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26/05/2026

PHONE ADDICTION IS NOT ALWAYS ABOUT FUN 📱💔

Many parents bought smartphones for their teenagers… without preparing them for what smartphones would teach them.

A 14-year-old girl once said something that stayed in my heart:
“My phone understands me more than my parents.

That statement is deep.

Many teenagers today are emotionally attached to their phones not just because of entertainment…

but because:
• phones distract them from stress,
• social media gives them validation,
• strangers compliment them,
• online life feels easier than real life.

So when parents suddenly shout:
“Drop that phone!”

without understanding the emotional attachment behind it…

the teenager becomes defensive immediately.

Phone addiction is no longer just about games, TikTok, or chatting.

Sometimes it is:
• emotional escape,
• loneliness,
• identity confusion,
• silent depression,
• pressure to belong,
• or a cry for connection.

Some teenagers are smiling online while silently struggling emotionally offline.

Parents,
your teenager does not only need restriction.

They also need:
• guidance,
• emotional closeness,
• healthy conversations,
• activities outside screens,
• attention without constant criticism,
• and safe emotional connection at home.

Because if a child keeps running emotionally to a screen…
something may already be missing emotionally in real life.

This generation is growing up in a digital world that can shape their mindset, confidence, emotions, relationships, and identity faster than many parents realize.

And the truth is:
control without connection can push teenagers deeper into emotional withdrawal.

Teenagers still need discipline.
But they also need understanding.

The goal is not just to collect phones from them.
The goal is to help them not lose themselves inside the digital world.

We are raising teenagers in a generation that needs wisdom, guidance, emotional intelligence, and mentorship not only punishment.

Follow Learn with Faridah for teenage mentors

25/05/2026

Miss Faridah, what age is the right age to give a child a phone?

This is one of the most common questions parents ask me. And honestly, many parents already feel pressured because schools now give assignments online, children want to belong among their peers, and technology has become part of everyday life. But here is the reality many people avoid talking about:

Giving a child a phone is not the real problem. Giving a child a phone without preparation is the real danger.

A phone today is no longer just for calls. It is a teacher, an entertainer, a social world, a private space, and sometimes even a dangerous environment if a child enters it without guidance. Many parents focus too much on the age to give a gadget, but very few focus on the emotional, mental, and moral training a child needs before owning one.

Before handing over a personal phone, have you ever sat your child down to explain the advantages and disadvantages? Have you taught them that not everything online is real? Have you warned them about cyberbullying, online predators, addiction, inappropriate content, and unhealthy comparison on social media? Have you taught them self-control, discipline, and digital responsibility?

Because the truth is, a child with unlimited internet access but without guidance can slowly lose focus, confidence, values, communication skills, and even emotional stability without parents noticing early enough.

Yes, phones can help children learn. They can improve research skills, creativity, communication, and exposure to educational opportunities. But unmanaged phone use can also steal attention, damage concentration, reduce family bonding, affect sleep, expose children to harmful content, and create silent addiction.

Parents, this generation does not only need smart children. We need emotionally intelligent, disciplined, and self-aware children who know how to use technology without letting technology control them.

Do not use gadgets as replacements for parenting.
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25/05/2026

YOUR CHILD IS CHANGING 💔

One of the most painful things for parents is watching a child who used to talk freely suddenly become silent.

A mother once said to me:
My daughter stays in her room all day now. She barely talks to me anymore.

But when I spoke privately with the teenager, she quietly said:
“I don’t think my mum understands me anymore.”

Many parents believe teenagers suddenly become rude or distant overnight.

But sometimes, that child is:
• emotionally overwhelmed,
• confused,
• scared of being judged,
• or simply tired of being misunderstood.

Teenage years are delicate.

At the same time, they are changing:
emotionally,
mentally,
socially,
and physically.

And when every conversation becomes correction…
the child slowly starts disappearing emotionally.

Some teenagers are not avoiding their parents because they hate them.

They are avoiding conversations that make them feel unheard.

The dangerous part is this:

A teenager who cannot talk safely at home may start opening up emotionally to strangers online.

