07/03/2026
๐๐๐ง๐จ๐ฉ ๐ฟ๐๐ฃ๐๐ ๐๐๐จ๐จ๐ค๐ฃ ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฃ๐๐ข๐๐๐จ...๐๐ซ๐๐ง ๐ฌ๐ค๐ฃ๐๐๐ง๐๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐พ๐ ๐ค๐ ๐๐๐ง๐จ๐ฉ ๐ฟ๐๐ฃ๐๐ ๐ก๐๐จ๐จ๐ค๐ฃ๐จ ๐๐จโ
Over the years of taking wedding couples through their First Dance lessons, I have seen a fairly standard dynamic prevailingโฆand you might be surprised to hear that it has almost nothing to do with learning choreography and almost everything to do with TRUST in each other. Just like the forthcoming marriage! ๐ค Have a read below; (and maybe a little giggle).
Lesson 1๏ธโฃ
๐บ The Groom doesnt feel comfortable learning to dance
๐ The Bride wants to lead
Lesson 2๏ธโฃ
๐บ The Groom has found a little confidence; and now believes he can do this
๐ The Bride still wants to lead
Lesson 3๏ธโฃ
There is a softening!
๐บ The Groom is executing moves more smoothly
๐ The Bride is learning to wait and trust that she will be lead
Lesson 4๏ธโฃ
๐บ The Groom has all the pieces of the choreo puzzle. Now it all makes sense to him. Heโs got this.
๐ The Bride is now on catch upโฆsheโs spent the whole time so far being concerned about what he needs to do. Now she can trust him to lead the dance and concentrate on what she needs to do to look confidently amazing for her First Dance
Improver Lesson
Now we see start to see the magic! ๐ซ
A couple who are about to join their lives togetherโฆare joined together in their First Dance ๐
Rehearsal Lesson
My couple are shining! ๐คฉ
And smiling from ear to ear. ๐They cannot wait to do their First Dance and surprise their guests! ๐ฅณ
14/02/2026
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๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐๐ง๐๐ ๐&๐
๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฎโ
๐๐บ Lessons are in your own home or studio based (RM14)
๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ทโ
๐๐ Evenings, daytime or weekends; to suit you
๐๐ธ๐ ๐ถ๐พ๐ฌ๐ฑโ
๐บ๐บ Range of package options to accommodate all budgets & wishes
๐๐ธ๐ ๐ต๐ธ๐ท๐ฐโ
๐๐บ 7-8 hours total tuition generally gets the job done
๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ช๐ฝ ๐ญ๐ธ ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฝโ
๐๐ Bespoke coaching & support throughout
๐ฆ๐ฑ๐ช๐ฝ ๐ญ๐ช๐ท๐ฌ๐ฎ ๐ฎ๐๐น๐ฎ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ท๐ฌ๐ฎ ๐ญ๐ธ ๐ ๐ท๐ฎ๐ฎ๐ญโ
๐บ๐บ None
๐๐ธ ๐๐ธ๐พ ๐ฐ๐พ๐ช๐ป๐ช๐ท๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ฎ ๐ผ๐พ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ผ๐ผโ
๐คฉ๐คฉ Absolutely! Itโs all about teamwork
๐๐จ๐ ๐๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐๐ง ๐ฆ๐๐ค๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ โจ๐
๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐๐ง๐๐โจ ๐๐ฆ๐๐ณ๐ข๐ง๐ & ๐ฆ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ๐! ๐คฉ
07/02/2026
Face Your First Dance Fears! ๐๐บ
๐๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ?
โ I canโt dance
โ I canโt learn moves
โ I donโt want everyone watching me
Taking lessons for your First Dance is NOT simply about getting some MOVES to do to your chosen track.
Itโs about
๐ซ Connecting with each other
๐ซ Syncing with the music
๐ซ Understanding your roles in the dance
And THEN you have done the right prep that makes mastering some moves a breeze.
AND it gives you skills for life; not just your wedding day.
Any other approach is setting yourself up for some level of failure.
Oh, and the โeveryoneโs watchingโ partโฆthat happens for the entire day. Thatโs the whole point of a weddingโฆitโs about you!
And First Dance lessons will prepare you so that you look forward to it; instead of dreading it.
So do it the right way; for great future memories! ๐ซ
24/01/2026
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๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐๐ง๐๐ ๐๐จ๐๐๐ก๐ข๐ง๐
๐๐จ๐ ๐๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐๐ง ๐ฆ๐๐ค๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ โจ๐
๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐๐ง๐๐โจ ๐๐ฆ๐๐ณ๐ข๐ง๐ & ๐ฆ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ๐! ๐คฉ
๐ซ ๐๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐๐ฏ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐๐๐ง๐๐ ๐๐ฑ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ข๐๐ง๐๐ ๐ง๐๐๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐๐ซ๐ฒ
Lessons in your own home
Covering Havering & Essex
https://www.facebook.com/sue.danceawayweddingdancelessons
04/10/2025
๐๐ก๐ ๐
๐๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐๐๐ง๐๐ ๐๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ฒโฆHow it started
๐๐๐ซ๐ฒ (dad): โLetโs surprise everyone with a dance at the reception of your weddingโ
๐๐๐ฒ๐ฅ๐จ๐ซ (daughter): โBut neither of us can dance; or like being the centre of attentionโ
๐๐๐ซ๐ฒ: โBut it would be such a great surprise for your Mum. And fun!โ
So. I got a message asking for lessons. ๐๐บ
But there are few issuesโฆ
- We donโt live near each other so we will have almost no time to practise
- Plus we both have ridiculously busy days
- Keeping it a secret from our other halves will be near enough impossible
- Neither of us can dance
- ๐๐ง๐, ๐๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฒ, ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฐ๐๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐ ๐ฐ๐๐๐ค๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐โฆ๐๐๐ซ๐จ๐๐
Result:
โจ Their whole Father & Daughter dance journey was such good fun - for all of us!
