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We ain’t wasting time in 2022 ❤️‍🔥 *scroll*

What ‘slowing down’ has taught me about my confidence ⬇️

For those that have been following me for a long time - you know slowing down has been a weakness of mine.

The last 6-8 months I slowed down and this is how it has benefited me:

✅ I know exactly what I want and where I am headed
✅ I have never respected my time and company more in my life
✅ I don’t have the time or energy for BS (in the most healthy way possible)
✅ I’m calmer, more easy going and at peace
✅ I feel motivated on a balanced level - not heavily “ON” or heavily “OFF”
I could truly go on….

Want to know the most important impact on your confidence level? The secret to being your confident bad ass self?

Respecting yourself enough to get uncomfortable with the unknown or not promised ❤️

This is not a post I normally share…

2020 and 2021 were harder for me then what was on my instagram feed.

I show up on this platform in the most real and raw way I can, but I also keep a lot of my life and hardships private (even with most of my friends and loved ones).

Half way through 2021 I honestly thought I was neeeeever going to feel happiness again. I’m sure many people can relate to this right now.

& I don’t mean goals, I don’t mean accomplishments - I mean TRUE happiness, bliss and laughter. The kind where you jump around your kitchen laughing to your favourite song.

Slowly but surely…..

- late nights working to keep busy ➡️ turned into laughter
- overworked and lonely weekends ➡️ turned into time cherished
- being scared to wake up in the morning to start it all over again ➡️ turned into excitement

If you’re reading this and you feel like you’re dragging your feet, like it’s never going to get better and you’re constantly screaming in the pillow next to you. I feel you.

This isn’t a post where I tell you all the life changing things you need to finish to make that shift. This is the post where I tell you it gets better. Hold on. Keep going.

And in the meantime, my dm’s are open and full of love ❤️

xx Nat

imagine this...

You’re soo excited about something and you cannot wait to share it with your bestie. You literally count down the minutes until you can call her up and share this exciting news!

You call her up that night and you share your new project and she completely shuts you down. “Are you sure you want to do that? I don’t think thats something that will be successful - but like do whatever you want”.

You have a pit in your stomach and you automatically lose interest in that thing that you were crazy excited about.

HERE’S THE THING… when you ask someone something (their opinion on something you want to start doing). They will automatically respond based on their thoughts on if THEY can do that “thing” or not.

They don’t have doubts because they don’t think YOU can do it. They have doubts because they don’t think THEY could ever do it.

They don’t have the confidence you have yet, they don’t have the passions you have yet, and they’re not excited about it.

It’s not about you - it’s about the person you are asking that question to.

Do the thing, start the instagram page, record the podcast, start the YouTube channel, show up online, wear those boots.

DO THE DO.

Stop letting someone else’s lack of confidence stop you from doing the things that spark yours.

We don’t hear these words enough…

Today is a day to share the love, recognize someone who has been struggling, trying, fighting, working...

Send this to the first person that comes to mind 💘

You don’t owe anyone s**t

Do you ever catch yourself responding to a text or even answering someone and you sugar coat how you actually feel?

How you ACTUALLY feel ⬇️
“YOU DITCHED ME, I spent time getting ready, picking out an outfit and arranging my entire schedule around this night - couldn’t you have messaged me earlier?!?”

What you end up sending…⬇️
“Oh no worries! It’s all good, I know things come up”

You’re so tempted to be like… what the actual F**K?!

And I can probably guarantee that this happens with a lot more than just your Friday plans…

When is enough going to be enough?

Let’s start a new trend where we *respectfully* actually share how we really feel - unapologetically -

Can I get a hell ya?

Me on my way to a business opportunity meeting💸

whenever I’m looking at ways to expand what I do and who I work with I always get butterfly’s in my stomach🦋

Is this for me?
Will I be good at this?
Does this align with who I am?

Sometimes I have moments of doubt - but then I snap back to reality and remember who I am.

I am a fighter
I am dedicated
I can do hard things
I am worth having new opportunities come my way.

New opportunities are always scary - but no good thing has been made with a “no”🔥 @ Barrie, Ontario

‼️ 30 MORE HOURS ‼️ The countdown is on until Red Hot Confidence closes it’s doors.

No more comparing yourself to others. No more watching others around you show up confidently while you feel stuck waiting for your turn.

I challenge you to break through your barriers and show you how easy confidence can be and feel. I show you, using my unique method, how to ignite your red hot energy - attract others in the room to your energy, understand how you view your confidence and embody your TRUE inner bad bitch.

And the cart is closing TOMORROW…👀

This is your chance to change your story and start writing a new one,

LINK IN BIO🔥

💸You are wasting thousands of dollars by not building your self-confidence💸

Having a lack of confidence can cost you.

Those with a higher level of confidence are more likely to get higher paying jobs, earn higher level management positions, attract the right opportunities and so much more.

👉🏻 Think about it, you’re in the office and you get given an opportunity to stand in front of the office and show off a project you’ve been working on for weeks. The day finally comes and you can’t keep eye contact with your peers, you’re nervous, your comparison starts to become overwhelming and you can’t even get the proper words out to explain a project you know inside and out.

👉🏻 Verses someone who has been working on their confidence walks in the board room with their head held high. They stutter on a word, but laugh it off because they know it’s not a big deal. They ask for others to pay attention because this project is going to be life changing for the company. They ask questions to their audience to make sure they understand whats going on. They feel confident - they know this project inside and out.

Which one do you think is going to get the promotion?

Having a lack of confidence is leaving thousands of dollars and a life time of success on the table.

There is no secret to success - it’s all how you present and handle yourself in difficult and challenging situations. Ones that allow you to stand out from the rest of the crowd.

There is a reason I was able to become a director of a company within 3 years at only 25 years old. It wasn’t because of experience, it wasn’t because of schooling. It was because I had the confidence to back up the job.

This is available to you - within arms reach.

You CAN feel confident in a room full of competitors. You can feel worthy enough to stand out.

Red Hot Confidence is an 8 Week program that will help you take control of your confidence and allow you to stand out. It makes confidence feel easy.

& doors close this Thursday. Click the link in my bio to enrol & take control of your confidence blocker. @ Barrie, Ontario