16/09/2026
My voice isnāt perfect or the most impressive. But itās mine, and Iāve learnt to love it as it is AND enjoy it as I keep working on it. š«¶š¼
But I didnāt always feel that way.
Iāve had a bit of a wild ride with my voice and my relationship with it over the years.
I mean, how many adults find out they have a tongue tie, have surgery to fix it, and then have to rebuild their voice from scratch?! Not to mention rebuilding the trust and confidence to go with it.
Iāll tell you what though, that experience forged a much better relationship with my voice.
I have WAY more gratitude for everything it CAN do, even with the messy bits that still exist alongside it.
And Iāve seen this play out with hundreds of singers Iāve coached over the years too.
Because as important as vocal technique is, technique alone doesnāt make you feel secure in your voice.
How you think about your singing, what you say to yourself when things donāt go perfectly, and whether your confidence comes from within or relies on someone else telling you youāre good enough... that matters too.
So if you recognise that gap in yourself, and still need outside validation to plug it, I want you to know:
Iāve been there. And that relationship with your voice CAN change.
Thatās exactly why I created The Self-Assured Singer.
Itās a short video training to help you notice how youāre talking to yourself about your singing and start building a steadier, more supportive confidence from within.
And right now, you can watch it FREE in the 7-day Premium trial of my brand-new The Confident Singer Community. š
Itās my September Bluesky Singing Methodā¢ Training of the Month, so itās only available this month before a new training arrives in October.
If you want to love your voice, keep developing it AND feel good about sharing it, nowās a pretty good time to start building that assurance within yourself.
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