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For many people, speaking anxiety begins the moment they know they'll have to speak.

You see the meeting invitation

Someone says, "Let's go around the room..."

You're invited for an interview

It's your turn to introduce yourself

You hear, "Any questions?"

➡️ What usually happens next?

Pick the answer that sounds most like you, then tell me more in the comments 👇🏼

It can get frustrating 😖 when you know you have to speak

- One thought quickly becomes ten

- Your mind starts imagining everything that could go wrong

- Your body reacts before you've even said a word

- Your words get stuck in your throat, refusing to come out

- You wish you didn't have to do it because escaping feels easier than staying

✨ I've met so many thoughtful, capable people with meaningful ideas to share

Yet when it's time to speak, their mind and body seem to work against them

No one should have to go through this alone

Over the next few days, I'll be sharing something that's been on my heart

In the meantime, what's your experience been?

One of the biggest challenges of speakers I see isn't a lack of preparation.

It's what happens to your attention once you begin speaking.

You want people to hear your message.

Instead, your inner critic keeps stealing your attention.

"Do I sound nervous?"
"Am I making sense?"
"What was I going to say next?"

When so much mental energy is spent monitoring yourself, it's difficult to stay present with the people you're trying to reach.

That's one reason speaking can still feel difficult, even after you've prepared.

Has this ever happened to you? I'd genuinely like to hear about your experience.

You expect all that preparation to make the next speaking opportunity feel easier.

Instead, the same nerves show up again.

So you prepare even more.

At some point, it's worth asking whether more preparation is really the answer.

I've found that many people aren't missing another speaking technique. They're missing an understanding of why this keeps happening.

I’m going to show you the step that has helped so many of my clients stop guessing and begin moving toward speaking confidence.

If you'd like me to share more about this, let me know in the comments ⭐

Heart pounding. Face getting hot. Voice shaking.

You try to calm your body so you can speak clearly.

Most people focus on stopping that reaction.

I've spent years wondering about something else.

Why does the reaction happen in the first place?

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You can prepare until you know your points by heart

But the moment all eyes are on you, your brain can still shut down

I've heard this from many capable people over the years

They know what they want to say, and they've prepared well. Then the moment comes to speak, and the words just disappear

People assume they just need more practice. More preparation.

But they've already done that, and it still happens

So maybe it's time to ask:

Why does this keep happening? Why does my body react like this?

I've heard those questions for more than 30 years. They've led me to create something I've been wanting to share with you

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You know you have something valuable to contribute

Yet when the moment comes, you hold back, second-guess yourself, or stay silent when you wish you had spoken up

The 7 Secrets to Essential Speaking offers a different approach to understanding why speaking feels so difficult—and how to move beyond it

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"𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘭𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘦𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰" - 𝘔𝘢𝘺𝘢 𝘈𝘯𝘨𝘦𝘭𝘰𝘶
That's the whole idea behind Speaking Circles®

A small group gathers in a room. Each person takes a turn speaking—not to perform, not to impress, just to be received by people who are fully present with them, one person at a time

No script. No technique. No moment where you're managing how you come across

In the Circle, confident speaking comes from being met with an open gaze and full attention, exactly as you are

That's Relational Presence, and it's the heart of every Speaking Circle®

Join us in person on June 17

𝗠𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗲 "𝗖𝗜𝗥𝗖𝗟𝗘𝗦" 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗹𝗮𝗶𝗺 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘀𝗲𝗮𝘁—𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗮 𝘀𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗽 𝘀𝗼 𝘀𝗲𝗮𝘁𝘀 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗺𝗶𝘁𝗲𝗱