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The number of unmarried beautiful women around the globe is enough to tell you that beauty is no longer count’s as criteria for marriage.

So stop bleaching yourselves to look like traffic light. Men are now looking for common sense, morals, and good character.

“A Lot Of Wealthy Women Are Single & Lonely Because They're Waiting For A Man To Approach Them. Approach A Man u Like, Show Him Love And Kindness, Submit To Him Even If u're Richer & u'll Have A Beautiful And Happy Family”

A life of godliness is characterized by a heart and mind bent toward the things of God. Although we will live imperfectly, our aim should be to obey His will and please Him. Let´s commit to becoming more like Jesus, the one who willingly gave Himself as a sacrifice for us.Romans 12:2 📖 Today´s verse outlines the commitment and steps necessary in developing a godly lifestyle. Paul was urgently warning believers not to be conformed to the patterns of the world. Our susceptibility to compromise is one of the greatest dangers in the church today.Through ungodly relationships and the impact of media, we´re being influenced by people who are not following God´s ways. Our society tells us to put self first, take what we want, protect our rights, and promote our own interests above others´. In contrast, Jesus said that our heavenly Father will provide what we truly need (Phil. 4:19), we are to deny ourselves and follow Him (Luke 9:23), and the humble—not the proud—shall receive honor (James 4:10). Conformity to the world´s ideals will lead us away from God. At the same time, Paul urged us to pursue godly transformation of our mind, to set our thoughts on things above (Col. 3:2) and to focus on what is true, right, pure, and lovely (Phil. 4:8). Adopting a Christian worldview will lead to Christlike actions. It requires making adjustments in how we look at life, until our thoughts line up with Scripture. We must also protect our mind with biblical truth and surround ourselves with mature believers who can warn us when we start to stray.

Who bathes his hands in blood will have to wash them with tears.

African Proverb

𝐃𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟.
𝐍𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐲. 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞.

Every time you see me I’ll be doing better than the last time you saw me. I'm always elevating. My Trust is on God! 🙌🏾🙏🏾🦋🤎💅🏽✨

In your darkest moments, let God be your light.

HOW TO AVOID EMOTIONAL AFFAIR
Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world, if you do not guard your heart, you may end up "falling in love"with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your marriage.

No one gets married and plans to have an affair but lots of married men and women are into affairs today because they slept when they should have been wide awake with their five
senses alert.

1. Don't be too friendly with the opposite s*x.
This is where lots of married people land in trouble. Over-spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage!

You can't handle close friendship with the opposite s*x as a married person. Your heart is involved.
√ Set boundaries.
√ Be disciplined.
√ Be cordial.
√ Be respectful.
√ Be godly.
√ Be holy.

2. Don't share your personal problems with an opposite s*x friend. It will bond you together. Problems bond people.

3. Don't contact any opposite s*x you are fond of. If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and there is a tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don't contact them.

4. Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the opposite s*x.

5. Don't tell an opposite s*x "you are romantic" or "s*xy" That private information is for your spouse only.

6. Avoid discussions with the opposite s*x when you are tired, very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy or very sick. This can becloud your judgment and make you say silly things. Talk to your husband/wife instead.

7. Avoid unnecessary compliment of the opposite s*x.

8. Stop saying, "I love you" to a member of the opposite s*x, for what?

9. Work on your marriage.
Keep the fire of love and romance alive in your marriage.

10. Protect your family.
Don't share your marital problems with your opposite s*x friend, it will bond you.

11. Never flirt with the opposite s*x.

12. Mind the pictures you post on the social media. Limit pictures that show your curves or portray you as s*xy.

13. Do not contact any of your EXs after marriage.

14. Don't chat with the opposite s*x on the days you are h***y.

15. Stop focusing on your spouse's weaknesses and appreciate their strengths.
If you always see the bad side of your spouse, you will be angry, bitter, critical

And look for someone who can understand" you and make you happy aside your spouse. That is the beginning of an emotional affair and eventual s*xual affair.

It is the beginning of the end of a once glorious
marriage! FLEE from all appearance of evil, is what the Bible says. What you will not eat, don't bring it to your nose.
√ Don't smell it!
√ Don't start what you cannot finish!

Avoid all emotional and s*xual affairs, they will destroy your marriage! May you not take a step that will lead to eternal regret in Jesus' name.
PLEASE, SEEK FOR THE FRUIT OF THE HOLY SPIRIT CALLED SELF CONTROL AND ALWAYS ANCHOR YOUR THOUGHTS ON Phil. 4:8.

GOD BLESS YOU
Let this message get to the Good Women Leader and Mens Fellowship Leader and let them share it on their various group platforms so all married men and women will get it.

Let them discuss it at their meetings. The Lord will keep our homes, marriages and keep us pure to reign with Him in Jesus name. Amen.

SOME OF THE DARKEST SIDES OF WOMEN YOU DON'T KNOW

1. A woman can never love two men at the same time. It is always one. If you are not, you are not. There are no two ways around. That is why you usually see two women fighting for one man they love.
A woman who loves you smells everything that touches you including your clothes.

2. The s*xual desire in women is usually more than that of a man. Don't think it's only men that desired s*x more than women. Women desired s*x more than us only that it's in their nature to wait for us to ask for it. That is because women don't want to face rejection, embarrassment and insult no matter what they always want until someone saves them and take the blame.

3. Women don't keep secrets to someone they love no matter what you tell them. No matter what she says, wait till she meets someone she loves in bed, somebody who knows them more than you, somebody who knows what she's capable of doing, somebody who knows that she wouldn't hide anything from him; that's the person she will tell.

And, again, shyness and tears are not a valid effects to determine if she's a good woman, because a woman can fake it like a boss. They are capable of doing that.

When you cheat on her and she doesn't hate you, she hates that woman you cheated with.

Money only impress lazy girl.
When a woman work hard, a man with money is a bonus not a ladder 🪜 to upgrade