Debbi Carberry Relationship Coach

24/10/2026

That heavy feeling you’re carrying… it’s love with nowhere to go right now.

This comes up a lot for women after a long relationship ends.
You’ll find the full conversation on my YouTube channel.

23/10/2026

How do you know when you’re really ready to date again after divorce or the end of a long-term relationship?

In this video, I share five signs that can help you work out whether you’re ready to start dating again, especially if you’re in your 50s, 60s or beyond.

Dating again isn’t about proving that somebody still wants you. It’s about being able to trust yourself, know what you want, and enjoy getting to know someone without rushing ahead.

Watch my latest video on YouTube link is in the first comments below 👇👇👇👇👇

23/10/2026

Behind the Belief:
You weren’t blind—you were trusting.
Hindsight makes deception look obvious, but love makes us hopeful.
Blaming yourself for believing someone’s lies only punishes the wrong person.

22/10/2026

When you’ve shared a bed for years… losing it isn’t small. The ordinary things are what hit the hardest.

This comes up a lot for women after a long relationship ends.
You’ll find the full conversation on my YouTube channel.

22/10/2026

The days keep you moving. The nights don’t. That’s when it all catches up with you.

This comes up a lot for women after a long relationship ends.
You’ll find the full conversation on my YouTube channel.

21/10/2026

Are there warning signs before an affair happens? Affairs rarely begin completely out of nowhere. Often there are changes in connection, opportunity, emotional involvement or behaviour that develop over time.
In this video, I explain what can make a relationship more vulnerable to infidelity, what actually matters when you’re worried about cheating, and why looking for patterns rather than individual clues can give you much better information.
And importantly, problems in a relationship do not make you responsible for somebody else’s decision to have an affair.
Check out my lastest video on YouTube here >> https://youtu.be/IKKuSK-Alwo

Are there warning signs before an affair happens? Affairs rarely begin completely out of nowhere. Often there are changes in connection, opportunity, emotional involvement or behaviour that develop over time.

In this video, I explain what can make a relationship more vulnerable to infidelity, what actually matters when you’re worried about cheating, and why looking for patterns rather than individual clues can give you much better information.

And importantly, problems in a relationship do not make you responsible for somebody else’s decision to have an affair.

Check out my lastest video on YouTube the link is in the first comment below 👇👇👇👇👇

21/10/2026

Are there warning signs before an affair happens? Affairs rarely begin completely out of nowhere. Often there are changes in connection, opportunity, emotional involvement or behaviour that develop over time.

In this video, I explain what can make a relationship more vulnerable to infidelity, what actually matters when you’re worried about cheating, and why looking for patterns rather than individual clues can give you much better information.

And importantly, problems in a relationship do not make you responsible for somebody else’s decision to have an affair.

Check out my lastest video on YouTube the link is in the first comment below 👇👇👇👇👇

21/10/2026

You used to be irritated by the little things… and now you miss them. That’s how loss shifts everything.

This comes up a lot for women after a long relationship ends.
You’ll find the full conversation on my YouTube channel.

20/10/2026

I had a moment of panic.
A sudden wave of missing him, like a craving I couldn’t shake.
But when I sat with it, I realized—I didn’t miss him.
I missed the routine. The presence. The idea of not being alone.
Missing someone doesn’t mean they were good for you.
It just means you’re adjusting to something new.
If you’re feeling this, it’s okay. Missing what was comfortable is not the same as missing what was right.

20/10/2026

Sleeping alone hits different after a long relationship ends. The bed hasn’t changed — but everything else has.

This comes up a lot for women after a long relationship ends.
You’ll find the full conversation on my YouTube channel.