Labor Doula Services by Tori

Having a baby that is “too big” is not as common as it’s often made out to be….

Another beautiful baby born today!!!! No matter the method it never gets old!!!!

A doula can help you navigate all of the information out there about inductions. Your doula can assist you in making an informed decision about your care by providing evidence based information specific to your pregnancy.

Thank you! Breastfeeding Mama Talk this Is spot on!!

Breastfeeding is a skill—not a switch you flip

Yes, it’s natural. No, that doesn’t mean it’s easy.

There were days I cried more than the baby. Days I googled “Is my baby starving?” 14 times before breakfast. And nights I stared at the ceiling wondering if I was doing something wrong.

But here’s what I wish more people knew: struggling at first doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means you’re learning. Your baby is learning. And it’s okay if it takes time.

You don’t need to “just switch to formula” the second it gets hard—unless you decide that’s what’s right for you.

If no one else says it today: you’re doing an incredible job. It’s okay to struggle. You’re not alone.

Keep going, mama. You’ve got this.

—Amy

TENS units. Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation. Used in labor to help reduce pain sensation. This is the correct placement for labor. The nerve endings around our spine are thin and wet. Transferring information quickly to our brain. The nerves in our uterus are thicker and drier. Transmitting signals slower. The idea here is to stimulate the brain to pay attention to what’s going on on your back instead of on your contractions. The TENS does not stop pain or make anything numb it simply “tricks” our brain into focusing on the sensation on our back instead of our contraction. The use of a TENS unit during labor reduces the need for an epidural by 85%. Did you use a tens for your labor?

Thank you to all you wonderful Midwives!!! What would childbirth be with out you all?? Kindness, compassion, grace and wisdom. We are all grateful. ✨✨

Thank you Peaceful Birthing for this example of perceived risk vs actual risk!!

#repost • @thehypnobirthingcollective A reel shared by @miri_the_birth_nerd The risk of stillbirth at 42 weeks is 2-4 times higher than at 40 weeks, increasing from 0.15% to 0.35%. The risk increase sounds crazy, but the actual numbers are still small. It’s a big hype with small stakes. To put this risk into perspective, having a stillbirth at 42 weeks carries a similar risk to: Comparable Risks 1. Driving a car for a year 2. Being 65 years old 3. Regularly eating raw oysters for a year These comparisons help illustrate the absolute risk, providing a clearer understanding!!

C sections. For some they are the dreaded outcome after hours of labor. For others they are a medically safe option when a vaginal birth isn’t safe for mom and/or baby. Sometimes a c section is chosen and scheduled after a highly traumatic first birth. My point is, there is no right or wrong way to have a baby. There is no map or plan that will get you a guaranteed outcome. I can only say that I am always grateful for the advances in medicine and care that are available to us in the instances when intervention is required. This birth was a hurdle and a victory for this mama and I’m so glad that I was able to witness her strength in bringing a sweet little girl into the world!! Welcome little one!!!

Comfy shoes and cloudy weather. Perfect conditions for a new baby!!!

Breastfeeding basics!! It’s normal to feel contractions as baby latches and starts a feed those first couple weeks postpartum! Breastfeeding helps involution take place! Helps get your uterus back to pre baby size!

Come meet us Saturday at the grand opening of the Village Motherhood Company! Celebrate a much needed resource for New Mexico moms!The Village Motherhood Company

Empower your birth! Doula support makes a difference. Message me for details and availability!