And not everybody online has good intentions.

Parents,
before focusing only on controlling behavior…
focus on rebuilding emotional connection.

Sometimes the child you call “stubborn” is actually emotionally lonely.

This generation of teenagers needs more than punishment.
They need guidance, listening ears, emotional safety, and mentorship.

If you want to understand your teenager better and help them become disciplined, confident, and responsible in this generation, follow Learn with Faridah or Ibrahim Fareedat for teenage mentorship and parenting guidance.

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01/10/2025

HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY

We honor the future leaders of our nation's children. Together, let's create a world where every young Nigerian can thrive.

12/08/2025

Celebrating a Remarkable Youth: Mariam morenikeji Akande
On this International Youth Day, we're honored to celebrate Mariam Akande from Learn With Faridah. Your dedication to impacting the next generation is truly inspiring!

Mariam's exceptional personality and ability to connect with young people make her a valuable asset. Her promise to always be there for impactful initiatives has been consistently fulfilled.
Not only has Mariam been available, but she's also provided financial support whenever needed. Her generosity and commitment to the cause are a shining example of what it means to be a useful and impactful youth.

From the founder of Learn With Faridah, we extend our heartfelt gratitude to Mariam for all she's done. We're proud to celebrate her on this International Youth Day, recognizing her value to our nation and the next generation.

Thank you, Mariam, for being a beacon of hope and a source of inspiration. We appreciate you and love you for who you are and all you do!Mariam Akande

19/07/2025

Parenting is not just a role it's a lifelong commitment of love, sacrifice, and intentionality.

Every time I hear parents complain about their teenagers’ behavior, I pause and reflect. Most times, it’s not about the child it’s about how the child has been raised and the environment surrounding them.

🌱 Children don’t just grow they are raised.
If we want to see better results, we must rethink our parenting approach, especially while they’re still young and moldable.

💡 Here’s what intentional parenting looks like:

✔️ Be Present Beyond the Provision: It’s not just about school fees and food. Be emotionally available. Connect with your child deeply — balance love with healthy boundaries.
✔️ Avoid Yelling or Beating: Frustration doesn't teach values. Respond with calm, clarity, and consequences.
✔️ Explain, Don’t Command: Children thrive when they understand why they are being asked to do something.
✔️ Create Rules Together: Involving them gives them a sense of responsibility and trust.
✔️ Let Them Choose Sometimes: Teach decision-making early. Their voice matters.
✔️ Listen Genuinely: When your child talks, pause and listen. Your response could shape their self-worth.
✔️ Be the Example: They learn more from what you do than what you say. Show them who to become by how you live.

✨ Your parenting style is shaping the future one choice at a time.
Don’t just wish for a better child; build one with intentional steps and loving guidance.

🎯 That’s why we’re inviting your daughter to our Holiday Training Program for Teen Girls (Ages 10–19)
She will learn emotional intelligence, self-worth, decision-making, values, confidence and so much more in a safe, fun and empowering environment.

📅 Date: This August
👉 Don’t miss this chance to invest in your daughter’s growth beyond the classroom.

17/07/2025

We live in a world where people spend so much on short-term pleasures designer clothes, fancy gadgets, endless entertainment yet invest so little in what truly matters: character, values, and the future of their children.

It’s heartbreaking to see people pouring their money into things that can be taken away, while neglecting what lasts forever—wisdom, purpose, and strong family bonds.

Some have money in their bank account, but no joy in their home. Some chase fame online, but lose connection with the children sitting right beside them.

Dear parent, the world may be changing fast, but your responsibility remains the same: raise children who are grounded, wise, and full of purpose.

Let’s start investing in what can never be stolen: character, mindset, and legacy.

💡The most valuable gift you can give your daughter is not a device—but direction. Not luxury—but leadership.

It’s time to focus on what really matters.

👉 Register your daughter for our upcoming Holiday Training for Female Teenagers.
This program is designed to help her discover her identity, learn real-life skills, grow in confidence, and build values that last a lifetime.