โจ Their โcan doโ attitude and determination = success!
I am immensely proud of them!
(And they both CAN dance, they just didnโt know it to begin with.)
๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ ๐๐ญ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐
๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐๐ง๐๐ ๐ง๐๐ข๐ฅ๐๐?
Contact me here: to book your FREE 30 minute video call ๐ฅ๏ธ with me to make your First Dance plan!
๐๐๐
๐ง [email protected]
โ๏ธ 07940 781881
Lessons in your own home
Covering Havering & Essex
12/09/2025
๐ถ Blame It On The Boogie ๐ถ
Disco & Cha Cha Mash Up ๐๐บ
Jess & Alexโs brief for their dance was all about sharing the happiest vibe possible and encouraging everyone to join in; and they absolutely nailed it! ๐คฉ I had such a great time working with these two!
05/09/2025
I was super proud of these two! ๐คฉ
I loved getting to know them both; and they were such fun to work with...the energy they have for each other and life is amazing. โจ
They worked hard in their lessons, but made it play also - which is absolutely the right way to succeed at anything in life! I will say it again, I was super proud of them both! ๐โฅ๏ธ
23/08/2025
Newcomers to dance always think dance lessons are about โgetting some movesโ; when in fact, thatโs only about 20% of the reward that awaits!
5๏ธโฃ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ why ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐ฐ๐๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ง๐๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐ NOT ๐๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฅ๐๐๐ซ๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ง๐๐ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ฉ๐ฌ!
1๏ธโฃ. Spending quality time together during a busy wedding planning time
(๐๐ฉโ๐จ ๐ก๐๐ ๐ ๐ ๐๐๐ฉ๐ ๐ฃ๐๐๐๐ฉ!)
2๏ธโฃ. Working together on a task for the wedding
(๐๐ฉ ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ข๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฃ ๐ช๐จ๐ช๐๐ก๐ก๐ฎ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐ง๐๐๐-๐ฉ๐ค-๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ก๐จ ๐ก๐๐ ๐ ๐จ๐๐โ๐จ โ๐๐ค๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ฉ ๐๐ก๐กโ)
3๏ธโฃ. Increasing your connection, trust, confidence & respect in each other
(๐๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐ค๐๐๐ฉ๐๐๐ง ๐๐จ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐ง๐๐ก๐๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐จ๐๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฎ๐ฃ๐๐ข๐๐ ๐จ๐๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ข๐ช๐จ๐๐!)
4๏ธโฃ. Relieving the stress of your First Dance
(๐๐ฃ๐ ๐จ๐ฉ๐ง๐๐จ๐จ ๐ง๐๐ก๐๐๐ ๐๐ก๐ค๐ฃ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐๐ฃ๐๐ ๐ก๐๐๐ง๐ฃ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ค๐ช๐ง๐ฃ๐๐ฎ ๐๐๐๐๐ช๐จ๐ ๐ข๐ค๐ซ๐๐ข๐๐ฃ๐ฉ & ๐ข๐ช๐จ๐๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ง๐๐๐ฉ ๐จ๐ฉ๐ง๐๐จ๐จ ๐ง๐๐ก๐๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐จ!)
5๏ธโฃ. Becoming dance confident
(๐๐๐๐จ ๐๐จ ๐ข๐ฎ ๐๐ค.1 ๐๐ค๐๐ก ๐๐ค๐ง ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช)
27/07/2025
5 Steps to your First Dance
๐๐ญ๐๐ฉ ๐
A mindset shift from โI canโtโ to โmaybe Iโll give myself the chance to see if I canโโฆthatโs when you book your wedding dance lessons
๐๐ญ๐๐ฉ ๐
You are fearful AND excited at the start of your lessons. โOof, this might need some effortโฆI might need to practise this stuff!โ
๐๐ญ๐๐ฉ ๐
You realise dancing together has the same dynamic as your relationship togetherโฆand you are learning more about each other as well as the dance moves. Itโs bringing you closer together on a joint task at a really busy and otherwise stressful time that is mostly keeping you apart
๐๐ญ๐๐ฉ ๐
Now you are working together to make this wedding dance thing happen - youโve caught the bug, you want this to happen! - and you are spending precious, connecting time together in the process
๐๐ญ๐๐ฉ ๐
Confidence, connection, trust in each other for the dance has arrived - you are ready! โจ
Did you think Wedding Dance Coaching was just about being shown some dance moves?!
Are you ready for Step 1?
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29/06/2025
Thatโs exactly what Amy & Chris did! ๐ค
Make your First Dance a ๐๐๐๐ฆ๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ค ๐๐๐๐ ๐ฃ๐ช ๐๐บโจ instead of a fear.
If your First Dance is important to youโฆ
Iโm here to make it happen! ๐๐บ๐ค