Ektathecoach Relationship Coach

"An affair simply alerts us to a pre-existing condition, either a troubled relationship or a troubled person"

An affair is not an overnight event that has suddenly rocked your world. It was brewing under your watch for a long time. Now that it's aroma has caught your attention, you can finally do something about it. Blaming your partner and holding them fully responsible for an affair may seem the right way, but it's only half the truth.

It could be your troubled relationship, that you did not put much effort to remedy, maybe you were too busy to even notice the wounds of your relationship and someone else filled in the gap that was created because of your physical or psychological absence!

It could also be that you or your partner were going through something in your life and need some extra care or attention or acceptance or compassion that did not come from the other partner and that led to the entry of someone else in your life.

Talk to an expert to get your answers and the relationship back on track. Talking to your friends will only help you vent it out but not help you look at things objectively.

DM me for a 1 on 1 coaching if you are in a relationship that has a third person or if you are the other person. We all need help at some point in our life and there is no shame in accepting your problems and seeking help.

Don't let go too soon, relationships need to be nurtured. But it's important to know when it's time to let go..holding on for too long serves no purpose and only gives pain and an emptiness.

If you are feeling stuck in a loveless relationship or for any other relationship issues, please DM me for a free 30mins clarity call.

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If you are stuck in an unhealthy relationship, or your relationship is not fulfilling, it's not your destiny! It's time to make a choice!

You always have the power to choose your responses and your actions. Most often we just start taking pleasure in sulking about our relationship and don't try to make any amends.

It's easy to just slip into your comfort zone and resign to destiny. While people who do so may not even realize that they have started enjoying the misery. They are too scared to do anything, even talk about it to someone who can help - their partner or a professional!

Life is too short to just let it slip away, take charge of your life. You take one small step with courage and see how things will start to change for you. You are no less than anyone else around you, your limitations are only in your mind. Be bold, decide to live a fun and fulfilling life - it's a gift after all!

DM me if you are going through problems in your relationship. I offer a free 30mins clarity call to people who want to take charge of their life

Visit: www.ektathecoach.com to read my blogs.

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Even at your absolute best, you will not be good enough for the wrong person & even at your worst, you will be worth it for the right person.

So have faith and do not settle for anything less. When you are dating or in a relationship, keep your eyes and ears open. Do not overlook the red flags, do not cover up things and don't shy from verbalising things you expect or things you don't like.

When we are in love, we get blindsided to the obvious. We notice something not right and we ourselves justify it in our head, because we are scared to bring it up with our partner since we fear we may loose them. But it's important to know that if your partner truly values you and wants you in their life, they will appreciate your openness. This is will only help the two of you to understand each other and thrive in your relationship.

It's ok to put your relationship through such tests so you have clarity of where do you each stand. If you are too scared to ask for an explanation for something that was not done right, or for an acceptable behaviour, you need to really rethink about the relationship. It could be that you are not ready for it, or that you are not a match for each other. But time and again have open discussions and express things that bother you about your partner.
DM me here for if you are going through something similar, let's try to bring you some clarity. I offer a 30mins free clarity call.

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When you operate from a place of fear, you actually manifest your fear.
It's better to operate from a place of love when it comes to relationships.

If your choices and actions are arising out of any kind of fear, you have to take a pause and think about the relationship. The foundation of your relationship should be love and where there is true love there is no fear of abandonment or hurt or conflict.

If this resonates with you, let me tell you that you can work out your relationship problems by having open and honest conversations.

DM me for a 1 on 1 coaching for your relationship problems. You can also visit my website www.ektathecoach.com to read my relationship blogs.

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If you want your partner to change, change yourself first.

Your relationship is like a mirror, you reflect what you are. So when you start to change things about yourself, you will see the effect in your partner too.

We learn to give and take love from our parents and our surroundings as kids and that's the only way we know, so if you expect to be loved or cared for in a certain way, you have to love and care that way for your partner to understand your love language.

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One more goal achieved! I am now a Certified Train The Trainer (TTT) Coach!
Super happy! 😊🙏

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You dont find a Partner, you choose one!
There is no end to this quest. You have to choose a partner and do your best to share a life together.

A shared vision, shared mission and shared values are the ingredients for a healthy and lasting relationship. There is no perfect partner, because you are not perfect!

While you look for what the person has to offer and how they will sweep you off the floor, it is also important to look within to see what it is that you are willing to give to this person, how will you be in the relationship?!

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Recalibrate your expectations from your partner to enjoy a healthy relationship.

People either expect too much or too little and this creates a disbalance in the relationship, so the better thing to do is to recalibrate your expectations.

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Happy Holi to all of you!
May the colours of Holi brighten up your life and bring joy and happiness in all your relationships!

Make friends wherever you are because life is always better when you have friends around.

Friends are your chosen family, they lift you up and keep you grounded. They are your confidante, your partner in crime, your avenue to open up and relase your pent up emotions and feel free, feel alive!

Take some pressure off your partner to be your everything. Keep in touch with friends, make a couple of best friends, coffee friends, movie friends, shopping friends. Bring variety in your life, get new perspectives, new experiences!

DM me for a 1 on 1 coaching if you want to live a full life and have healthy relationships.

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