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ኣቲ እንታ'ዩ እዚ እንጀራኺ ዓይኒ ዘይብሉ?
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ሰብ ሰብያሰብ ኣንካንኪኖስ import ንኤርትራና 🇪🇷 እንተዘይገይረ ሞይተ ይርከብ ኣይትሓዙኒ ዶ በልካ
ግርም በል ሓዝ በቲ ትፍንፍኖ ቋንቋኻ
እኛ ደግሞ ተው በእሳት ጨዋታ፥ ኣልሰማ ካልክ ግን
ያው መልሱ የተለመደ ነው "ተገልዲምካ ትሰምዕ ዓዋን"

Aisha Sesay, a Sierra Leonean journalist and former CNN News Anchor shares her story as she welcomes her first child at 46

“I never thought I’d be 46 and having a baby on my own — but here I am
Here’s how it all happened”

By Isha Sesay

If you’d told the 16-year-old me that at 46, I’d be divorced, single and having a baby on my own — by choice! — I’d have shuddered and firmly said “no!” Back then, I had very definite ideas about the future course my personal life would take, and it didn’t look like this. I imagined something way more straightforward and dare I say it, conventional.

I’ve been blessed to build the career of my dreams over decades as a journalist — 13 years on air for CNN International, traveling the world to cover global events and interviewing presidents, movie stars and world leaders. I published a book, became a UN Goodwill Ambassador and started a nonprofit to help empower African girls, but in my quiet moments the one thing I wanted the most, to become a mother, remained out of reach.

When I got cancer, no one told me how to tell my kids. Here's how I did it

A brief marriage to a kind man didn’t result in children, and then the year I turned 40, my mum had a catastrophic stroke, leaving me no emotional space to contemplate anything other than caring for her. Six years went by and a few months ago I found myself in a subpar relationship with a man who took about 12 hours to reply to all my texts, among other red flags. It was then, in the aftermath of our inevitable breakup, that it hit me: Not having a child would be the greatest regret of my life. And with my biological clock ticking down, if I was waiting for the right man to come along before I did it, well, I might just find myself out of time.

In the aftermath of our breakup, it hit me: Not having a child would be the greatest regret of my life. ... If I was waiting for the right man to come along before I did it, well, I might just find myself out of time.

So, I decided to take control of my life and settle on the bravest and scariest decision I have ever made: to have a baby on my own. I had many long conversations with myself and tried to get to grips with questions about what it would mean to not have the support of a partner, both emotionally and financially. How would I handle society’s questions? What would being a single parent mean for my child? I still don’t have all the answers, but I decided to take the leap because I refuse to let fear, social conventions or judgment hold me back from seeking this joy.

The process hasn’t been easy. The endless array of meetings with various doctors has also required a battery of blood tests, pelvic exams, bruising injections, nausea-inducing medication and an unexpected fibroid surgery. But perhaps most challenging of all has been the emotional dimension of this journey, especially surrounding my choice of a s***m donor. The decision asked of me to confront questions surrounding the importance of the race, ethnicity, religion and educational background of my child’s father. Essentially, it forced me to re-examine my own upbringing, values and worldview. But harder still was the task of trying to tease clues from the questionnaires that would tell me whether a donor was a good man? Did he have a moral compass? Was he truly kind, empathetic, open-minded? Ultimately, I made a decision — entirely on my own — and I have no regrets.

Getting pregnant forced me to ask tough questions about myself, my values and my own
Upbringing.

My first IVF attempt was unsuccessful, and I cried for days afterward, before I could find the strength to start the process all over again a few months later. But with each passing day, I grew more fearful and anxious about my chances of being able to successfully carry a child. Those feelings only intensified when my doctor decided to halt my second attempt mid-cycle because my body was responding negatively to the medication. With two failed attempts to my name, I approached my third embryo transfer with relatively low expectations. In the two weeks that followed the procedure, my mind raced uncontrollably and I battled the urge to take an early pregnancy test. The day before I was scheduled to return to the clinic, I finally caved in and bought a home test because I couldn’t bear a repeat of the hours-long wait before the clinic called with the results. The next morning I got up long before the sun was up, anxiously headed to my bathroom and opened the box. The minutes ticked by and I cycled through a myriad of emotions. When the word “pregnant” flashed up on the tiny screen, I screamed and fell to my knees before bursting into tears.

