Balance Fitness and Wellbeing

Balance Fitness and Wellbeing Helping you to be fitter, healthier, and happier, for life. Hi, I'm Paul Waters, owner of balance, and personal trainer and lifestyle coach for 20 years.

Based in Wells, we’re a fitness & wellbeing studio offering a unique blend of personal training, yoga, massage, health checks, and nutrition & lifestyle coaching - to help you find your balance.. These days, I'm an author, coach, and speaker, specialising in helping people to improve their health, fitness, and wellbeing in a sustainable way. On this page, I share with you how my partner Lou and I try to live a simple, balanced lifestyle, and how you can do it too. You’ll find hints and tips on everything from mindset and behaviour change to nutrition, sleep, stress reduction and improving mental health, boosting energy levels, cardio, weights, stretching, and much, much more! And every piece of advice I give is about moving away from gimmicks and quick fixes to find simple, natural, lasting solutions. You don’t find any supplements or meal replacements here, there’ll be no rapid weight loss or fitness plans that you can’t maintain, and everything will be as much about looking after our beautiful planet too.

A question for you…Do you diarise time for yourself? Time for exercise, social catch-ups, things that make you feel good...
25/09/2026

A question for you…

Do you diarise time for yourself? Time for exercise, social catch-ups, things that make you feel good.

And do you diarise work/family/school commitments?

Many of the people we help don’t do the former when they start working with us. But they often do the latter.

They either say, ‘I’ll get round to it when there’s some spare time’ (there rarely - if ever - is!)

Or they say, ‘I’m just not as important as work or the kids.’

Thing is, you need to feel at your best to help your family and to perform at work. So, eventually, these important things will suffer because you’re suffering.

Don’t get me wrong, time is precious and it may only be a 10-minute workout or a quick chat with a friend on the phone. But, if it’s in the diary, I’ll bet you that it’s much more likely to happen!!! 🗓️✅😍

One thing to always remember…Be proud of your efforts!!! 👏👏👏This afternoon I attempted my penultimate big run before the...
24/09/2026

One thing to always remember…

Be proud of your efforts!!! 👏👏👏

This afternoon I attempted my penultimate big run before the marathon. 12 miles including 4 x 2 mile intervals at 20-30 seconds faster than I want to run at on the day.

It started well and I gave it my all. It was surprisingly hot out on the Somerset Levels, Glastonbury Tor keeping its beady eye on me throughout. By the fourth and last round of intervals, the tank was pretty empty. Evidence - as I’d suspected but hoped not to be the case - that those couple of injuries have left me just a little way short of where I really hoped to be.

It’s not a disaster though. There’s one more big run to squeeze a little more out of the tank. And then I can ease up for a few weeks.

And you know what? I am proud of my efforts. I’ve regained a huge amount of fitness and got myself back to near where I always used to be before COVID and parenthood and life’s many challenges.

And I’ve achieved it through nine months of consistent training, never skipping sessions or avoiding the hard stuff. At the same time, I’ve become better than ever at listening to my body, knowing when to push and when to rest.

Whatever marathon day brings, there’s a lot to be proud of.

What are you proud of yourself for this year so far? Don’t forget to remind yourself of those achievements! 🏅🙌

“What do you eat?”I’m never normally a fan of answering this one as it varies greatly depending on training levels, seas...
22/09/2026

“What do you eat?”

I’m never normally a fan of answering this one as it varies greatly depending on training levels, seasons, and what we bought in the weekly shop.

But there are some consistent principles so I thought I’d share a full list of what I’ll have today and the ideas behind it.

Breakfast: Two slices of rye bread toast and peanut butter, one topped with blueberries and pomegranate, the other with marmalade.

Morning snack: one of Lou’s homemade pear and dark chocolate muffins and a plum.

Lunch: Chicken with spinach, mixed salad, beetroot, cucumber, and red and yellow peppers, plus two slices of wholegrain fresh bread with houmous and some very moreish salt & vinegar Tesco Finest crisps (a large bag eaten over four days).

Afternoon snacks: Greek yoghurt with peanut butter, pecan nuts, grapes, and banana.

Lou’s homemade seed bread (lots of nuts, seeds, dried fruit, and ginger).

Then fruit as needed - apple, orange, pear, banana, whatever I fancy.

Dinner: Likely a batch-cooked turkey or vege chilli or a vege curry, with lots of different vegetables.

After dinner: Usually two squares of dark chocolate with a cup of mint tea before bed. But maybe tonight an orange Kitkat (only two fingers) just because it’s Tuesday and I’m still hungry after that run!🤣

Drinks: 3 x cups of tea with oat milk, 2-3 lites of water.

What do you notice?

🍎🥦 There’s a major focus on fruit and veg - I probably aim for more like 7-10 portions per day.

🍞🥜🫘🍚 This is supported by lots of fibre and minimally processed carbohydrates - wholegrain rice, beans or lentils, nuts and seeds, and a decent bit of protein in there too.

🍗 Meat is minimal these days. Where it is there, it’s mostly chicken or turkey, then we’ll have some fish and a number of vege meals each week.

🍫 There’s room for some processed foods. As I said yesterday, needing more calories right now, I know I’m having a little more of things like crisps and chocolate. But I’m ok with that, my weight and body fat % scores are healthy, so I’m getting the balance right. Mostly though, it’ll be maybe some marmalade or jam on toast or porridge, then dark chocolate in the evenings and that’ll satisfy me most days.

