12/09/2026
Great article ๐๐
Relaxation is not the opposite of energy.
Energy is not the opposite of relaxation.
There are some people who don't want their horses 'too calm' because they think they won't have any energy.
There are some people who are afraid to ask anything of their horse because they don't want to disrupt their relaxation.
The truth is that relaxation and energy interact in really really interesting ways.
More relaxation can lead to more freely expressed energy.
More energy can lead to deeper relaxation.
Think of energy as the willingness to respond - So often the reason they are not feeling energetic is lack of understanding or motivation...
When we clarify and motivate them, they respond more willingly and are more relaxed due to the lack of confusion.
So relaxation doesn't mean no energy, it means free-flowing energy.
Energy doesn't mean no relaxation, it means willing responsiveness.
๐ฅ๐ฒ๐น๐ฎ๐
๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป + ๐๐ป๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ด๐ = ๐ฃ๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ
I never get tired of seeing how these two qualities interact.
Take a look at how relaxation and energy relate in your horse.
This brings me to...
๐ฑ ๐ง๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐ช๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ธ'๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐น๐ฎ๐๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐ผ๐บ ๐ฉ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ผ:
R๐ฒ๐น๐ฎ๐
๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป & ๐๐ป๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ด๐ ๐ข๐ป๐น๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ
I play with a student's horse on line. This is a lovely horse, but his human was saying that his energy is 'stuck'. Power comes from having Energy with Relaxation, so I take a good look at her ability to have those conversations with the horse, transitioning from one to the other, until they naturally combine.
First he hesitates, then over-reacts and then gets is just right... Finding effortless free forward movement, with 100% commitment while remaining calm! Listen and watch as I describe what I am doing in every moment.
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