Even though many weeks have gone by since then and my belly is growing larger by the day, whenever I say the words, “I am pregnant,” it is with no small measure of amazement. I am elated, emotional, terrified, but above all thankful. My pregnancy journey is just beginning, but so far I can tell you that in addition to great joy, it has also brought unenviable amounts of nausea, fatigue, food aversions, sound sensitivity and an ongoing battle with my hormones. In the weeks ahead, I plan to share more of my life-changing experience in the hope that if there is anyone out there being held back from chasing their heart’s desire — no matter what it is — maybe my story will spark something in them and provide the little nudge they need to go for it.

📣 We are proud to announce that the WorldFish Board of Trustees and CGIAR have officially appointed Dr. Essam Yassin Mohammed as Director General of WorldFish and Senior Director of of CGIAR.

He will assume the post immediately having taken on the interim role since January 2022 last year. Join us in celebrating this big achievement!

Read the full story 👉https://tinyurl.com/ynwr527t

ሰላም ንዓኹም ይኹን ሓላላት

መቀጸልታ ታሪኽ ተረዘቕ(ስምኦን ሳሚኤል)

N.B እዚ ጽሑፍ ኣብ ሓዳስ ኤርትራ ብዕለት 19 ሰነ 2011 ዝተጻሕፈ ኮይኑ፡ ብሰንኪ ዘይንጹርነትን ድቀት ፊደላቱን ክንበብ ስለዘይከኣለ ከም ብሓድሽ ዝተጻሕፈ'ዩ። ዝጎደሎ የብሉን ከምዘለዎ'ዩ ቀሪቡ ዘሎ።


-ኣብ ኖርወይ ዝነበረ ጸወታ ኸ ከመይ ነበረ?
*ዘረባ የብሉን። ናይ ብሓቂ እዩ ዝገርመካ፡ ከም ሕሱም ኢና ዓንዲርና።

-ዝበርትዐት ጋንታ ዘክር?
*መንደፈራ።

-ትጸልኣ ዶ ነይርካ?
*ናተይ ብሙዃና እሕበን እንተነበርኩ፡ ክትበልጸኒ ግን ኣይደልን እየ።

-ኣብ ምንታይ ቦታ ኢኻ ትጻወት ኔርካ?
*መብዝሓትኡ ግዜ ተኸላኻላይ፡ ኣብ ገለ ኣጋጣሚታት ድማ ኣከፋፋላይ ኔረ።

-ካብ ዘሸግሩኻ ኣጥቃዕቲ መን ትዝክር?
*ተስፋልደት ጎይትኦም(መንደፈራ)፡ ብዙሕ ውን ኣይንፋቶን ኔርና።

-እንታይ ኣራኺብኩም?
*ነገር ንእስነት'ዩ፡ ናይ ጋንታ ህልኽ ይሕዘና ኔሩ። ንሱ ጎል ከእቱ ይጋደል፡ ኣነ ጎል ከይኣትወና እከላኸል ንረባረብ ኔርና። ከም ሓቂ ግና ፡ናይ ብሓቂ ንፉዕ ተጻዋታይ ኔሩ።

-ኣብ ዓወታት እስካንድናቭያ ኮይንካ ዘማዕደኻዮ ኸ እንታይ ኔሩ?
*ትምኒተይ እሞ ኣስመራ ስታድዮም ኣትየ ምስ ጋንታ ኤልፓ(ቀይሕ-ባሕሪ) ክጻወት እየ ዘማዕዱ ኔረ። በረኸት ዘሚኪኤልን ተፈሪ ገብረክርስቶስን ዝኣመሰሉ ተጻወቲ ናይ ብሓቂ እዮም ዘዕግቡንን ዝምስጡንን ኔይሮም። ኣብ ሜዳ ኣትየ ከምኣቶም ክዕንድር ከኣ ናይ ወትሩ ሕልመይ ኔሩ።