☕️ Most of what I drink is water, always 2 litres, sometimes as much as 4 on hot or hard training days. I like tea, but find three cups with a splash of oat milk earlier in the day is enough. Then it’s herbal before bed and maybe real fruit squash or milk at other times if I need variety.

Nothing fancy. No supplements. No calorie-counting. No counting your macros. I’ve never found I need any of these. I have a balance that works for me based on the simple key pillars of nutrition.

That’s not to say this works for everyone. You must find what fits your needs and works for your body. That can take time, but many of the simple things will likely form the solid base on which your health, fitness, and wellbeing are built. 🍊🥬🌰🥛🧄🥚🥗🍰🍽️

Autumn days ☀️ 🍂 🍁 🌅 Is there much better than the dappled light of a low sun beaming down through the trees?Or a crisp ...
22/09/2026

Autumn days ☀️ 🍂 🍁 🌅

Is there much better than the dappled light of a low sun beaming down through the trees?

Or a crisp blue sky fading to pink then orange as the sun melts like molten lava behind the horizon?

They bring a lovely sense of calm and balance to the end of summer days. 🥰

‘I’m going to enter a marathon/long bike ride to help me lose a bit of weight.’I’ve heard that a lot over the years. And...
21/09/2026

‘I’m going to enter a marathon/long bike ride to help me lose a bit of weight.’

I’ve heard that a lot over the years. And hey, it’s not impossible, you’re burning a lot of calories in training.

But beware the hunger response. After a big training session, you can find your appetite increases A LOT for a number of days.

I have been ravenous today after my 20 miles yesterday!! 🤣 And hey, I’m not trying to lose weight and I know that if I do restrict food in hard training blocks like this, I tend to get ill.

So I’m going with the inner voice saying, ‘crisps, you knows you wants them, the precious.’ 👹🧌

I doubt anyone strolling past the studio window today is inspired to come in and sign up!!! 😂

The big one for the marathon is done! 20 miles in the bag and fairly comfortably thankfully. ☺️I said last week I was tr...
20/09/2026

The big one for the marathon is done!

20 miles in the bag and fairly comfortably thankfully. ☺️

I said last week I was trying to manage a busy schedule and a lot of tiredness as I moved into the last few weeks of hard training.

Well, taking those extra rest days and spreading out the runs has worked really well. Every run I do has a purpose, not just struggling through miles for the sake of it.

This week, I had a fab 8-mile run with 4 x 1 steady/1 about 30 seconds faster than my goal pace for the marathon.

Then a fun 6 miles of Fartlek (which basically means playing with different speeds).

And finally, today’s 20-miler along the Bristol to Bath Railway Path with Simon Evans as great company for the final 15 miles. It’s much easier running and chatting to keep your mind off the effort, and it was so nice to run a route that was once like a good friend too but that I’d not visited since before Lockdown.❤️

It’s rare I’ve felt so strong in the last few miles of a long one. Hopefully that’s a good omen for the marathon 4 weeks today!! 🤞🤞🤞

Wish me luck!🍀

A little thought for you as the weekend begins…Change takes time, practice, and patience.Break it into bite sized chunks...
19/09/2026

A little thought for you as the weekend begins…

Change takes time, practice, and patience.

Break it into bite sized chunks and find a way to be consistent.

Do more on days you feel good, less on days you don’t, but - more often than not - do something.

That way lies the results you desire. That way lies balance.

Happy Saturday!!! 😁😎🦶🌳🌦️🍂

18/09/2026

Does your internal dialogue help or hinder you on your journey to better balance? 🤔

18/09/2026

Is your inner voice your champion or your biggest critic?

I’ve had this video in mind for a few weeks. During that time, I’ve had to put into practice the advice in this video frequently.

Why? I’ve noticed my internal dialogue has been quite negative recently. I think it’s because, historically, when I’ve wanted to get something done, I’ve just got on with it and made it happen.

Having two little ones, with one just starting his first year at school and lots going on in life means these days, I have to do things a lot more slowly and I can find that frustrating. I find during these times my internal dialogue can become quite critical - ‘you don’t work hard enough’, or, ‘you’re not organised enough.’

I often hear similar stories from clients and the technique I describe in the video is one I always try with them to help shift the dial in a more positive direction.

Frequently, it makes a difference. It certainly has for me.

P.S. posting reels on Facebook is another time that voice likes to take over. ‘You’re not a social media person.’ ‘Nobody will trust a guy with a Brummie accent.’ 😉 Thanks inner voice, your points are noted, but I’m just gonna do it anyway and hopefully help a few folks out there. 🙏

Swapping Glastonbury festival for Yeo Valley garden festival 💃🏿🌻From partying all night to pottering with nightshades, f...
17/09/2026

Swapping Glastonbury festival for Yeo Valley garden festival 💃🏿🌻

From partying all night to pottering with nightshades, from cutting shapes on the dance floor to cutting stems on the Dalia and learning about mushrooms of a very different variety 😂

Whilst I still love to jig in a field, I’m also in my element having a dig amongst the flora and fauna 🐝 🌱

I did my RHS course whilst pregnant with Lennie, and completed it when he was a few weeks old. I always wanted to combine helping people with my love of plants, and it’s been lovely coming here and listen to some big names in the plant world speak about the future of gardening, wellbeing and our planet. 🌍

Who knows, maybe one day Balance will have their own wellbeing garden ☺️

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