10/19/2024
***Alignment V Gaslighting V Upper Limits ***
I hit an upper limit recently and realized I’d been totally gaslighting myself. I’d been holding back from publicizing every move and thought on social media—not because I didn’t have anything to share, but because it felt like a drain on my energy. I wanted to be more intentional about how I spent my time. Sharing every step of my journey just didn’t feel aligned anymore. I’ve been thriving quietly—working with aligned clients, mentoring in ways that fill me up, and creating so much peace, flow, and harmony in my life that adding more external noise felt counterproductive.
The thought of taking on new projects that required more focus and engagement felt like a disruption to the space I had carved out for what I truly love. And honestly, I didn’t want to fall into the trap of chasing the validation that comes with constant updates and “being seen” online. I’ve built something real, something that feels good to me—and that’s what matters most.
But then it hit me: it wasn’t about protecting my peace at all costs. The truth was, I simply didn’t want to keep moving in an energy I’d outgrown—one rooted in fear. Fear of missing out, fear of being irrelevant, fear of losing what I’d built. That hustle culture I used to thrive in? Yeah, no longer my vibe.
My last business coach tried to get me on systems and strategies that were supposed to bring ease, but honestly, they did the opposite. I realized her approach worked for her, but she was clocking 50-60 hours a week doing stuff I have zero interest in. That’s just not the life I want. I’ve built a business and life that feels good, where I work with people who actually want to grow and who value emotional intelligence. And I kept telling myself I *needed* to keep pushing to stay relevant, but eventually, I saw through it. I’m not missing out on anything. What’s meant for me will come in its own time, and I get to enjoy what I’ve already built. - and that belief was confirmed over and over. ❤️
This pause I’m in? It’s not about fear. It’s about clarity. I’ve let go of the old energy that no longer fits, and what
I’ve learned even DEEPER is that the energy behind your actions matters far more than the actions themselves. If you’re moving from fear or scarcity, that’s what you’re gonna get. But when you move from peace, authenticity, and alignment, you attract more of the same. The energy sets the tone, so it’s all about moving in a way that feels true to who I am now, not who I was. I’m all about allowing opportunities and growth that actually resonate with me, to flow in.
And now, I’m committed to saying YES only to the things that light me up. My fulfillment’s grown because of it—deep soulful convos with my besties, more time with family, my animals, and most importantly, me.
It feels aligned to share my process and journey now that I have even more clarity, and my hope is that it helps others in the same space. ☺️
I’ve been diving into self-care, expanding my energy medicine skills, and even reading *just for fun* again !
And because I’ve carved out this space, guess what? More old wounds popped up—big surprise! 😑😆
But this time, I’ve been healing them in ways I never could before. Old relationship patterns, self-esteem stuff, all came up to be worked through, (more on that soon).
As a result, I’ve gained so much clarity on the projects that I am creating moving forward in the coming months. They feel richer, more expansive and resonate in a higher frequency than things from a previous vibration. I have retired all but 3 of my old programs, and I am eager to see where these new creations take me.
I’m letting this journey unfold with intention and curiosity, and that is the fun of it all.
As always wishing you the art of a limitless life, tosay and everyday. ☀️
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