Melani Koch - Reiki Healing

Last few days have been very gentle, very tender, very emotional. 

I feel grateful to recognize that I’m at a place now where I can simply allow all of me to be seen, to be felt, to be expressed. No matter how messy, how ugly, how emotional.

I know this is a part of my cleansing, my evolution, my teachings. I’m grateful for the depths in which I feel. 

Working and living in your truth will bring out whatever is NOT in your truth. It will show you ALL the places you are out of alignment & integrity⁣.

And when things get messy it is a deep invitation to reflect, to come back to your truth of who you really are & what you really want. 

A deep invitation to recalibrate to source, truth and love. 

We have the chance to turn every heavy and dark experience into pure magic and drink up the wisdom from it, to integrate it in the depth of our being..

I’ve done it a thousand times and I’ll do it a thousand times more⁣. 

All of the teachings & practices I am using for myself and my clients I am currently merging into something 🌹 special for you. 

As I am fully booked until July for my 3month 1:1 Coaching & Healing Journey's (for European Timezones). I am in creation of something magical & juicy with a lot of depth and sprinkles of all the wild flavours of life for you. 

If you want to expand the magic + mystery of spirit working with you...
I promise you it will be a lot of fun.

I am not going to let you play small 🔥



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I express for the women that couldn't express.

I take a stand for the women that always had to bow.

I grew up in a household where the man ruled the conversations and told whom to speak and whom to be quiet 🤐...

It took (and takes) me a lot of work around my own expression.

The expression of who I am & of my gifts.
The expression of all the wisdom that comes through me by being a receptive woman.
The expression of Yes, This is what I want. And No, this is not what I want.

A huge part of the work I am doing with my clients is around showing up in THEIR fullest expression.
(in a integrated, empowering and fun way)

We do this by addressing your needs, by standing behind your boundaries, by speaking your truth freely, allowing yourself to take up space. (SOOO Important work)

Every time you keep your mouth shut, hide your gifts and keep playing small we allow this patterns to stay alive.

Break the patterns and heal for all the women that came before you. And lay a new ground for the daughters & sisters to come.

You will feel me when I walk into the room.

Owning who you are sometimes needs a different kind of confidence.

My confidence lies in owning that I am a woman with a big heart.

That I love to tap into magic & being present. That I am a channel to spirit. That I am an empath and sensitive...

That I feel your emotions through an emoji from the other side of the world.

It was easier to cover these parts of self to show my confidence by being the exact opposite. Not listening to my guidance, to follow through just because that's the way. Being a hard worker, being structured, independent and a badass
(I still take that one).

I discovered the difference between aloneness and loneliness. I lost my mother to cancer - which is a lesson none of us ever want to sign up for in this life.

I struggled through understanding my worth as a woman and becoming and embracing who I am.

I had to experience the full spectrum of Rebellion & Rage through many hard lessons. Before I could start to dance the dance.

Before I recognized my Soul is here to express in her very own way. Every Soul is.

It's such a beautiful dance.

Sometimes it can be messy, but it can also be so damn sexy. You get to seduce your shadow and dance with your darkness.

& sometimes your Soul just knows the direction of the dance of your journey into alignment, pleasure and love if you let her lead.

I am creating something special, for the most magical women on this planet. And I can't wait to share it with you soon. ✨✨

"People will realize that I don't know as much as they think." ⛔ Have you ever heard of Imposter Syndrom? It comes up so often in my 1:1 Healings that I did some research on it. Even Maya Angelou, the icon & writer sais, with every book-release she was afraid of being a fraud: I have written 11 books, but each time I think: "oh-oh, they're going to find out now. I've run a game on everybody & they're going to find me out." ➡️ I am going to share what you can do if you experience Imposter Syndrom in my next post. Who wants to learn more drop me an 🤓 & Let me know in a comment how you experience it.

Even if you have done a YTT, a Vipassana, sat in ceremony, practice meditation, write gratitude journals and feel like a sane person.  🔥There are days where you feel all over the shop, feel intensely & are desperate for direction.  And that's ok. When you feel overwhelmed and confused what really is needed is to take time to come back to your heart. Super simple. Listen. Running away from your magnificence by procrastinating, distracting, consuming, fighting, creating drama, numbing yourself. 🌺 Because you don't believe you have the ability within yourself to give yourself all that you need.  Finding your way to yourself will bring you gold & treasures that no worldly things could buy. To take time to feel your stuck emotions that have been sitting there is an 💌 act of self love. To touch your most inner being, where all your wisdom lies, where all your wealth and gold lies. And all you need to do is take time and feel.  Going within is the truest way to shine your light to the outside. By committing to go inward you will be guided to the most beautiful treasures life has awaiting for you, the biggest love you can imagine, to the healing that you are longing for.  I truly believe AND I KNOW IT FOR SURE THAT: You are an incredible special, magical being, know deep inside yourself lives your mirror, your home. it will never leave you, no matter what rabbit hole you may fall down, it will always be there for you to discover again and again. Your true self worth doesn't come from achievements but from radically accepting who you truly are. Let me know in the comments if it resonates. Send me a little ❤️ to share the love. . . . Sending you all my love, Melani

If you live in this reality that you are not good enough. If you are trying to make yourself wrong for the way you are. It creates a separation between you and your own heart. Between where you are now and what you want to invite into your life. Once you find your way back to your heart you will realise that there is nothing else & nobody else you need to be.  You look for love & validation in all the places to give yourself what we so desperately are looking for. And what you actually need to do, is turn to yourself. Give care to the parts of yourself that have been ignored or neglected.  I know how it feels to have self-doubt and self-sabotage holding you back. I truly believe that you are holding everything within you, that we “just” need to remove the layers of protection that you have built around you. Underneath the protective masks, the fears, and the worries lies hidden so many treasures that want to come forth.  IT IS NOT ABOUT CHANGING WHO YOU ARE BUT BRINGING OUT YOUR UNIQUENESS.   Does this speak to you?  I work with my clients on empowering who they truly are. If you have tried so many things but it hasn’t worked, it might be because you have tried to change yourself instead of working with yourself. DM me if you’re curious to work together towards rising into your most authentic and radiant self. We’ll set up a time to chat and check in about how I can support you and if we are a good fit. So much love Melani

I completely let go of "the right way" of doing things. After quitting my stable and somewhat successful marketing career, I promised myself to follow my deeper guidance and to be in alignment with my truth in all areas of life.