05/26/2026
Far too many women are trying to survive on nutritional fumes and then wondering why they aren’t enjoying life + every event takes 3-5 business days to recover from 🥲
There was a period of my life where I thought being “disciplined” meant eating as little as possible and if I’m honest, I got really good at ignoring my body under that guise.
Hunger, exhaustion, brain fog, irritability, no libido, constant fatigue - those were all things I wrote off as normal and thought were just part of the process of shrinking into a body that maybe I’d *like* or possibly respect
And then I got smaller and realized I didn’t actually feel better and I didn’t actually like or respect my body anymore than I did before.
I didn’t feel strong or alive or more connected to myself - I was just existing in this constant low-energy state trying to earn my worth by being in a smaller body
And now, on the other side of that, it’s wild realizing how much of my life got better when I started actually fueling my body properly. My workouts feel stronger, my mood improved, my libido returned, my brain literally works better - I became a better partner, friend, coach, daughter, and honestly just a happier human in general
Bc my body finally had enough fuel to support the life I was asking it to live. And I don’t say this to knock on deficits or having a weightloss goal, but simply to serve as a reminder that our bodies are not meant to be lived in deficits for years at a time.
That’s why comments like “that’s a lot of food” don’t hit the same anymore - yeah, it’s a lot more food than I used to let myself eat. And my body, mind, performance, and quality of life are all better bc of it 🫶🏻
Your body isn’t asking for too much, it’s asking to be supported 🩷
If you’re tired of living in the cycle of trying to eat as little as possible while still expecting your body to perform at its highest level, my coaching is built to help you learn how to fuel yourself in a way that actually supports your goals + your life
✨ DM me “strong” and let’s talk ✨
05/23/2026
I think a lot of women are exhausted because they’ve been taught that taking care of themselves has to look extreme to “count.”
So they bounce between hyper-discipline and burnout, between being all in and completely checked out, and between trying to overhaul their entire lives overnight and then feeling guilty when they can’t sustain it.
Meanwhile the habits that actually change women long term are usually a lot less glamorous than the internet makes them seem.
✨ Eating enough protein
✨ Sleeping more
✨ Lifting consistently
✨ Going on walks
✨ Learning how to stop spiraling after one imperfect day
✨ Building routines that support your real life instead of fighting against it
I get that that stuff may not be trendy, but there’s a reason behavioral coaches have been saying for YEARS that the basics WORKKK 🥲
And honestly I think there is something so very powerful about a woman who learns how to care for herself consistently instead of constantly trying to punish herself into changing, because she knows she deserves more than she’s giving herself and is ready to stop fighting for dear life to be happy in her body
If you’ve been feeling like you’re just not sure how you got here and don’t want to spend another week/month/year trying to reverse it all on your own, DM me “HABITS” and I’ll send you my free Fatloss Reality Check to help you figure out what’s actually keeping you right where you are 🩷
05/18/2026
I personally curated your Monday vibe for you 🩷
05/14/2026
I know this post might surprise some people because on the surface, these types of products seem incredibly helpful: more data, more insight, more “awareness” about your body. And to be clear, I don’t think body composition scales are evil or completely useless.
But I do think a lot of wellness technology gets marketed with a level of certainty that the science simply doesn’t fully support.
Most of these scales are using estimation models that can fluctuate based on hydration, sodium, carbs, inflammation, stress, workouts, menstrual cycle phase, and even the time of day, yet people are looking at these numbers like they are hard facts about their bodies.
That’s the part that bothers me most.
Because I’ve worked with enough women to know that a lot of people are already hanging on by a thread emotionally when it comes to their bodies. They’re already overanalyzing every fluctuation, questioning whether they’re failing, and tying their self-worth to numbers they barely understand.
I’m not interested in contributing to that just because a sponsorship pays well.
If I promote something, I want to genuinely believe it improves someone’s life, not just increases their fixation on themselves. And while I think technology can absolutely be helpful in some contexts, I also think we’ve reached a point where people are outsourcing their trust to devices instead of learning how to actually understand their bodies.
Do you think wellness technology is helping people become more informed or more anxious?
I’d genuinely love to hear your thoughts in the comments!!!