09/10/2026
A great component of training is building a relationship with the animal you are working with we get to cultivate that and improve it with time and careful thought to the direction we want it to go in. Over the decades as society has changed and the way we view that relationship has also changed.
Like many I was started off being told, go be the boss! Show the horse who's the boss!, these were common phrases to be told. How we interpreted that was unique for me even then I sought to create a friendship with my horses where they had a voice but I still defined parameters under which they were allowed to operate near me. I did spend lots of hours in the fields just observing being near them loving them but also knowing to step away from certain behaviors. Let's face horse saying no to another horse usually is done with bared teeth and some heel action degrees thereof. They too define their relationships and also redefine them over time as they age. We often see the young horse trying to find his place with strong bites and hard kicks learning how much is enough or too much and where his limits are. As they age I noticed that same horse over time using less harshness and yet acquiring great results with just a sneer or a lifted hoof, only resorting to power kicks when the other options failed to yield the right results. A lot the way the masters educate on the use of our aids use the least possible add more as needed but back down to the least right away. This should encompass all aids from whips, spurs, seat, posture, and voice all things we do affect the horse if we are open to seeing it.
In studying the masters I note that many of them became softer, gentler with their aids with age and injury redefining for them how it's appropriate and how it can mis-shape a relationship with the horse. I feel this also happened with my relationship with the horses, I find now especially in this work using Raabe's exercises and explanation of his view of Baucher that in slowing things down to the very slow walk, halt using lots of transitions but carefully that I am more easily rebalancing, straightening, collecting the horse merely by helping him work through his body carefully. By going slower one step at a time like the ballerina at the ballet bar stretching slowly allowing her to feel correct posture and hold it develop it carefully, I too can find it easier to assist the horse more delicately. My aids more careful still need even more care and lightness to avoid moving the horse off the limb he leans on and making him fall on the opposite limb because my aid was too strong. It's fascinating work, though for many years when I start horses I have always in the last years started carefully from the stand still once mounted then added one leg aid to move sideways or forward one step at a time this is a huge expansion on that process. It creates a huge shift in work ethic with the horse. with his time to think increased he then shifts from distraction to extreme focus even noting changes in facial expression as he concentrates on what we are working on together.
It really increases my awareness of my own issues and how I can improve my clarity in requests to the horse, sensitivity to his response and understanding better how to restate things when the interpretation is off. So in my recent work you can see Qash offering some interesting responses like a very well articulated Spanish walk stride well connected with the hind leg also lifting very high, you can see him think to cross a leg and then carefully uncross it as he realizes that wasn't the request. It's very fun to feel this new level of connectivity as we build a better deeper relationship that I still form and shape but allow his expressions to help combine our thoughts and feelings together. Creating slowly a very specific relationship cultivated by of us participating in how it grows.
See what you think let me know after you watch this short work.
So As Qash and I work here and there on Raabe's Baucher exercises d...