05/06/2024
the symbol of the serpent is one of the most ancient mythological symbols of the feminine
like the serpent, a woman's body charms
like the serpent, a woman's s*x is feared
like the serpent, a woman transforms herself in cycles
like the serpent, a woman's nature became something of sin
like the serpent, a woman has bears her fangs to defend herself
like the serpent, a woman's myth can hold many meanings
like the serpent, a woman is sacred
there are many similarities between the serpent and the woman, you see
and the Sacred Serpent calls to the wild er*tic woman
she knows she is an untamed force of nature
she knows she has the potential to transform and turn on everything she desire
later this year, I'm going to Bali with She who knows the truth of the serpent
revisit, awaken, and explore sacred serpent mythology as the feminine, awakening s*xual energy (kundalini), meet your seductress, rebirth, navigate transition, honour Lilith and the Dark Goddess... and all of what is waiting for you
you are invited to descend
uncoil and rise up into the most authentic version of yourself
woman unleashed, untamed, and unapologetic
together we will spend a week in wild feminine practice, ta***ic ritual, sacred s*xual reclamation, primal embodiment, and deep sisterhood in a wild luxurious sanctuary in Ubud, Bali
1 - 7 October
Early Bird pricing until 1st July
https://fionamccoss.com/sacred-serpent-retreat
28/02/2024
I have a LOT to say on this - see my stories for what prompted it 😉
we are being sold a false “feminine” by our popular culture, by beauty brands, by media and marketing, by influencers, cosmetics, AI...
and we are losing the true essence of a radiant woman
we are Botoxing her aging skin
reversing our signs of wisdom
pedestalling the immature Maiden and sexual immaturity
preferring youthfulness as the “model” of feminine beauty
but feminine beauty is an energy
it’s radiant
it emanates from the body, not just from the face
its auric
and this seeking of perfection is keeping the Feminine in a perpetual state of disembodiment as she looks outside of herself for completion and validation
to feel full of herself, she inadvertently empties herself
for the perfect eyebrows, lips, b***s, or contour
so women are walking around in a Feminine mask — it’s not real, it’s an illusion of the Male Gaze — disembodied in her beauty as she wipes it off at the end of the day or books another appointment at the clinic to top it up
this is not true feminine beauty
this is not the natural radiance of a sens*al embodied vital woman
this is the opposite
loves, we must return to our bodies to discover the truth of our feminine power, radiance, magnetism, beauty, aliveness, eros, pleasure
we can’t buy it online or from a cosmetic surgeon
if you want to experience true embodied feminine power and confidence (beyond looks) you need to live it
and if you want to know how, my summer retreat WILD HONEY is medicine for this
cultivating a true embodied expression of sens*al aliveness, inner beauty, devotion, er*tic innocence, self love and self worship, among a sisterhood that is equally authentic and hungry to re-write the popular narrative and shrug off the programming that we have been poisoned with that keeps us from our true expression as the Feminine
come, She invites you to feel her in her truth
💸 Early Bird ends tomorrow (29th Feb) 💸
last chance to save £222 w/ multiple accommodation options to suit all budgets + payment plans
comment RETREAT and I’ll DM you the link 🌸
25/02/2024
summoning women to the Temple… are you coming?
temples are gateways, portals to embodiment, feeling, pleasure, and home-coming; sacred spaces that welcome eros, sens*ality, a stripping bare (of body and soul), and awaken the fullness of your expression; innocence, play, and pleasure
they are spaces for the feminine to gather and return to truth and ancient ways of millennia past, in service and devotion, to one another, the feminine, the earth, and to awaken eros through our body-prayers and rituals
these sacred spaces used to form an important part of the ways of our culture and community but were lost to the rise of Christianity and Patriarchy
I want every modern woman to have an experience of a “temple”, where intimacy and worship is explored, friendships blossom and deepen, where platonic love grows, and where new connections are made through the opening of vulnerable hearts and bodies
a remembering of these ancient-time Temple spaces, for the modern feminine, is one of my favourite things to do in my in person offerings
I adore creating spaces for women to come together, meet, connect and express in deep intimacy
there nothing is expected, nothing forced, only an invitation to return to the truth of who they are through practice, circle, ritual, and sens*al embodiment
join me for 𝑾𝑰𝑳𝑫 𝑯𝑶𝑵𝑬𝒀 𝑹𝒆𝒕𝒓𝒆𝒂𝒕 if you are craving Temple time and to find your soul sisters and explore this part of your true feminine nature…
when: 31st May - 3rd June in Kent, UK
PS: there is just one week left to save up to £222 with Early Bird pricing
prices are currently:
£777 for a shared luxe dorm
£999 for a twin shared sister room
and there’s now one new private room available for £1111
payment plans available up to five months
⌛️ prices rising 29th February ⌛️
21/02/2024
it takes more than one night of a rose petalled bath and a date with your new crystal wand to be a “pro” at “pleasure”
and here’s the thing: it’s actually more simple (and subtle) than that⠀
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it starts with expanding your sensitivity spectrum, awakening your sens*al expression, and exploring your pleasure potential
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and it’s a commitment (a long term commitment)
but when if you’re thinking long term, it’s the ultimate power move, and not something to be hurried for a quick fix
pleasure isn’t just about one moment in time, it’s a lifestyle, it‘s a state of being, a receptivity, a dance, a journey without an ending, flux, expansion...⠀
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and in this default-masculine world of hyper-convenience - right swipe and we can have anything we want - we are so used to expecting our bodies to do everything for us in an instant
