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13/10/2026

I wasn’t kidding around when I said I was doing an October Reset!

This is a little ‘I did’ list of everything from the last week that filled my cup and poured into this reset.

Some bonus thoughts:

💭 the pressure doesn’t necessarily ‘go away’ but it’s intensity lessens when you keep choosing yourself (ironically, similar to with relationship doubt, who’d have thought!)

💭 the post wedding rest is still in full swing, as there’s a LOT to integrate… but it doesn’t have to be ‘all or nothing.’ I can integrate and still show up here when it feels good. I can integrate and write some inner whispers on Substack. AND I can integrate and nap on the couch 🛋️

💭 this idea of ‘enough’ shows up EVERYWHERE (not just inside your doubts), and it’s so arbitrary. But it doesn’t go away by being ignored but in redefining your definition of ‘enough.’

💭 p.s. go listen to Cheryl Wheeler if you want to soak in some cozy fall practical magic type vibes ✨ you won’t be disappointed!

What are your reflections from the last week (whether or not you’re joining me for a little October reset 🍂)?

08/10/2026

This whole “do I love him enough, do I feel enough” is such a trap.

You’re drinking coffee with him on a Saturday morning.

He reaches for your hand and says, “I love you so much.”

And suddenly you’re checking.

Can I say it back fully?
Do I feel it as deeply as he does?
Is what I’m feeling ENOUGH?

And then: “What if the fact that I’m even questioning this MEANS something?”

Maybe he’s not the one. Because if he was, wouldn’t I just KNOW?

But “enough” according to WHAT?

The Instagram couples who seem wildly in love every second? The Notebook-style romance you imagined finding your person would feel like?

There’s a difference between wanting a caring, emotionally available partner who shares your values… and expecting to feel wildly in love, excited and certain every time you look at him.

One is about what matters to you in a relationship.

The other is an imaginary benchmark for how love is supposed to FEEL.

And real love doesn’t always feel extraordinary. Sometimes it’s just coffee on a Saturday with someone you love.

But when you’re measuring every moment against that benchmark, even a beautiful morning becomes another test.

You look for another feeling. Another sign. Another moment that finally proves THIS is it.

But how can you ever collect enough evidence when “enough” isn’t even something you can measure?

And THIS is where it affects your ability to choose.

Because you’re waiting for your feelings to finally give you permission to make a decision. To move forward. To see where this relationship could go.

Meanwhile, you’re still asking the same question: “Do I love him enough?”

I don’t think the answer is to force yourself to feel more. Or convince yourself he’s the one.

I think it’s to stop making every feeling prove that he is.

So there’s room to notice what you actually feel, want and choose, instead of constantly checking whether you feel what you’re SUPPOSED to.

I’m curious: is there a next step in your relationship you want to feel clearer about, but keep questioning? What is it? 🤍

06/10/2026

Welcome to the October Reset 🍂

Inspired by the lovely S O P H I E D O W N E S who did a “Sophie’s September” last month, I feel really called to use this month to anchor back into myself + my life.

I’ve just been away celebrating my WEDDING (!!), which, for those of you who have been here through the relationship doubt + anxiety journey, was a pretty huge fu***ng moment 🥹🤍 (more to come on that).

But I’ve come back with a very full heart… and also pretty fu***ng exhausted 😂 And I can feel myself craving a reset.

In creativity - because I feel slightly uninspired right now. Which is funny, because part of me thinks I should be MORE inspired after the last few weeks.

In trust - because I can feel the self-doubt creeping in around what to post, what to share, what direction I want to go in next.

In groundedness - because when I feel like this, what I crave MOST is routine… but I also know myself well enough to know I can pendulum-swing straight into “NEW ROUTINE. NEW ME. 17 THINGS I MUST DO EVERY DAY!!!” 😂

And I don’t want to force myself back into flow. I want to create a little more space to find my way back to it.

So if you’ve been feeling that little inkling to reset too - in your rituals, your healing, your creativity, your life, your relationship, wherever - this is your invitation to join me.

Take what feels good from mine. Leave what doesn’t. Add your own.

Let’s see what comes when we stop trying to have it all figured out and come back to ourselves instead. 🍂🤍

22/09/2026

I really wanted to do a cute voiceover for this but apparently planning ANOTHER wedding less than a week after getting legally married doesn’t leave much spare time 😂🤍

So instead… enjoy this little timestamp of our civil wedding day, without the trending audio, so you can experience our terrible singing in all its glory.

And YES, this was the secret thing I teased 👀 We ended the day in a karaoke booth—which is actually a little cornerstone of our relationship. On our 3rd date, J invited me to karaoke (a bold choice considering that could have gone horribly 😂) and we ended up having THE BEST night.

So after officially becoming husband and wife at our civil ceremony here in Germany, we got to go back and relive one of the nights where it all began. 🥹🤍

Civil wedding: complete. Legally married. Next stop… the white wedding!!! 💍

11/09/2026

A little peek behind the highlight reel lately 🤍 Turns out you can be deeply grateful for your life and still be a very normal human having a very normal human time inside of it lol.

