21/12/2025
I attended a silver jubilee, a friend and a brother was celebrating 25 years marriage anniversary .
When they were called by the Mc ( master of ceremony) to talk on their journey through marriage,
The husband said something that caught my attention, He said " In our 25 years of marriage I have never beaten my wife, nor known someone else, my peace and the success I enjoy today is my wife encouragement and support.
His word left me wondering, this institution called marriage was meant to be honourable and undefiled.
The holy book told us, In the beginning he made them male and female and gave them instructions, wife's submission and husband love with this comes multiplication, resourcefulness and dominance.
But the opposite is the order of today, failed marriages, couples talking down on each other, exposing each others weaknesses, threatening each other with death, divorce is now celebrated.
This and more has taken over the social media space, and their gaining popularity and having a negative impact in today's world.
I always tell people around me, what you will not want people to do to you, don't do it to others, let's know our role and place in our homes and society.
The society we see today is a reflection of our individual homes, a child that steals from others , started from taking meat from his mom pots and money from his father's wallet.
The family is the foundation, Brocken marriages, is not an ideal thing cuz it's will likely give birth to Brocken children which has a negative effect on the society.
If you must separate, let it be in peace and love , and don't forget playing your roles in the life of your child , cuz the innocent child you brought to the world owes you nothing, but you owes your child everything.
Be the version you want in life
Uchenna Jason.
( Eze ugochukwu tuberu)