but that’s not how it works with pleasure (or with the feminine) and we must remember to drop all expectation, pressure, and force at the door
you need your body, baby
the more curiosity you permit yourself, the more you will naturally reside in, and embody of, your authentic self
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and that’s your secret sauce
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so if you’re in the market for:
✔️trusting that you know what you want and how you want it
✔️ building on a deeper intimacy with self – without shame or guilt
✔️ feeling more body acceptance, love, and confidence
✔️ having deeper understanding of sens*al and sexual pleasure
✔️ tackling a deeper-rooted body image narrative
✔️ prioritising pleasure as a lifestyle
✔️ noticing where you aren’t living in pleasure and integrate any blocks
then I have two places you want to be:
💦 PLEASURE REBELLION: free online event happening on 22/2 (tomorrow)
🍯 WILD HONEY: summer UK retreat (31 May - 3 June) a 4 day/3 night playground of pleasure awakening, sens*al shinanigans, and IRL sisterhood 💸 early bird now on 💸
comment POWER MOVE and I’ll DM you the links 💗
PS: check out my new retreat page! it’s had a revamp and I’m in love 🌸
19/02/2024
IYKYK 🙄 (see my stories for more)
and this is why we need a Pleasure Rebellion
comment Pleasure for your free ticket to Thursdays online event (or catch the replay)
19/02/2024
who’s here for the paradigm shift? 🙋♀️
I thought so
did you know I have a FREE event happening this Thursday 22/2 for the woman interested in
✨slow living
✨big feeling
✨sens*al intimacy
✨er*tic awakening
✨slow s e x
✨doing things against the grain
✨and some more
𝑷𝑳𝑬𝑨𝑺𝑼𝑹𝑬 𝑹𝑬𝑩𝑬𝑳𝑳𝑰𝑶𝑵 is a gathering of sens*al rebels here to upset the status quo
as body-based, feminine leaders, creatrixes, movers, shakers, trailblazers... pleasure is our fuel, our nourishment, our raison d’etre
pleasure is medicine
pleasure is power
pleasure is productive
if you’re hearing it here first, it won’t be the last
in this free two-hour gathering you can expect
+ a workshop on pleasure activism
+ igniting the rebellion: why now
+ embodied pleasure practices
+ er*tic activations
+ sister gathering
+ a 2 hour hype gang + pleasure party
+ and more
it’s totes freebs babes
join me at 4pm UK online (replay available) this Thursday
it’s going to be epic
comment ‘PLEASURE’ and I’ll DM you the link to sign up if you’re not already in 😎
19/02/2024
who’s here for the paradigm shift? 🙋♀️
I thought so
did you know I have a FREE event happening this Thursday 22/2 for the woman interested in
✨slow living
✨big feeling
✨sens*al intimacy
✨er*tic awakening
✨slow s**x
✨doing things against the grain
✨and some more
𝑷𝑳𝑬𝑨𝑺𝑼𝑹𝑬 𝑹𝑬𝑩𝑬𝑳𝑳𝑰𝑶𝑵 is a gathering of sens*al rebels here to upset the status quo
as body-based, feminine leaders, creatrixes, movers, shakers, trailblazers... pleasure is our fuel, our nourishment, our raison d’etre
pleasure is medicine
pleasure is power
pleasure is productive
if you’re hearing it here first, it won’t be the last
in this free two-hour gathering you can expect
+ a workshop on pleasure activism
+ igniting the rebellion: why now
+ embodied pleasure practices
+ er*tic activations
+ sister gathering
+ a 2 hour hype gang + pleasure party
+ and more
it’s totes freebs babes
join me at 4pm UK online (replay available) this Thursday
it’s going to be epic
comment ‘PLEASURE’ and I’ll DM you the link to sign up if you’re not already in 😎
16/02/2024
tell me if you resonate with —
the fear of showing up
impostor syndrome
head-f**king yourself into paralysis
creating drama to avoid moving forward
overthinking everything (so you do nothing)
feeling like you need the website/copy/brand before you show up
this has come up all week in my 1:1s and in my Leadership & Facilitator Training, so I’m trusting it’s moving in the wider collective too so let’s talk about it
the world doesn’t give two flying f***s about brand colours, perfect spelling, having it all figured out from the get-go
the world just wants to feel YOU
the world (and your future clients) desperately wants to feel your messy, your real, your raw, your uniqueness
because it validates theirs, too
and that creates intimacy, trust, resonance
show the world your magick, please
it’s a service to society
don’t hide
what makes you you is the most magnetic piece
your authenticity is your magnetism 🧲
get out of your giddygodamn way
and GO
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(PS: I’m cheering you all the way)
13/02/2024
it’s not that hard… but what you most likely have to do is just go back to basics and relearn the foundations
if you want an org*smic life you have to slow the f**k down to realise you’re already in the dance of pleasure
the journey to org*smicity begins at er*tic innocence
at tenderness
at simplicity
at sensitivity
at wonder
at intimacy
but oftentimes we skip to the EXTREME
hard and fast
one and done
wham bam thank you ma’am
rather than exercising patience
rather than taking our sweet time
rather than enjoying the journey rather than focus on the destination
because in this rush for sensation, we bypass the subtle
and often, we can reactivate trauma and repeat experiences that are unstable and destructive for our system
so let’s remember,
simple can be sens*al
foundational can be juicy
presence can be org*smic
simple embodiment practices +
patience + devotion + self intimacy =>
more access to those states you crave like
pleasure
org*sm
connection
magnetism
so you have to take time to allow your body to come online, to remember to slow down to FEEL, and let your senses pave the way into an org*smic life
if you like the sound of this come play with me:
💦 PLEASURE REBELLION: free online event happening on 22/2*
🍯 WILD HONEY: summer UK retreat (31 May - 3 June) and long weekend of sens*al shinanigans and sisterhood 💸 early bird now on 💸
DM me for the links to save your space
or head to my you-know-where and say YESSS to an org*smic life
easy peasy lemon squeezy 💦
*recording available if you can’t make it live
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