Welcome to PHNX EQ — a space for coaches and leaders to build emotional mastery, confidence, and ethical impact. You could be new to exercise or a veteran.
Tools, insights, and frameworks to help you support clients with clarity, empathy, and grounded skill. This is all about Personal Training to you as an individual. Your goal could be health, fitness or performance related. You may want to achieve one goal or many goals , whichever way you approach exercise personal training can play a part in your success.
03/09/2026
Burnout rarely announces itself.
It often begins quietly.
On 15 September at 18:30, I’m delivering The Burnout Badge—a practical 90-minute workshop supported by an extensive workbook.
We’ll explore how to recognise burnout, recover from it and build practical systems that reduce the likelihood of returning there.
Use the link in my bio to register.
This is a preview of the amazeballs structured evidence based protocol to walk away with from the workshop on Burnout on the 15th of sept 1830
Link to secure your place in bio —— keep reading
What’s great about this is I’ve used this in part or in its entirety with many many clients over my 20 years rolling through the coaching industry
I want you to take it all.
Applying the protocol isn’t fixed and doesn’t have to be delivered like you’re at school - but it’s set up in such a way you can use the bits you need in the way you need depending on the client and your style of coaching
There are essential sections in here that will enhance your sessions and client check-ins
If your a non-coach or in the leadership space this is also gold value in here for you and totally applicable
See you there
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There’s a lot of confusion around burnout
Which of these myths have you heard?
Join the Burnout badge workshop
15/09/26
1830
90mins
A written protocol for you to follow and use with yourself or clients
Lifetime recording
£27
Link in bio
I have a problem with people that say that burnout doesn’t exist
So would a selection of well acclaimed researchers
Practitioners and individuals that have and maybe are currently in a period of being burnt out
Check my first link in my bio - if you’ve got an interest in the topic, how to see it, rectify it and put something in place for you or your clients to avoid it creeping up again - what you’ll find there is for you
Burnout doesn’t exist
Please
Do you worry about where the line is when it comes to deeper conversations and client emotions?
Do you avoid conversations because you’re unsure about where your scope of practice is?
Back when I was a younger coach this was definitely a problem I had.
So I avoided certain conversations, but the had a detrimental impact of client results and my retention
The more challenging conversations about the emotions are where the coaching work is.
What do you think?
23/08/2026
Burnout doesn’t always look like someone falling apart.
Sometimes it looks like:
Still showing up.
Still delivering.
Still answering clients.
Still training.
Still telling yourself, “I just need to get through this month.”
That’s partly why it can be so difficult to recognise.
And thats why I’m doing a workshop DM me “BURNOUT” and I’ll send you the details.
It’s worth always having a checking system in place throughout coaching clients to keep a sense on whether its already there or potentially creeping up out of the shadows
You see Burnout can develop gradually through overextension, emotional distancing and an erosion of efficacy, while, from the outside, you still appear to be functioning.
And for coaches, that matters double bubble
Because your own capacity isn’t separate from your coaching.
You are part of the environment your client is trying to change within. So how you turn up to that space as a coach is critical
When your resources are depleted, your patience changes.
Your curiosity changes.
Your decision-making changes.
Your ability to stay present changes.
That isn’t me taking a dig at you, coaching is hard and to keep on top of all these aspects is demanding,
Rest can be part of the answer and should be on the list of course
But if you return to exactly the same demands, boundaries, expectations and ways of working that created the problem, you haven’t necessarily changed the system.
You’ve just temporarily stepped out of it.
On 15th September at 18:30 UK time, I’m delivering a live PHNX workshop focused on burnout — what actually drives it, how it develops, and how coaches can recognise and work with the mechanisms underneath it rather than waiting for the wheels to fall off.
We’ll look beyond “take some time off” and into the psychological and behavioural patterns that keep burnout cycles running.
For your clients.
And for you.
If this carousel felt a little too familiar, this workshop is probably worth being in.
DM me “BURNOUT” and I’ll send you the details.
21/08/2026
Most coaches are trained to help people do something differently.
Change the programme ……standard
Improve adherence….. required
Build a better routine……. preferable
Create more accountability…….supports the journey
All this is important in coaching
But sometimes the behaviour isn’t the thing that needs exploring.
Sometimes the more useful coaching conversation is about how the client understands themselves, the assumptions they’re carrying, the values underneath the goal, or the identity they’re trying to grow into.
It’s the deeper stuff, more challenging to have conversations about and hold the space
But
That’s where coaching can become more transformative.
