11/09/2026
One of my adult clients thanked me yesterday for what she called the “tough love” I had shown her.
She called it a much needed reality check!!
What did I call it?
The truth…
Just the truth….
Just factual information…
And that truth is that horses are hard work. There I said it. And yes it’s that simple.
Horse riding is hard work. Horse ownership is hard work.
Now don’t get me wrong it is also the most rewarding thing on the planet but let’s not deny that it is also hard work.
So in these days of instant gratification, where we get what we want immediately or delivered the next day, horses and horse riding is a bit of an anomaly.
Yes you can turn up one day and sit on a horse and get great photos for your socials feed. But that is not really riding. It’s not learning, it’s not improving.
Children see others on TikTok and think “Oh that looks good I want to do that!” (Not realising the months and years of work that have gone in before the reel was filmed)
Becoming a good rider is about putting in the hours, practicing, getting it wrong and trying again, learning, trying more, doing it again and again until we get it better and then get it right, and as soon as you’ve got that bit right moving on to another thing and starting all over again.
It doesn’t come easy but it does come.
Everyone has a different journey. Some find it easier than others and some achieve things more quickly.
Most people get there in the end but nobody, and I mean nobody gets there without trying.
The more you try, the better you get. The more you put in the more you get back out. It’s that simple.
We try to make the learning fun, we try to ensure you are making progress, we encourage, cajole, support and our aim is to help you develop and improve…
BUT WE CAN’T DO IT FOR YOU!!!
You have you do the hard miles, whether that means getting leaner, getting stronger, improving your cardiovascular fitness, trying harder or simply doing your best over and over again until it falls into place.
Because the end result is sooooo amazing it makes every effort worthwhile.
I can promise you that ❤️