Enjoy Your Design

Are you a life coach, a psychologist, a counsellor, a psychotherapist?

Do you have clients who are not making progress despite your best efforts and theirs?

Then this message is for you.

It's so amazing that in the past few years the world has become more and more aware of the importance of educating ourselves to become at least trauma informed when we work with people in any healing capacity & and to incorporate somatic work beyond the classical "talk therapy" or mindset work.

These two additions are helping people who have struggled for years with no results.

But even with these wonderful healing modalities under our belt there is still an element that can make or break our work with people.

And from my own practice and study in the past 4 years this element is Human Design.

I've become so immersed in it and I've gotten so used to having people around me that already know at least the minimum about their Human Design that I've forgotten that there are still so many people who have never heard about it.

Becoming Human Design informed if you're working 1:1 with people in any coaching, therapy, counseling capacity is the next level in really supporting humans to the best of our abilities in a way that is actually correct for them.

As a coach, psychologist and Human Design Guide myself I'd like to help as many coaches, therapists, counsellors etc. to take their practice to the next level with Human Design.

The Living Your Design Workshop is the entry level first step towards becoming Human Design informed and if you wish, this will also give you access to continuing your own education towards the professional path.

I would love to organize a group especially for coaches & therapists or at least have a majority of you in my next LYD workshop in July, beginning date TBD.

More deets & signup linkinbio :)

The Sacral response and its role in Generators vs Projectors.

In the first case it is a reliable, trustworthy and simple response that guides the Generator moment by moment.

In the second one it’s a learning tool, not one that Projectors should use to make decisions based upon.

The problem in ALL the self-help world that is not at the minimum Human Design informed is that it advises everyone including Projectors, Manifestors and Reflectors to use that Sacral response as a tool to make decisions.

So we have around 30% of humanity misguided because of homogenized advice.

I used to do it too before I found Human Design no shaming anyone for doing this.

But I feel like I need to do my part of sharing and raising awareness for everyone that works with a therapist or a coach.

If you’re not feeling seen, understood and you feel like their approach feels off to you it might be that they’re a Generator and you’re not. So nothing that worked for them will work for you.

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The Living Your Design workshop is the bare minimum that will make you Human Design informed. If you’re a coach, a therapist or anything similar do yourself and your clients a favor and learn the basics of Human Design.

I’ll facilitate a new group in July and you can find all the deets in my bio.

Emotional beings…

we are colouring the emotional atmosphere on planet Earth.

Our waves are constantly moving, changing, shifting and affecting everyone around us.

We’re not here for spontaneous decisions in the now

Or to stay on the surface of things

We are here to dive deep into our own emotional ocean

To gain depth about the topics we are called to dive into

To be patient with ourselves

Whether you are here to respond and wait for emotional clarity as a Generator.

Or you are here to wait for recognition and invitation as a Projector and then allow your emotional waves to settle before accepting or not that invitation

Or you are here to make an impact as a Manifestor and you’re here to wait for emotional clarity before informing others about your next move that will affect them

As Emotional beings, regardless of our type, we live on a different timeline than the rest of humanity.

No one has the right to rush you or pressure you to make a decision before you feel ready for it.

If they are doing that repeatedly then they’re probably not the right people to keep close to you.

There are so many nuances and flavours of how Emotional Authority shows up in each individual

So it’s important for you to get familiar with your own unique expression of your emotional waves.

Go into your body and recognise the physical sensations that show up at different points in your wave.

It takes times to decondition from the “do it now” social conditioning we all grew up in.

And it’s not for the faint of heart.

I’m here to support you on your journey.

Either in a 1:1 or group setting choose what’s correct for you.

There’s no rush.

And there’s also not much time left for us to become grounded in our own Authority before the world gets even crazier than it has been in the past few years.

Love yourself,

RaLuca

The felt sense of feeling good in our bodies and safe in the world is not a given for the undefined Spleen people.

On the contrary, it's a life journey of learning to confront our deepest fears become wise about them & learning to let go of what no longer serves us.

Each Gate in the Spleen has a specific fear associated with it. We can check which ones we have active in our bodygraph. These are our main fears to learn about this lifetime.

The Spleen is just one of the 9 centers in the Human Design Bodygraph.
We cover each of the centers, the Authorities, the Definition, the Types and much more in the 9 weeks

Living Your Design Workshop.

