EsojayMentoring

Happy Birthday to my incredible videographer, Ella Mobile Videographer | Voice Over Artist | Creator 🎉

It feels like just yesterday we started working together through your VOICEOVER AND VISUAL CONTENT STUDIO IN LAGOS/ILORIN, but somewhere between the shoots and edits, you became so much more than a Videographer, a creative partner on my personal brand, mentee, or even a reverse mentor. You’ve become family.

To the daughter I never expected to find in this industry, your future is blindingly bright. Keep chasing the light, trusting your gut, and never letting anyone dim your sparkle. You are destined for greatness, and I can’t wait to see the masterpieces you’ll create.

Have a spectacular day filled with laughter, cake, and all the love you deserve. Here’s to a year of even bigger dreams and bolder adventures.

Two Comment Options for Ella’s Post

Option 1 (Heartfelt & Personal):

Happy birthday, Ella. Seeing this post just makes me smile. I know we’ve had a fantastic mentoring relationship, but honestly, you teach me something new every time you pick up a camera to capture my moments. Thanks for being a part of my journey. I’m so proud of the woman and artist you’re becoming. Hope you have the best day, you’ve earned it! 🥂🎂

Option 2 (Playful & Affirming):

Cheers to the birthday queen! 🥳 It’s been an absolute joy watching you level up this year. Keep being the boss you are, and remember, the world is your canvas, so paint it boldly. I celebrate you today! 🎉📸

Twelve days ago, Princess the Barber 💈 cut my hair at Barbershop in Ilorin 🇳🇬 and shared a video that got over 6,000 reactions.

Among the 57 comments, one stood out, from He said, “I had a conversation with him (referring to me) for about 20 mins sometime in 2020, and I was blown away. How about you put his haircut bills on me for the next 6 months?”

I smiled, liked it, thanked him in a comment, and moved on, because let’s be honest, we’ve all seen those “I’ll pay” comments before.

But this yesterday, I got THIS message from That_Barbergirl Studio. (Swipe to see the chat 👉)

actually kept his word. Not because I asked. Not because anyone tagged him. Because he’s a man of his word.

That’s not just generosity, that’s character. And it’s also a lesson, the conversations you have today, no matter how brief, can echo years later.

Thank you, name sake Soji, for the gift, but even more, for the reminder that mentorship isn’t just about advice. It’s about showing up.

And to Female barber (slide 3), the brains behind Barbershop in Ilorin 🇳🇬, this is what happens when you create a space so good that people want to sponsor others to experience it. You’ve built something special.

12 haircuts. 6 months. 1 lesson - Never underestimate the weight of a 20‑minute conversation.

I just got my pictures back from Catalyst Series 9.0 (August 28) and I’m still buzzing! 🖤🤍 The love that day was overwhelming, and honestly, I see why.

This look was a moment. The custom overcoat by BESPOKE AND READY TO WEAR DESIGNER IN ILORIN is a masterpiece, handcrafted with indigenous Adire fabric in black and white. Every single thread tells a story of heritage, craftsmanship, and bold style. Paired with a crisp white shirt and white trousers, clean, sharp, and letting the coat do ALL the talking.

And can we talk about the shoes? My JAVANNI SHOES Creepers Teddy Boy Lace Up Shoes stood their ground and completed the whole vibe. The perfect blend of tradition and edge.

The best part? The designer got SERIOUS orders that same day, and I love to see it! When we support local talent, we all win. 🙌🏾

This is the unapologetic, intentional, and always rooted in culture.

📸: VOICEOVER AND VISUAL CONTENT STUDIO IN LAGOS/ILORIN

Family isn’t just about who you work with, it’s about who you grow with. 🧡

Today, we Afolabi Ayodele Kevin Thisis Gbemisola Shehu Abubakar Mann Oluwadamilola✨ and Ganiyu Abdulahi gathered to celebrate and send off our amazing Accountant, Tobiloba Omodara Tobby Holameedae Omodara, as she relocates out of Ilorin. The Executive Management Committee shared heartfelt words, laughter. It was a beautiful reminder of the bonds we build at House 12.

As Tobiloba officially becomes a part of the House 12 Alumni group, we are reminded that once you’re part of this family, you’re always part of this family.

Here’s to new beginnings and lifelong connections. We’ll miss you, Tobiloba💫

House 12

Know these. Use this, and you will achieve a lot more, leveraging on the strengths of the various generations within your reach

This has been one of my best used strategies to lead teams.

14 Editions. 2 States. 1 Mission.

In the last two years, I have taken the “Lunch and Learn Networking” series from Lagos (7 editions) to Ilorin (7 editions).

Now, we are back in Lagos for the 15th edition to answer the question everyone is asking, How do I actually increase my worth by knowing the right people?

This isn’t a theory session. This is a practical guide based on real experiences and real results.

📅 Date: Saturday October 3, 2026
📍 Venue: Raddison Blue Anchorage, Victoria Island, Lagos
⏰ Time: 12 Noon prompt.

If you are in Lagos and ready to level up your network, click the link in bio to register, or send a DM for the link. Let’s make these editions the most impactful yet!