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First I was a mum to two furballs. Now I’m a mum to THREE beings who need snacks, cuddles, and emotional validation — and one big human who keeps asking where the remote is.
Postpartum guilt as a pet parent is real.
You love your animals so deeply — and then a tiny screaming person arrives and rewires your entire schedule (and nervous system). You miss your pets. You feel guilty. You wonder if they hate you (they don’t). You cry. They sit on you. You cry again. They lick your face.
To all the pet parents turned human parents — you’re not alone in this chaos. The balance comes. Slowly. With fur and burps and love and noise.
And one day soon? Your baby and pets will become a gang.
And you? You’ll finally p*e alone again. Maybe.

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Taking it slow. Letting my body heal and my heart expand.

C-section recovery made easy!
Do’s and Don’ts for faster healing ❤️‍🩹

Postpartum is a vulnerable time.
Mothers go through massive hormonal shifts, sleep deprivation, and emotional highs and lows.
If she seems distant, tired, or ungrateful — she’s not.
She’s in survival mode.
Support should never come with expectations or guilt.
Let’s shift the focus: less judgment, more compassion.
Postpartum care is mental health care. 💛

Bad baby advice, I regret believing.
(New moms, don’t fall for this)

P.s: you are doing better than you think, even when you failing. A mother knows what’s best for her child and for herself.

This is only through my eyes and experience. Some people have it easier or harder… you can never really know. Regardless it’s important to be educated and aware before any procedure especially an important one like this. You completely forget the pain in a month’s time hopefully. Scar is very minor and only a part of the stomach skin can feel numb.

Lots of power to the mothers who go through this process. You are indeed a superwoman 🌻🌻🌻

Before pregnancy, I was dedicated to bodybuilding — lifting heavy, chasing progress, and constantly pushing my limits.
Pregnancy brought a new kind of strength. I adapted my workouts to support my body and growing baby, staying consistent, even when energy and comfort levels shifted.
Now, in my postpartum journey, it’s not about bouncing back — it’s about rebuilding with intention. The body needs time, patience, and smart training to recover and regain strength.
Every phase has tested me differently, but one thing stays the same: I’m showing up for myself. Slowly, steadily, and stronger every day.

I carried you for nine months, but you carried me through a lifetime of emotions. Pregnancy was my softest, most powerful chapter. And yes… I’d do it all again in a heartbeat.

One month of pure love, endless cuddles, and the sweetest little soul who has already filled our lives with so much joy! Zai Sangani Saiyed arrived on March 5, 2025, at 3:59 AM, and from the very start, he’s been the easiest, most content baby. My pregnancy was smooth, my little one never gave me any trouble, and even though his birth didn’t go as planned, he’s been nothing but a blessing. He loves being around people, sleeps through any noise, and finds his happiest place in my arms—and honestly, I wouldn’t have it any other way. Holding him for the first time brought tears of joy I’ll never forget, and every day since has been the best adventure. Happy one month, my love—here’s to a lifetime of beautiful moments together! ❤️

Ps: Illustration credit goes to his favourite Aunt/Masi . Can’t wait to meet you and spend time with you. I know you are going to spoil be with lots of love and knowledge.

With just three more weeks to go, I’m embracing every moment of my pregnancy and making the most of this beautiful journey. Staying as active as possible, I’ve been exploring art and culture, ensuring my baby experiences it all even before entering this world. Visiting art museums has always been on my list, and now feels like the perfect time. I want my baby to see the beauty of the world through my eyes and be surrounded by creativity and inspiration right from the beginning.

Even though my legs get sore and the weight of pregnancy can feel overwhelming, I remind myself that this discomfort is only temporary. Nothing will come between me and my desire to give my baby the very best from the start. This connection and shared experience are what make these moments so special.