Jacqui B

Just a tad bit excited (and maybe a little nervous) 💃

On 26 February, the Lead and Empower Her SHE Talks Conference/Experience is coming to Australia 🇦🇺 - and the best thing, Sydney gets to play host.

Join me 😉 and an incredible line up of visionary women from around the world who will be sharing real-life stories of courage, resilience, and impact.

This is going to be a powerful day of inspiration, connection, and elevated leadership, but with a good dose of humility. These ladies definitely lead with heart not ego.

🎟️ Tickets are available now:
https://leadandempowerher.com/she-talks-australia

Use discount code "speaker" as our way of saying thanks for your support 🫶

Would love you see you there!

This 💛♾️🔥

𝗕𝗲𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗰𝗼𝗿𝗲𝗯𝗼𝗮𝗿𝗱: 𝙇𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙤𝙣𝙨 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙖 𝘾𝙝𝙖𝙢𝙥𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙏𝙚𝙖𝙢

There’s something special about witnessing a team win four grand finals in a row. For my beloved NRL team, the Penrith Panthers, it’s clear their success is about far more than skill or ‘the system’—it’s the culture they’ve built, family-oriented in every sense of the word.

The energy was palpable at Sunday’s grand final. Whether we were on the attack or defending our line, ahead or behind, our supporters were loud, passionate, and unwavering. The belief didn’t falter based on the scoreboard—it was rooted in the team’s strength and the connections they’ve built with each other, their loved ones, and the broader community.

But unfortunately, like moths to a flame, success attracts critics. Social media was quickly swamped with claims that the referees were biased, that the win was predetermined, rigged—Tall Poppy Syndrome at its finest. 𝗘𝗴𝗼 𝗰𝘂𝘁𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗱𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗼𝗿𝗱𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗼 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝗶𝘁𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳.

Is it any wonder that the opinions of others are one of the greatest thieves of dreams?

But as they say, actions speak louder than words, and something magical happens when you recognise your purpose is far greater than yourself—in that moment, you rise above the noise.

This Panthers team has faced player losses year on year due to the salary cap and will once again part ways with more stalwarts after this season. But resentment? There is none. The motto is simple: ‘Once a Panther, always a Panther.’ Interviewed afterward, the players’ messages were consistent: they just wanted to send their mates off as they deserved—with pride, respect, and as part of the family.

But something else stood out on Sunday. It wasn’t just the clinical display of executing the ‘game plan’ or the ridiculous level of skill. It was 𝘁𝗿𝘂𝘀𝘁. It was 𝗹𝗼𝘆𝗮𝗹𝘁𝘆. It was on the field and in the stands.

This game heralded a dynasty but also bucked current trends—the team stood tall, united. No blame game and no fickle ‘fair-weather’ fans. This unwavering support through both the highs and the lows is what really makes the difference. True supporters stand by their team when they need it most, not just in the moments of victory. (Just listen to the video).

Sunday’s game also reinforced the power of immersion. Watching from the sidelines or on TV doesn’t compare to being surrounded by thousands of fans, experiencing every moment together. It’s not just a game—it’s about creating memories with those you love, in an atmosphere where every cheer, every chant, and every moment is shared. Those are the moments that last long after the final whistle is blown.

The lessons? There are many.

The importance of culture. The impact of a coach. Trust. Belief. Loyalty.

Success isn’t about a single win. It’s about what is sustained over time—through highs, lows, and even criticism. When you’ve built something strong, like this team has, the outside voices don’t matter. It’s YOUR inner voice, your desires and resolve that counts.

And sharing it with those you love...makes it all the more sweeter. 🖤💚💛❤️

𝗛𝗔𝗩𝗘 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗕𝗘𝗘𝗡 𝗛𝗜𝗗𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗝𝗔𝗖𝗤𝗨𝗜?

Doors have always held significance for me—they represent transitions, the choices we make, the strength to guard what matters, and also the gateway to opportunities.

On my recent trip to the UK, I stood in front of the King’s Gallery door at Holyrood Palace, a huge but gorgeous ornate door embellished with a gold lion standing guard over Edinburgh. In that moment I was reminded of my own journey - the times I was strong, the times I was courageous, the times I was fiercely protective, and even the times I needed to step back to protect my own energy🔥.

But that is only part of this door's story.

Months before my trip to Scotland, I randomly chose an image of an ornate door for my Facebook cover photo. It wasn’t until I stood in front of it in person that I remembered - sometimes, the symbols and signs in our lives are with us long before we fully recognise their meaning 🙌🏻.

That trip, which coincided with the Lionsgate portal has left me feeling deeply connected to my father’s heritage, to my family, and to my own personal transformation ♾️.

Since coming home I’ve taken time out to heal from shoulder surgery and reflect on my own transitions, not one singular moment in time but the continuum. In doing so I’ve come to realise that In life sometimes the most powerful action is knowing when to pause, because even taking a step back can be the much needed conscious decision.