What’s not making it onto your highlight reel right now? 👀

07/09/2026

The biggest mistake I made with relationship anxiety was thinking I needed to figure out what every anxious feeling was trying to tell me.

Because when something felt off…
I assumed there was a reason.

Maybe I felt disconnected after an otherwise lovely weekend together.
Maybe he brought up the future and instead of feeling excited, I felt that little drop in my stomach.

And immediately:
Why did I feel that?
Is this anxiety… or is something actually wrong?
What if my body is trying to tell me something I don’t want to hear?

Because when the future consequence is:
“What if I ignore this, marry him, and realize years later that I knew all along?”
of course the feeling seems important enough to investigate.

So I did.
Again and again.

And I thought if I could just understand the feeling correctly, I’d finally stop feeling so anxious about my relationship.

But this is the piece I was missing:
Every time I treated the feeling like something I needed to figure out, I was reinforcing how important it felt.

Something feels off → investigate.
A little anxiety → check the relationship.
A twinge → find out what it means.

And eventually your system gets REALLY good at sounding the alarm.

The thing that changed for me wasn’t finally finding the right answer to every feeling.
It was teaching my system that the feeling itself didn’t require an investigation.

That an off moment could just be an off moment.
That feeling disconnected for an evening didn’t require me to figure out how I felt about my entire relationship.
That “oh my god, this is big” didn’t have to become “oh my god… am I sure?”

And THAT is the work inside Tending the Twinge.

Because I don’t want you to become better at answering every question your anxiety throws at you.

I want those questions to stop having the power to pull you away from the relationship you’re actually living.

If you’re tired of every little feeling becoming something you have to figure out, comment TWINGE and I’ll send you the details. 🤍

04/09/2026

The bigger the commitment gets, the more certain you think you need to feel before you’re allowed to make it.

Because saying yes to a date is one thing.
Saying yes to forever?
Suddenly “I want this” doesn’t feel like enough.

You want to KNOW.

That he’s the one.
That you’re making the right choice.
That the doubts won’t mean something later.
That future you won’t look back and think, “I should have known.”

So the closer you get to the milestone, the more pressure you put on every feeling around it.

How excited was I?
Why did I feel anxious?
Why am I still questioning?
Shouldn’t I be more sure by now?

But you didn’t build this relationship in the moment he proposed.

And you won’t decide the truth of it in one anxious Tuesday three weeks before your wedding either.

You’ve been meeting this relationship, yourself, and your choice in hundreds of moments along the way.

The milestone is a threshold.

It doesn’t need to become the moment that finally gives you absolute certainty about the rest of your life.

Because that kind of certainty was never available to you in the first place.

And the pressure to find it can turn:
“Holy s**t, this is really happening.”
into: “Holy s**t… am I sure?”

That space between the two is a huge part of why I created Tending the Twinge.

If you’re approaching a big next step with someone you deeply want to be with, but every little flicker of doubt keeps pulling you back into questioning it all, comment TWINGE and I’ll send you the details. 🤍

03/09/2026

He starts seriously talking about rings.

Not the hypothetical:“Maybe one day…”
But actually looking.

Talking timelines.
Asking what you like.
And this is what you’ve wanted.

So why, when it starts becoming real, does your stomach suddenly drop?
Why does your chest feel tight?
Why is there this little:
“Oh my god…”

And almost immediately:
Why did I react like that?
Shouldn’t I be more excited?
Does this mean he’s not “the one”?

Because somewhere underneath all of that is the question that makes the feeling feel so important:

If this were really the man I wanted to marry… wouldn’t my whole body be saying YES?

But this is where I see it differently.
What if your body isn’t saying “no”?

What if the thing you’ve imagined for years just stopped being hypothetical?

Because talking about getting engaged one day is very different from realizing:
Oh. We’re actually doing this.
You’re choosing.
Something is changing.

There are unknowns on the other side of that choice that you cannot perfectly predict.
And your body can register the magnitude of that without it being evidence that you don’t want it.

The piece that used to get me, and that I see happen with so many women, is what happens next.

That little: “Oh my god, this is real.”
gets interpreted as: “Oh my god… am I sure?”

And suddenly you’re not excitedly looking at rings anymore.
You’re trying to figure out what your reaction was trying to tell you.

This is exactly why I created Tending the Twinge.
Because you don’t need another way to analyze whether the feeling means yes or no.

You need that feeling to stop carrying so much weight, like it’s carrying the verdict of your entire relationship where it immediately pulls you back into questioning.

So talking about rings can feel BIG.
Getting engaged can feel BIG.
Choosing someone can feel BIG.

Without big automatically becoming:
“Maybe this is wrong.”

If you want these moments to stop feeling like something you have to figure out before you can enjoy them, comment TWINGE and I’ll send you the details. 🤍

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