09/09/2025
Some might have said: toughen up! suck it up!
But for me, it was a deep sense of not knowing who I really was.
That was my struggle.
I was listening to everyone advice but mine!
I wasn’t prepare to let anyone down.
I ignored ME.
I lost my own identity.
My self worth.
I was living on fear of the unknown.
The disconnection with my own self
was real.
Scary at times.
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I had to get clarity on who I was beyond my job title.
I had to revalue myself for my own strengths and not just for my role.
I had to trust myself again to be truth to myself, not to my status at work.
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I spent years working in retail.
I have all my energy, time and my heart to my job that shaped who I was.
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But deep down, I knew that wasn’t the whole story.
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Are you asking yourself:
“Who am I outside of this job?”
“What else am I capable of?”
“What’s next for me?”
Your role has become your identity, and without it, you’re unsure of your worth or what direction to take.
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- Rediscover who you truly are beyond your retail role.
- Rebuild unshakable self-worth and confidence.
- Step into clarity and courage about your next chapter.
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Here’s the journey I took:
- From Lost Identity → Rediscovered Self
- From Low Self-Worth → Unshakable Worth
- From Fear of the Unknown → Confident Direction
By the end of this process, I walked away with:
👉 A clear sense of who I am;
👉 The confidence to trust myself and my decisions;
👉 The self power to lead my life with authority and conviction;
👉 The self-worth to go after what I deserve;
👉 A clear direction into my next chapters;
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What keeps you away from living an inspiring life?
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09/09/2025
Someone told me “You are not ready for the change”.
That comment still makes me giggle to these days.
I left my native Italy 🇮🇹 to move to London 🇬🇧. (over 30 years ago, I was 28).
I had to start all over again. (from the first step of the ladder).
A new life, a new career. (what a life! what a career!)
I learnt to live with different cultures (best lesson ever!).
I ate changes everyday of my life and career. (and I have never lost that appetite).
I reinvented myself and started my successful businesses at the age of 57.
I relocated to a different city at 58.
And I am not finished!
I can guarantee you that!
When someone makes a comment like that, can severely make you loose confidence and hope.
You feel a void.
A void that if you don’t know how to overcome, it can really affect the rest of your life and career.
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Don’t EVER let anyone dim your success.
If they don’t see it, it is because their vision is blurred.
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Don’t EVER let anyone dim your success.
If they don’t see it, it is because their vision is blurred.
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Don’t EVER let someone decide your future.
They have no clarity of their own IMO.
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Don’t EVER let anyone with a scarcity mindset saying to you “you are not ready for the change”, when they run the opposite side when they see one.
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05/09/2025
Don’t you think it’s time to take control of the most precious human being…YOU!
Isn’t time YOU lead instead of being constantly a follower?
Can’t you see that YOU are capable of more than what you have always believed?
Aren’t YOU tired to be a people pleaser?
All of that is exhausting.
Chaotic and disempowering.
Wouldn’t YOU instead move from DRAINED to DRIVEN?
Abandon the self doubts, low confidence and the stagnation that has been drowning YOU most of your life.
Reclaiming the spot light in your life that YOU have been dimming for far too long.
Leading the life and career YOU want to lead with authority, authenticity and conviction.
Let’s create the space where YOU leave your old identity behind and become fully capable to live the life you deeply desire.
Fully present.
No half measures.
Committed.
This offer is for YOU!
DM me “DRAINED TO DRIVEN” and I will send the link to begin your journey into the world of new opportunities.
05/01/2024
Before 2018, my life was controlled by society and by others.
I didn't have a voice.
I didn't live by designed.
I didn't make my choices based on what I truly wanted.
I lived by default.
What changed since then?
Reflecting on my story and my past struggles, I can say I am very proud of my 5 years of deep work, transformation and plenty of lesson learnt.
Those experiences reminded me of time when I lacked clarity, confidence, struggled to find my way.
So, I want to share with you the principles, tools and methods I used to become my authentic self. To finally live my life by design and not by default.
I will guide you through my 6 steps of transformation process, sharing with you all the concepts and tools which will empower you to create and live the life and career you want.
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📌 Have you ever felt that way that you could achieve more than what you currently have right now?
📌 Have you envisioned your goals and watched other people’s successes but feel stuck and wonder, “why not me?”
📌 You feel frustrated and you have been feeling uncertain about your life and career.
With my 6 weeks programme...
💥 you will be more confident and believe that you can continually move to the next level;
💥 you will have clear picture of what you want your life to look like;
💥 you will gain trust in yourself and the path you are on;
💥 you will learn habits and strategies for optimising all areas of your life and career;
💥 you will be learning to connect to your true self;
💥 you will increase your self-awareness and your self-love;
💥 you will become more productive;
💥 you will be healthier, physically and mentally;
💥 you will rewire your brain with a new positive mindset and feel free;
💥 you will break free from low moods and stagnant energy;
The 6 steps are:
1. Create your own reality;
2. Visualisation it;
3. Focus your attention;
4. Raise your awareness;
5. Adopt an agile brain;
6. Sharpening the sword;
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"Open Your Mind, Change Your Life" - The Programme is delivered on line.
Contact me to schedule a free call with me so that we can have a quick chat and make sure the programme is for you.
DM me and let's begin.
If not now, when?
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