20/10/2026
“I went through that divorce, but I’m more than that divorce.”
There is an important distinction in Michael’s words.
Something painful can be acknowledged honestly without becoming the only language we use to describe ourselves.
The divorce happened. It may have changed the person’s life and left consequences they still need to navigate. They can recognise all of that while also saying, “This is not the last word about me.”
Michael links this with resilience from the inside out and a sense of self that includes acceptance, appreciation and esteem.
We found real strength in the way he held both truths together: this happened to me, and there is still more to me. 🧠💛