.
In fact, you cannot maintain any long-term success without alignment.
I have worked with hundreds of private clients over 10 years as a Mindset Coach,
& what Iโve come to learn is the thing which { really } shifts the needle is { always } the internal adjustments, not the external ones.
Your business is a direct reflection of you.
Your relationships are a direct reflection of you.
Your experiences in life are a direct reflection of you.
They will only change when you change.
Itโs that simple (in theory).
If you have tried all the external โfixesโ, if youโve taken all the advice, if youโve implemented all the strategies - and youโre still not getting the results you envision,
Itโs an internal matter. Period.
09/01/2026
If your algorithms have been showing you โsnake this, horse thatโ like mine have - then youโll have picked up that weโve been in the year of the snake.
Think shedding - total and complete shedding. Think endings, completion of cycles, detoxing, grief.
2025 had a lot of bumpy bits (and just plain rough) for many people, and, we could look at it like this - the energy of the snake has been unrelentingly, mercilessly clearing the path for us.
Donโt carry whatโs meant to end into your new year.
If it ended, let it be ended.
Donโt repeat the cycles that are no longer serving you.
Same choices create the same results.
On Feb 17th, we move into the year of the Fire Horse.
Which honestly, already just sounds better!
With the path cleared, the energy of the horse moves you forward -> with strength, speed, strong-will, and a sense of freedom.
And the Fire Horse specifically amplifies the horseโs natural traits. Suggesting 2026 will be a year of -> momentum, a strong desire for movement and breaking barriers, rapid change, creative self-expression, courage, and fiery passion.
So, BE BOLD!
Itโs a time for decisive action, relentlessly pursuing ambitions and dreams, and being more of - you.
Health caveat though?
Because itโs an intense year of activity and movement, it is essential to balance that out with rest & recovery periods, emotional regulation, and practices that protect your nervous system.
Giddy up!