Powerland School of Family Management

Seven Sundays of Just Worship.

Thank you Jesus.

A COUNSEL FROM A FATHER TO A DAUGHTER.
1. No matter how much a man loves you he will never love your indiscipline: Your financial indiscipline, s*xual looseness, carelessness etc.

2. No matter how stunning your look is, if your character is ungodly and unwelcoming your suitor will be unwilling to pay your bride price. Character looks good on you than cosmetics.

3. A man always wants you to be a wife before he can take you to his home. Being a wife is more than being a s*xual toy but neatness, spirituality, discipline, insight, kindness etc.

4. Always know what you want in a man before saying YES I DO. There is no such thing as "I JUST LOVE YOU I DON'T KNOW WHY"

5. Any man you can compromise for will find it hard to believe you after wedding. If you can offer him your virginity before wedding then you've traded your value. If you can't stand for "NO S*X BEFORE MARRIAGE" You have sold your trust after wedding.

6. You can't change any man because you're not the Holy Spirit. Why will you ignore all good and spiritual brothers in fellowship, church and your group only to claim you're attracted to a carnal, sensual and w***e on the street then you want him to change? You're very sick!

7. You don't look for money in a man but his manliness and the dignity of manhood in him. Be wise! Papa Zion gives you this eye opening keys.
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LADY, CHERISH THIS KIND OF MAN:

1. Cherish the man who loves his mum. He has been brought up well

2. Cherish the man who loves to read, and not just for exams. He is wise and deep

3. Cherish the man who is funny. You will never be bored

4. Cherish the man who treats strangers and the less privileged with dignity. He has a kind heart

5. Cherish the man who listens. You will be understood

6. Cherish the man whose idea of fun is constructive, not endless drinking and clubbing. He is mature

7. Cherish the man who is a family man ready for responsibility and clear about what he wants with you. Your time will not be wasted

8. Cherish the man who respects his father no matter how his dad is. He has learned true manhood

9. Cherish the man who doesn't insult his ex or your ex even if the break up was messy. He is someone who enters into love for the right reasons

10. Cherish the man who needs you. He will hold on to you

11. Cherish the man who lets you love him, who lets you see the nakedness of his weaknesses and strengths. He trusts you

12. Cherish the man who accepts correction and changes his ways if he offends you. He will make himself better to love you

13. Cherish the man who prays for you. He knows you are a gift from God

14. Cherish the man who treats other women with respect. He will show you even more respect

15. Cherish the man who loves the children you and also is a father figure to those not his. That man will have an honourable legacy

16. Cherish the man with a vision. He will challenge and build you, he knows where he is going

17. Cherish the man who has a good set of friends.You can tell the character of a man by the friends he keeps

18. Cherish the man who values intimacy above s*x. He will be faithful to you

19. Cherish the man who is interested in your dreams. He cares about your future

20. Cherish the man who respects your decisions and doesn't rush you. He sees you as a life partner, not someone to dominate

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DIFFERENT TYPES OF S*X IN MARRIAGE!

1. RECONCILIATION S*X:- S*x is a most potent weapon for diluting and difusing misunderstanding in Marriage. If you don't use S*X to settle some stubborn crisis, then you are missing out and not maximising it. In addition when you both settle a misunderstanding, the person at fault could initiate s*x as a way to make up to the other who was on the receiving side of the conflict.

2. HEALING S*X:- There are some sicknesses and diseases that are cured by good S*x I mean very good S*x. Healing s*x is gentle, it is full of grace and elegance. You don't rush it. Mbanu. You do it softly and it hits the bull's eye. Please Husbands, don't throw your weight on her if it's for healing, let the bed carry your weight 100%.

3. PUNISHMENT S*X:- When I counsel couples, are times I hear spouses say "Since he did that, I decided to punish him by depriving him of s*x", or "since she refused me, I decided not to touch her again". That is as senseless as saying "since my child failed a Test, I punished him by withdrew him from school". It's foolishness. The wise thing to do is to give your spouse more s*x as punishment rather than depriving him or her. When your husband or wife misbehaves, correct them using s*x. That is the best punishment. Not slapping or fighting or public disgrace. Punishment s*x is very hot. 😷

4. MEMORABLE S*X:- This is a very special kind of s*x that you organise and plan for. Every couple must be doing this once in a while. Honeymoons should be organised at least once is a quarter (once in 3 months). If you have means, do it once a month. You book a hotel for say 3-7 days and retreat to help build your marriage. A kind of Intimacy Retreat. You mustn't go to hotel if you can't afford it. Just send the kids somewhere and make it memorable. Light Candles around and on the blue or green bulb. Use good perfume and the Angels will bear you witness.

5. QUICK SURPRISED S*X:- This is a s*x that married couples should do often to bu

FACTORS TO CONSIDER BEFORE YOU MARRY ANYONE

Sometime last year I posted, "Don't marry anyone just because you love the person, love is not enough reason to get married. There are other factors to consider."

The post gathered some reactions both on Facebook here and on WhatsApp.

Some people agreed with me that love is not enough, while others disagreed.

Then many others asked me about the other factors that need to be considered before you marry someone.

So what I intend to do in this article is to show you the other factors you need to consider before you agree to marry anyone, aside love.

My intention for making that post was to help people to make sure all factors are considered before they venture into marriage to avoid regrets.

There are many people that got married only because of love but are now regretting that decision.

They were blinded by love but marriage performed a miracle on their eyes, now they can clearly see their mistakes.

What are these factors you need to consider before you marry?

1. Love

Because I said love is not an enough reason to get married doesn't in any way negate the importance of love in marriage.

It will take a book to explain the criticality of love to marriage.

No marriage can survive without love on the long run.

Anger, irritation, resentment, quarrels, frustrations etc., are inevitable when there is lack of love.

To show you the importance of love, almost a whole chapter of the Bible was dedicated to that effect.( see I Cor 13)

Love is one of the vital pillars that sustains a marriage but as we all know that one pillar doesn't sustain or hold a building, other pillars are needed.

So love is the first vital factor to consider.

Do you really love the person?

Do have feelings for this person?

Does the person also also feel the same way about you?

2. Compatibility

Apart from love another important factor to consider is compatibility.

Lack of compatibility is the leading cause of divorce around the wor

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