This workshop is your first step on the path of your Human Design Education if that's what you're attracted to or your solid base of your deconditionning journey. It gives you the tools & support to start on the right foot

Living Your Design Workshop
IHDS certified
9 x 2h Weekly live on Zoom
Small group
EUR 300
Starting date TBD
Details & application form link in bio.

Are you a defined or undefined Spleen? Do you have kids with Undefined Spleen? Either way let me know in the comments.

Much love,
Raluca

For about 70% of people on Earth life is a constant battle with the
“I’m not good enough” voice in their head.

This voice has been there for so long that most of them don’t even realize it’s a voice, a belief they acquired at some point in their childhood.

They’re witnessing the consequences of this belief that has become a false identity without questioning the root cause…

They struggle to charge a fair price for their services.

They avoid negotiating for a higher salary.

They settle for whatever someone else decides their work/time/knowledge is worth.

They work overtime because they want to prove how good they are.

They share their resources without considering their own needs first.

They push themselves to compete with others to prove they are the best.

They over deliver and under charge.

They make promises they later can’t honour and they spiral down into shame and guilt.

It’s so exhausting and painful and it leads to all sorts of health issues.

It really doesn’t have to be this way.

Having an undefined Heart center is not supposed to be a curse.

It’s an amazing potential for wisdom and a permission slip to

Stop trying to prove yourself to anyone.

Becoming aware of this unconscious programming is the first step towards healing.

I’m planning a 2h workshop for the undefined Heart people (like myself) regardless of your Type.

Drop a ❤️ in the comments or send me a DM if this is something you’d be interested in.

It's hilarious when you understand even just the basic mechanics of Type, Aura, Strategy & Authority and you
start looking at your own life, your family & your friends.

It can also be very depressing in the first stages when you realize just how conditioned
you've been to act in ways that are not true to you.

And how deeply conditioned is everyone around you to behave in unhealthy ways
when they each have such a beautiful, amazing potential to be a unique expression of Divine energy in this world.

Like everything else in Human Design it'a this and a that, it's a duality.

Anyways...

There are many ways in which you can start learning about your Human Design but
it can be overwhelming with so much information already available on the Internet.

I'll tell how I started & I'll give you a few tips on how to figure out if me (or someone else)
is the right guide for you in the next post.

Meanwhile, if you feel ready to start diving into the Human Design basics in a group setting
I invite you to
Living Your Design Awakening Experience.

This is the kickstart of your journey back to you.

A journey of shedding the layers of conditionning, beliefs, projections to uncover the essence of you.

Especially if you are a Projector learning about & experimenting with your Human Design is life changing.

We start January 22 at 16:00 Romania (EET)

DM me for the link to get more deets & apply.

Much love,

RaLuca

There's nothing wrong with you.

..if you're feeling off these days after all the crazyness that takes over those of us who celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah or any other winter holidays

..if you would like to slow down, rest, stretch, spend time in nature instead of going for another social gathering, end of the year party, cinema night or shopping run

..if you just want to spend some time alone after having spent time with your extended family

..if you have different needs than those of your family & friends

There's nothing wrong with you.

Or them.

We're just different.

And the more we become aware of our differences & learn to honor them instead of trying to force a homogenized
view of the world on ourselves or on our loved ones the closer we'll get to world in which we can live in harmony with each other.

Harmony doesn't mean sameness, or "everyone needs to do things as I say".

On the contrary, it means

"I know and honor my needs, my uniqueness while I respect & honor the needs & uniquennes of those around me"

Is it easy?

Of course not.

Is it worth working towards this?

Totally.

For many years I didn't know why I felt so different from most people.

Why what seemed to work for "everyone" didn't work for me.

Why did I burn out and developed an autoimmune disease at the young age of 20?

Why did I have terrible back pain all through my late 20's & 30's in the absence of any physical injury?

Looking for answers to these questions & searching for both emotional and physical healing put me on a path of intense learning & experimenting with so many different therapeutic modalities.

This helped me overcome some scary medical "sentences"
&
improve my relationship with my body, my femininity, with the masculine & the men in my life,
with money & my sacred calling & purpose in this life.