-ድሕሪ ናይ ስካንድናቭያን ጸወታ ዝነበረ ምዕባለታት ከመይ ኔሩ?
*እቲ ጸወታታት ቀጺሉ'ዩ፡ ብፍላይ ኣብ ውሽጢ ሃገር።ጽቡቅ ምዕባለ ከኣ ኔይርዎ። ኣነ ግን ዳርጋ ብዙሕ ከይጸናሕኩ እየ ኣብ ሻብዓይ ዙርያ ሳዋ ወሪደ።

-ምስ ኩዑሶ ኸ ተፈላሊኹም?
* ኣብ ሳዋ ክልተ ሰሙን ምስ ገበርኩ ብኮምሽን ስፖርት ደብዳቤ ተጻሒፉለይ ተመሊሰ ኔረ። መሊሰ ግን ሞሊቐ ተመሊሰ። ብኡ ገይረ ተመዲበ ከኣ ግቡእ ኣብ ምምላእ ተዋፊረ። ምስ ኩዑሶ ግን ዋላ ኣብኡ ከማን ኣይተጋደፍናን። ወራር ወያነ ስለ ዘርከበ ፡ ኩነታት ንስፖርት ውን ይጸልዎ ኔይሩ። ሰላም እንተድኣ ኮይኑ ትጻወት፡ ኲናት እንተመጺኡ ድማ ትዋጋእ። ኮምኡ እንዳ በልካ'ዩ እቲ ሂወት፡ ኣብ መንጎ ከኣ እዛ ትርእያ ዘለኻ ኣጋጢሙኒ።

-መዓስን ኣበይን ኢኻ ተሃሪምካ?
*ቀዳማይ ወራር እኳ ኣብ ባድመ እየ ኔረ፡ ዘጋጠመኒ ማህረምቲ ውን ኣይነበረን። ካልኣይ ወራር ውን እግሪ መኸል እየ ኔይረ፡ ኣብዚ ውን ፎኪስ እንተዘይኮይኑ ዘጸግም ማህረምቲ ኣይነበረን። ናይዛ ትርእያ ዘለኻ ስንክልና ማህረምቲ ግና ቅኒን ቅኒቶን ኣብ ዝነበረ ሳልሳይ ወራር ኩነታት እዩ።

-እታ ዝተሃረምካላ ደቒቕ እስከ ዘክራ?
*ከምቲ ዝድለ ክዝክራ ዝኽእል እኳ ኣይመስለንን፡ ምኽንያቱ ከቢድ ብረት መጺኣ ምስ ሰለስተ፡ ኣርባዕተ ኣባላት ከም ዝሃረመትና ጥራይ'የ ዝዝክር።

-ድሕሪኡ ዝነበረ ኩነታት ከ?
* ቀትሪ ኢና ተሃሪምና፡ ሽዑ ከይንወጽእ ከኣ ጎልጎል ሃዘሞ ቃልዕ እዩ። ምሸት ኢና ወጺና። ደሓር ግን ንነብሰይ ኣብ ሕክምና ዓላ እየ ረኺበያ። ኣብ ዓላ እዩ ተፈሊጡኒ።ደም ፈሲሱኒ ስለ ዝነበረ እሞ ከኣ ደኺመ ናይ ግድን ድማ ኦፐረሽን ስለ ዘድለየ ተቐላጢፎም እዮም ሆስፒታል ሓሊበት ወሲዶሙኒ።

-ማህረምትኻ ኣብ ምንታይካ'ዩ ኔሩ?
*ናብ ሕክምናታት ክውሰድ እንከለኹ ኣብ ከብደይ ደም እርኢ ስለ ዝነበርኩ ከብደይ'ዩ ዝመስለኒ ኔሩ። የማናይ ጎነይ ከም ዝኾነ ግን ድሒረ እየ ፈሊጠ።

