16/09/2026
"I need a meal plan"
No you absolutely fu**ing don't!!
What you need to do is have an honest look at where you are and what you need to change. If you're reading this, I'm quite convinced that you're stuck in some sort of loop that's keeping you stuck! You keep making bad choices when it really matters.
And a meal plan certainly won't change that.
But here's what will.. another person's perspective. I don't scream down the phone at clients when they make a mistake, that's just not how I roll. However, I will always retrace steps with the client to see how we can learn from those experiences. Why they made certain choices? Reflecting on what they might do differently when they confront similar environments or scenarios in the future.
A check in important but that only opens the door to the bigger questions that we need to ask.
And I will ask them.
A few weeks ago, a client of mine who trains a lot got injured. He went from very active to being on the couch all day. I reduced his calories accordingly to account for the the reduced activity but he gained 3kg in 2 weeks. This was an important part of his journey.
I noticed it and said it to him. At first he tried to brush it under the rug. So I dug deeper as I had a fair idea what was happening. He was boredom eating. Sitting at home all day, feeling sorry for himself after getting injured and nothing to keep him occupied. He was consuming a full packet of donuts a day.
When I asked him why he didn't tell until I flagged it with him, he said he was ashamed. I didn't give out to him. I thanked him for his honesty and this opened the door for a deeper conversation.
We them practiced more mindful eating while injured. He was still allowed to eat what he wanted and that included donuts but he wasn't eating a packet a day. And he wasn't mindlessly binging out of pure boredom.
This was a huge step for him and he's back on track again now with fat loss.
There were 2 key moments in all of this.
1. I wouldn't let him brush the obvious under the rug and pretend it was fine.
2. He opened up despite feeling
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