24/09/2026
PUT YOURSELF FIRST!!
CAN YOU???????
Maybe your exercise class needs to be an appointment that doesn’t get cancelled. 😉
We are very good at putting everyone else in the diary.
The doctor’s appointment.
The dentist.
The grandkids.
The shopping.
The appointments for the husband.
The appointments for the kids.
The things that need doing.
And then somewhere down the bottom of the list we put:
“Exercise… if I’ve got time.”
Hmmmm.
Maybe we need to turn that around.
Your health deserves a place in the diary too.
And sometimes that means telling the family:
“Sorry… I’m at exercise.” 😂
Not because you’re being selfish.
Because you’re investing in the body that is going to carry you through the next 10, 20 or 30 years.
You don’t need to apologise for looking after yourself.
And here’s something else I really want you to remember…
Coming to class isn’t just about the exercise.
Yes, we’re working on strength.
Balance.
Mobility.
Cardio.
Coordination.
Getting down and getting back up.
Carrying things.
Pushing and pulling.
Doing the everyday things that help us stay independent.
Physical activity in older adults is linked with better functional health and a lower risk of falls, as well as benefits for cardiovascular, cognitive and mental health.
But then…
there’s the bit afterwards. ❤️
The coffee.
The lunch.
The chat.
The laughing.
The “How did you go with that exercise?”
The conversations that have absolutely nothing to do with exercise.
Sometimes that’s the bit people didn’t realise they needed.
Social connection is important for both mental and physical wellbeing, and research on group exercise in older adults has identified social connection and support as important contributors to attendance and ongoing participation.
So when you come to class, you’re not simply ticking “exercise” off your list.
You’re giving your body some attention.
You’re giving your brain some stimulation.
You’re giving yourself an hour where you matter.
And you’re spending time with people who are doing the same thing.
Then perhaps you go and have a coffee together afterwards…
which, let’s be honest, may be one of the most important parts of the whole morning. 😂☕️
So here’s my little challenge:
Stop treating exercise as the thing you do if nothing else gets in the way.
Put it in the diary.
Protect that time.
Let the family know that’s what you’re doing.
And then come along — even on the days when you’re not feeling quite 100%.
Because looking after yourself isn’t something you should have to squeeze into the leftovers of your life.
You are allowed to make yourself a priority too. ❤️