Jasmin Rea Self-Love & Mindset Coach

Hello August, Hello little man, Happy 8th birthday. You have had my heart for 8 whole years. Every time when I blink, you grow. Every time when I thought I have figured out how to be your mother, then I turn around, you have evolved into a different person. Now I know you are inviting me to be awake in the moment and evolve with you.

From time to time, your adventurous spirit has kept me on my toes, but at the same time your big heart has generously made so many profound moments that sparkle the deepest part of my being. Thank you for lighting up my world since the every first moment I met you.

We have celebrated so many “firsts” together and I will not risk letting any “lasts” slip by unnoticed. The last hand hold, the last snuggle, the last book, the last nightly conversations, the last whole story of your day… I will fully soak in to capture all the richness before they are the “lasts” as I don’t know when they will be. I am very grateful to make your last few days of being 7 spectacular with you.

Today is your first day of being 8. I don’t just wish you to be happy but I really wish you to experience all tastes of life wholeheartedly with your playful heart including the crazy ones as I have witness your resilience moving through it to another side. Now spread your wings and go explore the magic of the world, You will find you are your own magician!

You know it, I love you ALWAYS no matter what.

Happy Mother’s Day to the mum who showed me her strength to stand tall even life bent her to her knees and showed me her endless kindness and generosity even in the days she needed them most. I am sorry to be such a slow awakener for never truly understanding your love until I became a mother. Since then I came up with thousands of dreams about how to spoil you but your soul decided to take you to your eternal home.

If I can be half mum to my children as you were to us, I consider that I have done an amazing job.

I thank my children for making me a mother, and making this miraculous memories with me. I will not dare to risk missing out any little moments for anything else. Whatever comes up, I will take a deep breath and soak it all in because I know you are little only for a very little while.

Happy Mother’s Day to all beautiful mums. This is your day, enjoy it with all your heart and soul 🌟❤️💖💕

Happy 5th birthday to my baby girl who is unafraid to speak up her feelings and spontaneously express her love.

I thought I couldn’t fall in love with another being that deeply again until the moment I first met you 5 years ago today, my heart was melt completely once again. You made me realise how limited I was by showing me love has always been widely abundant.

In the past few years, I have learned from quite a few teachers, but the most profound mentor who taught me deepest wisdom is YOU. You are generously offering every opportunity to shine your wholeness into the holes that I need to be heal and grow.

Every time when you get frustrated with your own mistakes, I realised that was me too, but you always impress me by turning into your own cheerleader in a heartbeat.

When people compliment you as “a good girl”, I loved the way you response-“You don’t need to say that as I already am NO MATTER WHAT I do or not do”. That’s right, you don’t need crumbs of worth from others because you are already whole and complete within.

I always thought I loved you more than you do until I realised you have already loved me before I have met you. Thank you so much for choosing me to be your mum and your tour guide. I promise I will step aside and let you lead, watching you unfold into the person that fully expresses YOU. I will follow your authentic voice, learning to surrender to your sovereignty and divinity, honouring and celebrating you as your own whole individual being.

Let’s rock and roll.

𝘏𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘺 𝘣𝘪𝘳𝘵𝘩𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘮𝘢𝘻𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘭𝘺 𝘸𝘰𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘭𝘶𝘤𝘬𝘺 𝘦𝘯𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘩𝘶𝘴𝘣𝘢𝘯𝘥.

𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘐 𝘭𝘰𝘤𝘬 𝘦𝘺𝘦𝘴 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘺𝘰𝘶, 𝘐 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘢 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘧𝘳𝘦𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘪𝘯 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘸𝘢𝘺. 𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘰 𝘣𝘪𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘥 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘬𝘦𝘯 𝘱𝘪𝘦𝘤𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘰 𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘵𝘰𝘭𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘮𝘺 𝘤𝘳𝘢𝘻𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴.

𝘛𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘬 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘢𝘮. 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘥 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘩 𝘰𝘧 𝘮𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘴𝘰 𝘥𝘢𝘮𝘯 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘐 𝘥𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘷𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧. 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘦𝘦 𝘮𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘢𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘱𝘵 𝘮𝘦 𝘢𝘴 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘐 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦𝘯’𝘵 𝘮𝘺𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧.

𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘵𝘰𝘵𝘢𝘭 𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘪𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘳 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘩 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘱𝘦𝘥 𝘮𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘷𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘭𝘴𝘦 𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘥𝘺 𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘯𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘮𝘦.

𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘪𝘴𝘯’𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘸𝘰𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘠𝘖𝘜 𝘈𝘙𝘌. 𝘉𝘶𝘪𝘭𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘵𝘰𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘦. 𝘚𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘭𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴 𝘩𝘢𝘥 𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨, “𝘸𝘰𝘸, 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘵, 𝘐 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘮𝘢𝘥𝘦 𝘮𝘺 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘭 𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨”. 𝘐 𝘢𝘮 𝘴𝘰 𝘨𝘭𝘢𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘐 𝘥𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘪𝘴 𝘠𝘖𝘜.

𝘏𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘺 𝘣𝘪𝘳𝘵𝘩𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘮𝘺 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦❤️😘😘

𝘑𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵, 2021 𝘪𝘴 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦𝘯𝘥. 𝘕𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘤𝘳𝘢𝘻𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘦𝘯, 𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘸𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬, 𝘸𝘦 𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘺 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘱𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦𝘥 𝘭𝘰𝘵𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘭𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘨𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘨𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘴.

𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘐 𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘵, 𝘐 𝘸𝘰𝘯, 𝘐 𝘤𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘥, 𝘐 𝘭𝘢𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘦𝘥, 𝘐 𝘢𝘭𝘴𝘰 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘐 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘥. 𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴, 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘥𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘢𝘨𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘭 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘦 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴 𝘶𝘴 𝘸𝘪𝘴𝘥𝘰𝘮, 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘶𝘱 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘦 𝘨𝘰𝘵.

𝘋𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘸𝘢𝘭𝘬 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘮𝘢𝘨𝘯𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘤𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩 2022 💃💃💃. 𝘔𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘮𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘱𝘪𝘦𝘤𝘦. 𝘒𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘭𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘦𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘦𝘸, 𝘐 𝘸𝘪𝘴𝘩 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘰𝘢𝘳 𝘵𝘰 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘴.

𝘏𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢 𝘮𝘢𝘨𝘯𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘤𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘺𝘦𝘢𝘳. 𝘓𝘰𝘵𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 💕

This conversation has come up quite frequently lately

Aiden: Mummy Santa is not real, is he?
Me: Why you think so?
Aiden: I think you are the Santa because I saw you wrapping the presents at late night.
Belle: What? You mean there is no Santa?
Me: Well, I am a secret Elf that Santa sent to help him 😂

Apparently they were not convinced. Aiden went on searching on google and Belle asked Siri.

Google actually says Santa is real but he didn’t believe it. I think he was ready to hear the truth. I told him this was because he was ready to become Santa who could believe in his own magic power to bring love and joy to others through giving and kindness. He has been quite busy for the neighbourhood and his friends since 🤩💖

It’s been a crazy year. No matter how you celebrate, and what situations you are in, I wish you fully flourish your inner magic power, to slow down enough to see the miracles in you and around you✨✨✨

Sending you deepest love and gratitude from our hearts to yours. Wish you have a magical Christmas❤️💖🎄

I would love to know your response to your children question about Santa?

When I see these photos, I don’t just see a group of 7 years old, but I see the little souls with perseverance, determined minds, fiery hearts, goal getters, fun seekers and team players…

Although they only did half season due to lockdown, but they finished strong yesterday. Aiden got the most improved medal that represents his spirit and mindset. During those games, they have tasted victories as well as lost badly, but they were not discouraged or beat themselves up, instead they trained themselves harder.

Occasionally one of these conversations popped up after the game

Aiden: I didn’t goal today or we didn’t win
Me: Have you absolutely given your ALL in the game?
Aiden: Yes
Me: Then you already won

Winning is the by-product of continuous improvement with sincere effort. Our energy will be rewarded by our increased skills.

As long as we are in the game, game of business, “game” of parenting, “game” of relationships, game of life itself…we will have highs and lows, but if we put our both feet in rather than one foot in the field, another in the sideline, we don’t have to be Michael Jordon, but we have our own legendary stories to tell.

The game is not you versus someone else, but YOU vs YOU because you will ALWAYS take you with you to the next game, whatever you will play.

Do you wonder what will happen if you give ALL OF YOU each day?