It’s not about hiding—it’s about finding the clarity and conviction to take the next step. No guilt and certainly no apologies needed.

As the great Rumi once said 'The wound is the place where the light enters you.’

How about you? Have you felt those moments where life’s signs reveal themselves in unexpected ways? I’d love to hear your story.

Much love x

⚠️ A POST YOU MAY NOT BE EXPECTING

I am about to pour my ❤️ into this post so bear with me please...

Adrian and I woke up just after 4 this morning to a myriad of alerts on Facebook. A group we are in was posting of the "man overboard" alarm sounding on Pacific Adventure, the ship we have called home for all my cruising speaking gigs 🛳️.

We have personally met the ships executive staff, including the current and much loved Captain, and over time watched other staff come and go as their contract came to an end or were transferred to a sister ship.

The staff could not do more for you, were incredibly professional and always had a smile on their face ~ even when being yelled at by unhappy passengers who mistakingly thought they were getting on some Royal Yacht. 👑

So what's the point of this post you ask?

In the same thread in the group chat we had people complaining they would miss their bus, those waiting to board complaining the ship was late, complaints about towels, complaints the ship had been delayed the day before for a helicopter medi-vac ~ complaint after complaint after complaint...

Complaints about being inconvenienced whilst a crew was doing everything they could to find the man.

'Inconvenienced' whilst a family was panic stricken only later to be overcome by grief 😢

Is that really how selfish and desensitised we have become? 🥹

If news over the last few weeks of endless family tragedies hasn't jolted you, what will my friend 🤷‍♀️?

~ women shopping on a Saturday afternoon 🛍️
~ brothers on a surfing adventure together 🌊
~ a family on an Elvis cruise 🎤

You hear time and time again "life's too short", "live without regret", "tomorrow is never promised" but what are you doing about it, honestly?

💛Tell the people you love how much you love them and as often as you can. Stop discounting how much they mean to you with a "but they know I do!"

💛Stop putting off what you truly want to that "One
day".

💛If you don't like your job, then change it or find something in it you do love.

💛If you're not happy in your relationship tell them and then if it can't be fixed, move on.

💛You always wanted to see ... then book it in!

💛 You want to reconnect with or apologise to ... then pick up the phone📱

💛Remember what is in your control and what is not ~ your reaction always is and happiness is an inside job 😁

This is a timely reminder for us all to stop blaming everyone else for where we are in life and redirect that time to creating the one we want.

Be kind to yourself, and others, as you never know what is going on in someone else's life ❤️

My rant is over but for those of you still reading you should know me, and that this comes with the purest of intentions and love.

If on the other hand I have offended, tell me or unfollow, for that is also your choice.

Much love # # #

𝗢𝗡 𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗗𝗔𝗬 𝟯𝟳 𝗬𝗘𝗔𝗥𝗦 𝗔𝗚𝗢 my world was turned upside down 💔. Yet, it's only looking back now I see what a profound impact that day continues to have, and not only on me ...🔥

On 9 January 1987, adulthood stared me right in the face.

~ One week before leaving my family to move interstate.

~ One week before pledging service to the Queen and my country.

~ One week to total accountability and having to back myself.

~ One week to being completely and utterly out of my comfort zone.

It felt such a reach for that shy, petite, Year 12 girl, dressed in a taffeta dress, looking up at me from the photo on the counter.

"The one thing that can never be taken off your child is their education" adage resonated in my ears as Dad paid for the camera and THAT graduation photo.

Walking back to the car we joked until we didn't...slowing down for Dad to pop an oh too familiar angina tablet under his tongue.

To this very day his words "I can't go yet, I still need to walk you down the aisle" whisper to me in the middle of the night, comfort drawn from that last "I love you" 🥰.

All the plans, the "one day's" Mum and Dad had, WE had, vapourised within minutes.

"𝘓𝘪𝘧𝘦'𝘴 𝘵𝘰𝘰 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘳𝘵..." Mum trembled.

Words spoken often, a # , but embodiment of the message behind the message, is where the true power lies 🔥.

And so today on the 37th anniversary of the first 'hardest day of my life', I raise a glass to you Dad 🥃.

For the woman you made me, the belief you always had in me, your love, your zest for life, your kindness, your sense of humour and for opening my eyes to what truly matters in life.

Your legacy burns ever bright 🕯️, and I am one very proud messenger ♾️

Life's too short, live without regret 🙌🏻 🌟

Your ever loving daughter # # #

Bonjour 🇫🇷 You know you are staying in the right place when your business card and the hotel's business card have something in common 💎♾️

And so the adventure begins...✈️♾️💎

When you start honouring your worth and stop settling for less, the opportunities have a way of presenting themselves.

When your s*x, sports preference and State of birth blur into insignificance - well done Matilda's for uniting our nation. One proud Aussie 💚⚽️💛