Sil Vibes

All you need to know is what you believe you know 💭 but IKYKY 🌸🌿🌼🌷🌺

It’s been real; it’s been heavy; it’s been hard; it’s been soft; it’s been different; it’s been beautiful; I have felt lost and disconnected to my own voice but I keep coming back to myself somehow… just some thoughts

Look into my eyes. They aren’t telling you I’ve ‘arrived’ at peace; they’re telling you I’m still in the middle of the climb.
This moment of Zen you see? It’s a discipline, not a destination. Most days, my own mind tries to pull me under. Sometimes the people around me don’t see the weight I’m carrying, and the loneliness can get so loud it’s deafening. But if you see sympathy in my stare, it’s because I know exactly how heavy that silence feels.
I carry a mantra with me from Thailand that keeps me steady when the world feels hollow: Grit, Grace, and Gratitude.
• Grit to get the f**k back up every single time life throws a punch, even when I have to do it alone.
• Grace for the version of me that is still hurting and the days when I’m not ‘perfectly’ centered.
• Gratitude for the breath in my lungs, even when the air feels thin.
My tattoo says Hygge, but I work like hell to earn that comfort every second of every day. It’s a choice. It’s a fight. And if I can choose the light right now, in this breath, then you can too. It’s going to be okay—not because it’s easy, but because you’re going to decide it is.

Salty Sunsets full of Yoga with my 🫶🏼 the one and only !!! missing you !!!

A blue horizon, plant trees and sunshine 🌞 ALWAYS, Count your blessings….ALWAYS!

Chasing sunsets and good vibes 🌅🧘‍♀️✨ Embracing the peace within as the day bids farewell ⚡️🫶🏼⚡️🫶🏼

LOVE LETTER TO MYSELF………………………………………. Sil,

I know that in the past, you haven’t always shown up for yourself or your body the way you truly deserve. It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle of life, comparing yourself to others or focusing on perceived imperfections. But today, I want to change that narrative.

First and foremost, I want to say: you are worthy. Your body, just as it is, deserves love and respect. It carries you through life, allowing you to experience joy, pain, laughter, and everything in between. Every scar, every curve, every strength is a testament to your journey. It’s time to appreciate your body for all it does for you.

I know there have been moments when you’ve felt disconnected or frustrated with yourself, wishing to be different or better. But it’s important to recognize that the journey to self-love starts with acceptance. You don’t need to be perfect; you just need to be you. Embrace your uniqueness and the beauty that lies in your individuality.

Let’s work on nurturing a kinder relationship with yourself. Start by speaking to yourself the way you would to a cherished friend. Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small, and honor your feelings. When you look in the mirror, try to focus on what you love about yourself rather than what you wish to change.

Remember, self-love is a journey, not a destination. It’s okay to have ups and downs along the way. What matters is that you’re making the choice to show up for yourself today. Let go of past regrets and focus on the now. You are growing, learning, and evolving, and that’s something to celebrate!

So here’s to YOU. Embrace your body, honor your feelings, and commit to loving yourself fiercely. You are enough, just as you are, and you deserve all the love and kindness in the world.

With all my love

Sil!

As I celebrate my 35th birthday, I take this moment to pause and reflect on the journey that has shaped me into who I am today. I acknowledge the laughter and the tears, the victories and the setbacks, each moment a vital piece of my story.

I remind myself that this age is not merely a number; it is a testament to my resilience and growth. I have learned to embrace my imperfections, recognizing that they are part of my unique tapestry. I honor the lessons learned, even from the struggles, knowing they have fortified my spirit and deepened my understanding of life.

This year, I commit to living authentically. I will pursue my passions with vigor, surround myself with those who uplift me, and cultivate meaningful connections. I will not shy away from vulnerability; it is in those moments that I find true strength and connection with others.

I promise to be gentle with myself and to celebrate my achievements, both big and small. I will strive to be present, cherishing each day as a precious gift. I will honor my dreams and take bold steps toward realizing them, trusting that my path is uniquely mine.

As I step into this new chapter, I embrace the possibilities ahead. I am worthy of love, joy, and fulfillment. I will create a life that resonates with my values and aspirations, knowing that I have the power to shape my reality.

Here’s to a year of profound growth, deep connections, and unwavering courage. Happy 35th birthday to me—I am ready for what lies ahead🫰🏼🫰🏼🫰🏼🫰🏼🫰🏼🫰🏼🫰🏼🫰🏼🫰🏼🫰🏼🫰🏼✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️⚡️

Embrace the beautiful chaos of life with a smile that shines brighter than the pain. Every challenge is a chapter; let joy be your story.✨💫