📞 For registration and more details, send a message to 09059096495

16/07/2025

Dear Parent,

Are you about to register your daughter for yet another summer lesson where she’ll just keep learning the same school subjects?

Pause for a moment and ask yourself:
👉 What else does my daughter need to thrive in life beyond the classroom?

She's been attending school all year Math, English, and Sciences. But this holiday is a golden opportunity to do something different. Something meaningful.

💭 What if this break could be the time she builds confidence, gains clarity, and discovers hidden potential?
💭 What if she could explore life skills that shape her character and open her eyes to who she truly is?

At Learn with Faridah × Mastery Quest, we’re not offering another boring summer class.

We’re offering The Teen Discovery Series a life-changing holiday training for girls aged 10–19.

Whether your daughter lacks confidence, needs mentorship, or is simply searching for who she is and what she wants, this program will help her:

✨ Build lifelong self-confidence
✨ Discover her talents and strengths
✨ Learn valuable life skills that academics alone can't teach

If your daughter is passionate about cooking, by all means, enroll her in a cooking school.
If she loves sports, support her with a sports academy.
But if what she truly needs is clarity, courage, and confidence — she belongs in our Teen Discovery Series.

📍 Location: Google meet
💰 Fee: N10,000
📞 Enquiries/Registration: 09059096495
🏦 Payment Details:
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Let her discover who she is before the world tells her who to be.

15/07/2025

I Wish I Knew This Earlier…. Let’s Not Let Our Daughters Say the Same

Dear Parent,

So many adults today are walking around with quiet regret.
Not because they’re not working…
But because they never got the chance to discover who they truly were early enough.

They were told:

“Just choose science or art”

“Be a doctor or lawyer, that’s safe”

“You’ll figure it out later”

But “later” came with confusion, anxiety, and wasted years.

Now imagine if your daughter could discover: ✨ Who she truly is
✨ What she’s passionate about
✨ Her natural strengths
✨ The right career path early before the pressure comes

That’s exactly what we’re preparing her for in our upcoming
🌞 Summer Break Teen Discovery Series

A special 4-week training built to help teenage girls develop:

Real confidence (not the social media kind)

Purpose and direction

Career clarity

Emotional strength

She will not only be inspired…
She’ll be equipped.

📣 This is the kind of mentorship we wish we had.

🗓 Starts: August 2025
📍 Venue: Google Meet (Online)
👧🏾 Ages: 10–19 years
🎯 Focus: Confidence | Purpose | Career Clarity | Personal Growth

✅ Let your daughter show up to life ready.
✅ Let her know herself before the world tells her who to be.
✅ Let her find clarity now, not in confusion later.

📌 Register nowhttps://wa.link/mih7l4. Limited slots. Get ready to enroll

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15/07/2025

🧠💖 Before She Grows Up, Let Her Discover Who She Truly Is...

Dear Parent,
Have you noticed your daughter shrinking into silence, doubting her worth, or hiding behind her phone?
In this fast-moving world, it’s so easy for teenage girls to lose themselves before they even discover who they are.

You’ve worked hard to give her a better life — but what about her inner life?
Her confidence? Her voice? Her dreams?

This is not another summer lesson.
This is Teen Discovery Series — a powerful personal development program designed just for girls ages 10–19.

🎯 What She’ll Learn:
✅ Self-Awareness – So she stops comparing herself to others.
✅ Emotional Intelligence – So she learns how to manage her moods and relationships.
✅ Public Speaking – So she can speak with boldness and clarity.
✅ Purpose Discovery – So she knows who she is and where she’s headed.
✅ Mentorship & Confidence – So she’s never walking alone.

📅 Begins: August 3rd – Every Saturday @ 8:30 PM
📍 Hybrid (Online & In-Person Options)
💡 Powered by Learn with Faridah × Mastery Quest Education Ltd.

💥 LIMITED SLOTS – This program fills up quickly!

🔗 Register NOW: https://wa.link/mih7l4
📞 Send us a DM or click the link to secure her space today.

👉 Let’s raise girls who know their worth and live with purpose.

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