-ኣበይ?
*ሓሊበት ሆስፒታል ።

-ኣእጋርካ ከም ዝሰንከላ መዓስ ፈሊጥካ?
*ብዛዕባ ኣእጋረይ ውን ድሒረ እየ ፈሊጠ።

-ብኸመይ ፈሊጥካ?
*ድሕሪ ኦፐረሽን ካብቲ ደቂሰሉ ዝነበርኩ ዓራት ኮፍ ክብል ኢለ ፈቲነ፡ ክልቲአን ኣእጋረይ ድማ ምእዛዝ ኣብየናኒ።

-ሽዑ ዝበልካዮ፡ ዝዘከርካዮ ወይ ዝተራእየካ እንታይ ኔሩ?
*ናይ ግድን'ሲ ከመይ ኔርካ? ከመይ ኣለኻ? ከመይ ክትከውን ኢኻ? ብዙሕ ነገራት ክረኣየካ እዩ። ምኽንያቱ ትማሊ ትማሊ ኣብ ብዙሕ ንጥፈታት ዝጎያ ዝነበራ ኣእጋረይ እየን ዝተሓዛ ዘለዋ። እቲ ዘሐጉስ ግን ዝቆምካሉ ሃገራዊ ዕላማ ኣይተጣሕሰን ኣይተተንከፈን።

-ነቶም ኣብ ኩዑሶን ኣብ ኩነታትን ዝነበሩ ክልተ ስምኦናት እስከ ዘክሮም?
* ክልቲኦም ስምኦናት ኣብ ቦበትኦም ግብኦም ገይሮም'ዮም። እቲ ናይ ኩዑሶ ስምኦን ፡ ኩዑሶ ሶሊኻ ሸትኣ ከይትኣትው፡ እቲ ናይ ኩነታት ስምኦን ከኣ ድማ ጸላኢ ከይኣትዎም ኣብ ግቡእ ቦታታት ኮይኖም ዝኣኽሎም ተቃሊሶም እዮም። ክልቲኦም ስምኦናት ክቅጽሉ እንተኮይኖም ናይ ግድን ክዕወቱ ነይርዎም። ክልቲኦም ተዓዊቶም ቀጻልነት ጋንትኦምን ሃገሮምን ኣውሒሶም'ዮም።

-ዝኸፍአ ኲናት ኣበይ ኔይርካ?
*ኣብ ኩሉ። ኲናት ህይወት ወይ ኣካል ስለ ዝወስድ ቀሊል ኲናት የለን።

-ዝኸፍአን ዘይትርስዖን መስዋእትን መውጋእትን?
*መሊኡ'ዩ። ኩሉ ካልኣይ የብሉን፡ ዘይርስዓ መስዋእቲ ናይ ሃብቶም ቢተው (ፍቅሪ ሓደ ደቂቅ ዝደረሰ) ብሓንሳብ እንከለና'ዩ ወዲቁ። ኩሉ ግን ከቢድ'ዩ። ህይወት ስለ ዝወስድን ዘሰንክልን።

-መስዋእትን ስንክልናን ብኸመይ ኢኻ ትገልጾ?
*ኩሉ ናይ ህይወት ሕቶ እዩ። ምኽንያቱ መስዋእቲ ካልኣይቲ ዘይብላ፡ ዘይትድገምን ዘይትምለስን ህይወት ምኽፋል እዩ። ስንክልና ዋላ እኳ ዓይነቱ ይፈላለ እምበር ትፈትዎን ወገንን ክፋሊ ኣካላትካ ምውፋይ'ዩ። ክልቲኡ ንሓደ ትፈትዎን ዘገድሰካን ነገር ትኸፍሎ ዋጋ እዩ። ከፊልካ ግን ኣምጺእካ ዶ? ተኸላኺልካ ዶ? ተዓዊትካ ዶ? ዝብሉ ሕቶታት ክምለሱ ኣለዎም።

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