And I don’t think the answer is choosing one camp, it rarely is in any case
Transactional coaching isn’t “lesser” coaching either, it shouldn’t be looked at like that
Transformative coaching isn’t automatically “better” coaching, its shouldn’t be positioned superior
The skill is recognising what this client needs, in this moment and having enough range as a coach to move between the two.
Sometimes they need a practical next step.
Sometimes they need a conversation that changes the way they see themselves.
Sometimes they need both.
That ability to recognise the difference is a big part of what I mean when I talk about developing greater emotional mastery as a coach.
If you want to go deeper into conversations like this, I’m sharing longer-form breakdowns, PHNX Community Call discussions and practical coaching ideas over on my YouTube channel. (link in bio)|
Head over to YouTube, subscribe, and have a look through the latest videos.
If you’re serious about moving beyond programmes and accountability into deeper, more skilful coaching, there’s plenty there for you.
You can write the perfect training programme and still fail to help the person in front of you.
When I started working with Julie 10 years ago (still a client) I reinforced something that has shaped the way I coach ever since:
The physical problem isn’t always solved physically.
You can adjust the reps.
Change the sets.
Work on mobility.
Improve the programme.
But what if the thing stopping your client progressing has very little to do with the gym?
What if they’re overwhelmed?
What if they can’t protect their time?
What if they struggle to say no?
What if poor boundaries mean everyone else’s needs consistently come before their own?
What if stress, decision fatigue and the demands of the rest of their life leave almost nothing available for their health?
You cannot coach someone effectively while pretending the rest of their life stops at the gym door.
Sometimes sustainable progress means helping a client develop:
→ Better boundaries
→ A more assertive voice
→ Greater emotional regulation
→ Better decision-making
→ More ownership over their time
→ A stronger sense of who they are becoming
Because eventually, this becomes bigger than adherence to a programme.
You’re helping someone become the person capable of sustaining the behaviours they originally came to you for.
That’s where identity starts to shift.
And that’s why the future of health and fitness coaching requires us to understand more than training and nutrition.
We need to understand the person trying to implement them.
If you’re a coach who wants to develop the skills to work at this deeper level without pretending to be a therapist - stick around
When your client starts crying, your job isn’t to fix it.
And it isn’t to reach for the tissue and quickly redirect back to the plan.
I’ve seen this repeatedly working with coaches and in supervision, and I’ve experienced the freeze myself.
A technically excellent coach suddenly doesn’t know what to do when the session becomes emotional.
That isn’t a personality flaw.
It’s a skills gap.
Most coaches were taught how to build programmes, set goals and create accountability.
Very few were taught what to do in the 90 seconds after a client says something real.
So we reach for safety.
The tissue.
The reassurance.
The solution.
The subject change.
It can look like professionalism.
But sometimes it’s avoidance wearing a boundary’s clothes.
Because professional boundaries don’t mean removing emotion from coaching.
They mean knowing how to respond to emotion without stepping outside your scope.
You don’t need to become a therapist to hold a moment.
Sometimes you simply need to acknowledge what’s happening:
“That sounds really hard. I’m glad you told me.”
Then pause.
Let it land.
And ask:
“Would you like to stay with this for a moment, or would you prefer to move forward?”
That small shift gives the client something incredibly important:
The experience of being seen rather than managed.
So ask yourself:
When emotion entered your last coaching session, did you sit with it…
or did you redirect because you were uncomfortable?
If you’re a coach who wants to become more confident working with the emotional layer of coaching — without trying to become a therapist — follow PHNX and save this for your next session.
13/08/2026
Being a regulated coach doesn’t mean being a coach who never gets stressed, uncertain, triggered or caught off guard.
It means knowing what to do with it when you are.
Because the urge to fix, rescue, over-prepare or take responsibility for a client’s outcome can look like commitment from the outside.
But underneath it can also be anxiety.
And if we don’t recognise that, our own emotional response can quietly start shaping the coaching.
We fill the silence.
We give the answer.
We push when the client needs space.
We take ownership of something the client needs to learn to hold themselves.
That’s why self-regulation is such an important coaching skill.
Not because great coaches are emotionally unaffected.
But because they can notice what is happening internally, regulate it, and make a more intentional decision about what the client actually needs.
Sometimes that means helping.
Sometimes it means challenging.
Sometimes it means slowing down.
And sometimes it means resisting the urge to do anything at all.
The aim isn’t to remove emotion from coaching. It’s to stop our emotions unconsciously running the coaching.
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