A huge part of this puzzle has been discovering Human Design & getting deep into it.

I realize that as I'm healing & integrating the truth of who I am
this becomes the new normal so I sometimes forget that they were foreign to me not so long ago.

And then I remember that there are billions of people who still struggle with similar issues.

Continued in comments 👇

The Essence of You Part 2

These are the stories your mind creates if you have undefined Throat, Root and Sacral centers.

The first step is to become aware that this is how your mind talks.

Second step is to recognize the many ways in which it talks and tries to make you do things against your inner Authority.

Third step is to have grace & compassion for yourself when you catch your mind doing its tricks.

Fourth step is to go back inside and tune into your Authority, your inner truth and make a choice from that space.

Fifth step: rinse & repeat 😄

Of course there’s more than this but for an Instagram post this is enough.

The truth is we don’t shift, heal & transform into who we have the potential to be by reading IG posts.

These are here to give you a taste of the medicine, a sample to figure out if you vibe with the author of that post, in this case me ;)

Real transformation happens in the sacred & safe space of a paid container, of a clear relationship between the coach, therapist, healer & the client.

I’ve read & saved countless posts but I didn’t really apply what I learned because it was just “free stuff”.

Once I paid and got some skin in the game I started to really pay attention & do the work needed to heal my dysfunctional patterns. I keep going back to the courses & programs I paid for because I’m Emotional Authority I need time to integrate & shift.

If you’re ready to do the work of shedding your false self structures & get to know your true self then The Essence of You might be for you.

You can apply all through December to start in January. Only 3 spots available. Send me a DM if you want the link.

Sending you love,

RaLuca

The stories your mind creates based on your undefined or unconsciously defined centers part one.

Which ones do you recognize?

Instagram doesn’t allow more slides so I had to cut this one half way.

I’ll post the rest of it in part 2.

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I’m here to see you as your true self and guide you back to that.

To you.

You are so worthy of this journey.

You have been waiting for yourself for way too long.

It’s time to shed the BS and slowly but surely come back to your essence.

I’m so grateful to be your guide in this sacred journey.

No rush.

No pressure.

Just the truth.

Your soul and my soul have prepared this meeting a long time ago.

I’m ready.

I’m here for You.

Can’t wait to meet you.

If you feel a yes in your body DM me & I’ll send you the deets.

Love,
🌹
RaLuca

Ever heard of BRAINY FOG?

Well me neither until today 😂

When you eat sugary stuff in the evening….

and you wake up with such a foggy brain 🧐

that you tell your favorite baker at the Farmer’s Market you have a “brainy fog” when she asks you “how are you?” 😂

And because she’s cool like that she says “I actually like it 😃 …brainy fog”

So now I’m using Mother Nature’s beauty and the ☀️ warmth to sooth and ground me and get my brain back to normal.

My heart goes to all my Projector sisters who are still struggling to keep up with their Generator friends and co-workers.

I’ve been there, gone through the burnout, the unexplainable health issues such as back pain or frequent colds.

You don’t have to do this alone.

You don’t have to work like everyone else does.

You are different and you are perfect just the way you are.

You just don’t know it yet because you’ve been trying to be someone else for so long.

You don’t have to do this anymore.

It’s ok to be Yourself.

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Opening soon an exclusive container Awaken to your Design for Projector Women.

This will be a unique space where we’ll combine Human Design knowledge with sacred feminine practices, nervous system regulation & embodiment exercise and more to help you in your deconditionning process in a way that’s natural for you.

Watch this space for more info or send me a DM if you want to apply for it.

My heart goes to all my Projector sisters who are still struggling to keep up with their Generator friends and co-workers.

I’ve been there, gone through the burnout, the unexplainable health issues such as back pain or frequent colds.

You don’t have to do this alone.

You don’t have to work like everyone else does.

You are different and you are perfect just the way you are.

You just don’t know it yet because you’ve been trying to be someone else for so long.

You don’t have to do this anymore.

It’s ok to be Yourself.

Opening soon an exclusive container Awaken to your Design for Projector Women.
This will be a unique space where we’ll combine Human Design knowledge with sacred feminine practices, nervous system regulation & embodiment exercise and more to help you in your deconditionning process in a way that’s natural for you.

Watch this space for more info or send me a DM if you want to apply for it.