09/30/2026
Things I thought I’d be over by 50:
➡️ Job insecurity.
➡️ Endless job searching.
➡️ Crying because there isn’t enough money.
➡️ That anxiety you feel in your body when you don’t know where the next paycheck is coming from.
➡️ Wondering how someone with decades of experience can still be this financially vulnerable.
Starting over…
Again.
I think a lot of us were taught that if we worked hard enough, became educated enough, earned enough, built enough experience and climbed high enough, eventually we would reach a place called security. But what happens when you discover that security was tied to a paycheck someone else controlled?
That question changed the way I think about my own career and the way I coach.
I didn’t just want another good job.
I didn’t just want another six-figure salary.
I didn’t want to rebuild the exact same career structure that left me vulnerable to one decision, one reorganization, one eliminated position or one unexpected Zoom call.
I wanted a different kind of career ecosystem.
One where a job can be an important source of income, but not the only one.
One where relationships are built before they’re needed.
Where skills remain visible, relevant and portable.
Where there are multiple ways to create income from what you know.
Where financial margin is part of career planning.
Where community is an asset, not an afterthought.
Where we’re building options even when everything is going well.
Maybe the goal isn’t to find the job that finally makes us secure.
Maybe the goal is to build a career ecosystem strong enough that no single job gets to determine whether we are secure.
That’s the framework I’m working on now.
Because there are some things I never want to have to “get over” again.
If this resonates with you, let’s talk. I’d love to walk you through the framework I’m developing.